Namhlanje siza kukufundisa indlela yokujongana nabantu abazithandayo, ke ngoko, ngaphambi kokunikezela kwezi ngcebiso zilishumi silungiselele zona, Ndingathanda ukuba uyibone le vidiyo ngaphambili, abalinganiswa babo abona bantu bazinikeleyo emhlabeni: oomama.
Ngomso lusuku lukaMama, oluya kubhiyozelwa eSpain ngeCawa yokuqala ngoMeyi, ke sizise le vidiyo ibonisa ukuzincama kwakhe nawuphi na umama olungileyo:
[imephu]Sakuba siyibonile le vidiyo, umzekelo wokuzinikezela kunye nokupha, sizakuqhubela phambili kwipali echasene nobuntu babanye abantu: ukuzingca. Sobona Iindlela ezili-10 zokujongana nabantu abazingcayo:
1) Yamkela ukuba abanalo naluphi na uhlobo lokuqwalaselwa kwabanye
Bafuna ukuphumeza iinjongo zabo kwaye abakhathali kunyathela amalungelo abanye ukuze baphumeze into abayifunayo. Ukuba ufuna ukujongana nabo, kuya kufuneka uqale ngokwamkela: yinto ekwindalo yabo kwaye kunzima kakhulu ukuyitshintsha.
2) Dibana neemfuno zakho
Umntu ozingcayo uza kuzikhathaza ngesiqu sakhe, ke musa ukulindela ukuba angazincama ngenxa yakho. Ziyinyani "abaphangi beemvakalelo" abanokukutsalela emngxunyeni wokuphelelwa lithemba. Sukuba nexhala ngazo kwaye ufunde ukuzikhathalela.
3) Hlala unyanisekile kuwe, sukufikelela kwinqanaba labo
Musa ukungena kumdlalo wabo. Ukuba awukwazi ukuphepha ezi ntlobo zabantu, bambelela kwimigaqo yakho. Ubomi buya kukhathalela ukubeka wonke umntu endaweni yakhe kwaye uya kuba nakho ukubanika oko kufanelekile.
4) Kufuneka bakhunjuzwe ukuba umhlaba awujikelezi kubo
Ngamanye amaxesha bafuna isifundo ngokuthobeka ke kuyakufuneka sibakhumbuze ukuba umhlaba awubafuni kwaye bangabanye nje.
5) Bajonge iindlela ezintsha zokufumana ingqalelo
Kwimeko apho babona ukuba abantu bayabadlula, baya kuhlala bezama ukufumana indlela yokwenza umntu abaphulaphule. Ukujongana nomntu onjalo eyona nto intle onokuyenza kukungamhoyi kwaye uyakudinwa kukuzama ukuba nosizi.
6) Uya kuthetha kuphela ngezihloko anomdla kuzo
Xa kuvela isihloko onomdla kuso, uya kuba ngowokuqala ukuthetha kwaye uxelele bonke ubomi bakho. Nangona kunjalo, xa uzama ukutshintsha umxholo, uya kulahla ngokuzenzekelayo wonke umdla kwaye kuya kuba ngathi akusekho apho.
7) Lumkela ubabalo
Aba bantu bahlala becela uncedo kwaye baya kusibulela kwakamsinya nje ukuba senzile. Nangona kunjalo, kwimeko apho singabo bababuza, baya kwenza zonke iintlobo zezizathu. Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka sibathintele ekubalekeni kwaye singaze sibenzele izinto ezilungileyo.
8) Nciphisa ixesha olichitha nabo
Aba bantu bayonakalisa ngokupheleleyo ke awufuni kuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nabo. Ukuba awuziva ulungile xa uphakathi kwabo, eyona nto unokuyenza kukunyamalala kubomi babo. Fumana abahlobo abatsha kwaye ulibale ngazo.
9) Fumana abahlobo abatsha
Ngokuqinisekileyo unokufumana abahlobo abatsha abakwaziyo ukukuxabisa kwaye banike kangangoko ubanike bona. Ngale ndlela, ubudlelwane bobunyulu obunyulu kunye nobokwenyani busekiwe obuya kuhlala ixesha elide.
Kubantu abazithandayo oku akunakwenzeka.
10) usike ubudlelwane
Ukuba ufumanisa nyani ukuba olu lwalamano aluyi ndawo (nokuba bubuhlobo okanye ubudlelwane) eyona nto unokuyenza kukulusika ngaphambi kwexesha. Ngaba bantu awunakufika naphina kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo abayi kutshintsha ebomini.
Inyani yile yokuba eyona nto intle (ngokoluvo lwam) kukusika ubudlelwane okanye ukunciphisa umda kwi-MAXIMUM ixesha lokuvezwa kwabantu be-SELFISH (ngaphandle kokuba bayatshintsha, nto leyo inzima kakhulu). Ndicinga ukuba baninzi kakhulu abantu phaya abafanele ukudibana kufuneka BENYANZELE nabantu abazithandayo. Ukwanga, uPablo
I-Egoism luphawu lobuntu obunetyhefu, xa ufumanisa umntu ozingcayo uyaqonda ukuba emva kokuchitha ixesha kunye nabo, ukuba uziva uphelelwe ngamandla okanye uphelelwe ngamandla, kungenxa yokuba enyanisweni loo mntu akathandeki kuwe kwaye kufuneka uyibeke ecaleni.
Kucacisiwe kakuhle. Zizithambisi.