Ngaba ukhe uzibuze yintoni ekhuthaza abantu ukuba baqhubele phambili beshiya lonke uloyiko lwabo ngasemva? Benza njani? Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba nawe ungayenza?
Omnye wamakhamandela aphambili esiwabelweyo kukuba asinakho ukwenza izinto ezintsha kuba sinoloyiko olukhulu lokungaziwa.
Ngokuqinisekileyo ukhe waliva eli binzana "Olu lusuku lokuqala lobomi bam bonke". Sisithethi esikhuthazayo esiya kusinceda sifumane amandla esiwadingayo ukuze sikwazi ukuya phambili.
Okulandelayo siza kukunika amaqhinga amancinci ali-10 anokusinceda ukuba sikhulelwe ubomi ngendlela eyahluke mpela.
1. Hlakulela ubuntu bakho
Hlala unyanisekile kwimigaqo yakho kwaye uya kuzifezekisa iinjongo zakho. Funda kwiimpazamo ukwenza ubuntu bakho bokubonisa ibhombu. Ngale ndlela uya kuba nakho ukuphucula isiqu sakho.
Uthatha isigqibo sokuba uzenzele njani ubuntu bakho kwaye akufuneki woyike ukukwazi ukumcaphukisa umntu ngenxa yoko.
Thatha ixesha lakho
Ukuthatha naliphi na inyathelo kobu bomi kufanelekile ukuthatha ixesha ... kodwa hayi kakhulu. Kuya kufuneka uphephe ukungxama kunye nokuthandabuza.
3. Yiba ngumlinganiswa ophambili ebomini bakho
Libala bonke aba bantu abathi ngekhe ufikelele kwinjongo yakho. Ungumlinganiswa ophambili ebomini bakho kwaye uyazi ukuba uya kuba nakho ukuphumeza yonke into obeka kuyo ingqondo yakho.
4. Vavanya iingozi
Kobu bomi kufuneka ubeke emngciphekweni ukuze uphumelele ... nangona kunjalo, qiniseka ukubala yonke imingcipheko ukubona ukuba inenzuzo yokwenene ngokusekwe kwinjongo ofuna ukuyiphumeza.
5. Funda
Nangona kweyokuqala sathi kufuneka sibambelele kwimigaqo yethu, kuyathakazelisa "ukuzihlaziya" ngolwazi olutsha olunokuba luncedo kuthi.
6. Iingcinga ezintle
Susa kuwe zonke ezo ngcinga zingalunganga ezibonisa ukuba awukwazi ukufeza umendo wakho. Layisha phezulu iingcamango ezintle kwaye uza kubona ukuba eyona nto inzima iphela sele ilula.
7. Ukuphucula
Le ngongoma idibanisa yangaphambili. Zama ukuzazi ngokunzulu kwaye uhlalutye zonke iinkalo zobuntu bakho onokuthi ubuphucule. Ukwazi ngokwakho linyathelo lokuqala elithathwa njengeyona nto iphambili xa umisela isicwangciso esinye okanye esinye ukuze ukwazi ukufezekisa injongo oyifunayo.
8. Nika ingqalelo kwiinkcukacha
Obu bomi buzele ziinkcukacha ezincinci ezinokungaqapheleki ukuba sibuphila ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngaphandle kokuzihoya. Ubomi abuqulathe ikamva okanye elidlulileyo, kodwa langoku. Thatha ithuba lokusingqongileyo yonke ukuze ufumane ulwazi oluninzi kangangoko.
9. Misela amaqhina
Akufuneki sikoyike ukubonisa uthando lwethu kubantu esibathandayo. Ayinamsebenzi nokuba ikusapho, uthando okanye imeko yendawo yobuhlobo. Soloko uxelela abantu into oza kuyithetha kubo. Awusoze wazi ukuba leliphi ithuba elinokuvela kwincoko.
10. Ndibulise kwaye ndlelantle
Molweni kwaye nisale kakuhle yindlela efanelekileyo yokunxibelelana. Funda ukudibanisa nabani na, nokuba awumazi. Ke unokwazisa abantu abatsha ebomini bakho abanokudlala indima efanelekileyo.