1) Sivumela "ukusilela" kwethu kuthabathe izigqibo zethu ezizayo.
Kukho intombazana oyithandayo kakhulu. Uya kwiklasi yakho kwaye awuyeki ukumjonga. Ngaba ungathanda ukuthetha naye, ukummemela uhambo ... ngokufutshane, funda ngakumbi ngaye ukuze ubone ukuba ungagqibela ngokuba ngumfana wakhe. Nangona kunjalo, uyalikhumbula ixesha laxa intombazana yayijongela kuwe xa wawuyimemile kwisiselo kwidisco.
Le nyani iye yafakwa kwimemori yakho kwaye ucinga ukuba zonke iinzame zakho zokunxibelelana namanye amantombazana ziya kuphela ngendlela efanayo ... kwaye awufuni kuphindaphinda ukusela okwesibini, ke qhubeka ujonge kwaye uyazi ukuba ngekhe ibe yeyakho.
2) Silandela isihlwele.
Kulula ukuba ungathathi sigqibo kwaye uza kuqhutywa kukuhamba. Silandela nje i "Ibhanki yeentlanzi" ngaphandle kokuma ukubuza: Ngaba le yeyona nto ndifuna ukuyenza?
Kwenzeka ntoni xa utshintsha ingqondo? Kuthekani ukuba amava akho atshintshe indlela ojonga ngayo ubomi? Akukho mntu ukhuthaza "ukuya ngokuchasene neenkozo." Sithatha indlela elula endaweni yendlela engahambanga kangako. Baye basibeka ngoluhlobo.
3) Sihlala sihlala kwindawo ekhuselekileyo.
Ukukhula, saxelelwa ukuba sinokuba yiyo nantoni na esiyifunayo ... kodwa kuphela ukuba silumkile kwaye silumkile.
Inzondelelo yethu yokwenza into entsha kwaye mhlawumbi inobungozi obuncinci yile nto siyifunayo.
4) Asinathemba.
Ubomi bunezinto ezintle, kodwa kukwakhona ukudideka, inzondo kunye nentiyo. Kukho izizukulwana ezipheleleyo kumazwe athile anethemba elincinci ngekamva elihle.
Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka bazi ukuba baninzi abantu abakwimeko efanayo abaye beza ngaphambili. Kufuneka ukhangele ube ngumzekelo kwaye uxelise amanyathelo akhe. Ngale ndlela kuphela apho baya kuba nakho ukukhulisa isityalo sethemba.
5) Asizimamameli iintliziyo zethu.
Intliziyo yethu icela ukuba siyimamele ukuzama ukufumana okondla imiphefumlo yethu kunye nokuphucula ubomi babanye nangayiphi na indlela esinakho ngayo.
6) Sishiya iiprojekthi ezininzi phakathi.
Sincama kutshintsho lokuqala kuba kunzima kwaye akukho siqinisekiso sempumelelo. Sihlamba izandla zethu kulo naluphi na uxanduva kwaye siyazithethelela ngokuthi, «Ndenze into ebendinokuyenza ... ayisebenzi nje».
7) Silibale "kutheni" wethu.
Uninzi lwethu aluzinikeli kwinto ethile ngaphandle kokuba sikholelwa ukuba siza kuphumelela. Kuya kubakho ukubanakho ukufezekisa oko sifuna ukufezekisa. Siyazilibala izizathu ezibangele ukuba sifune ukufezekisa injongo yethu.
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