Umntu ophumeleleyo ngumntu owonwabileyo kuba wenza into ayithandayo kwaye uziva kamnandi rhoqo ekuseni xa evuka.. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu abajonga ubomi babantu abaphumeleleyo bajonge kuphela iitalente zabo okanye unxibelelwano lwabo kusapho okanye kwihlabathi. Ngapha koko, banokucinga ukuba abantu ukuba bayaphumelela, ngamanye amaxesha banokuba ngethamsanqa ngaphezulu kokufaneleka kwabo.
Nangona kunjalo, le ayisiyiyo le nto ufanele uyikholelwe. Abantu abaphumeleleyo baphumelele, mhlawumbi ngethamsanqa elithile, kodwa bayayazi indlela yokusebenzisa amathuba ababanikwe bubomi. Babenengqondo yokukhula ebavumele ukuba baqhubele phambili kwindlela efunwayo. Ukongeza, iinkolelo zabo ziye zafikelela kubo apho bebefuna khona. Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ukuba zeziphi iinkolelo abantu abaphumeleleyo abanazo? Ungalahli iinkcukacha!
Gxila kwinto oyifunayo ngokwenene
Ukuba ufuna ukuphumelela, sukuthembela kwikamva kuphela… ungazikhohlisi ngokucinga ukuba ikamva liya kukuvumela ukuba uphile into ekufuneka uyiphile! Akukho nto ngaloo nto. Kuya kufuneka wenze ikamva lakho, kufuneka uhambe kwaye wenze ngokweminqweno yakho.
Xa uSteve Jobs wayegxothwa kwinkampani yakhe, ngewayayekile. Wayenokuxelela abanye abantu ukuba "yayingelilo ikamva lakhe." Kodwa wenza ntoni ngokulandelayo? Kuba wayejolise kakhulu ekuphuhliseni itekhnoloji ukunceda ukutshintsha umhlaba, wasungula i-NEXT, inkampani entsha yekhompyuter, kwaye wasungula nePstrong animation Studios ... Ngubani ongaziyo ukuba ngubani uSteve Jobs? Ukufezekisa iinjongo ezinkulu, kuya kufuneka uyifune ngokwenene into oyenzayo.
Ndidala ubomi bam
Wenza ubomi bakho kuba unoxanduva lwe-100% kukhetho olwenzayo, nokuba luyintoni na. Abantu abonwabileyo bayayilahla indlela yokuziva benetyala kuba yingcinga enetyhefu, ezalisa ingqondo ngobuxoki obenza ukuba umntu azive engenamandla okwenza into, kwaye endaweni yabo bacinge ngezenzo ezijolise kwisenzo kunye nezisombululo. Abantu abonwabileyo bayazikhethela okanye bazenze ngathi bonwabile ngaphandle kweziphumo kunye neemeko ezibangqongileyo.
Ndiyayazi into endiyifunayo
Kubalulekile ukuba wazi ukuba zeziphi iinjongo zakho kunye nokuba ufuna ukufezekisa ntoni ebomini bakho. Akukho ngozi ukuba abanye abantu baphumelele kwaye bonwabile. Abantu abonwabileyo bazibekela iinjongo ezikhokelwa ngumbono ocacileyo wento abayifunayo ngokubanzi ebomini okanye kwimeko ethile, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, banomfanekiso ocacileyo wokuba bafuna ukuba okanye bavele njani ebomini (isiseko esakha isimilo). Baneengcinga ezibaqinisekisayo nezibomelezayo. Umzekelo, iimpazamo okanye ukusilela ngamathuba eFikelela kubungakanani bengqondo yakho yokucinga okanye ukubonakalisa ukucinga.
Ukusilela kukufunda kuphela, iimpazamo ziyafundwa!
Ukusilela okanye ukwenza iimpazamo kukusilela. Cinga wonke umntu ophumeleleyo odibana naye. Ngaba uyazi ukuba bakho abo babenethamsanqa lokuphumelela kwitrayi yokuqala? U-Oprah Winfrey wagxothwa emsebenzini wakhe wokuqala kumabonakude njengomboniso. UWalt Disney wagxothwa ngumhleli wephephandaba kuba "wayengenazo izimvo ezilungileyo." UVincent Van Gogh wathengisa kuphela ipeyinti enye ebomini bakhe. Ke kwixesha elizayo xa usilela, qhubeka. Abantu abaphumeleleyo kakhulu abayekanga, nawe ke.
Andisoze ndithandabuze
Indlela eya kumntu odumileyo nophumeleleyo inzima. Abantu bazokuhlekisa ngawe. Abasemzini baya kuhlekisa ngawe. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha nabantu obathandayo abacinga ukuba bayakukhusela baya kuzama ukukuqinisekisa ukuba ungenzi into oyithandayo. Yiva into abayithethayo, ewe. Kodwa sukuyithatha ngokungathí sina xa ucinga ukuba le nto bayithethayo sele ikwenza buhlungu. Ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka uhlale ukholelwa kuwe, nokuba kubonakala kwabanye abantu ukuba awukho.
Ukuba ndiyifuna nyani ndiza kufumana indlela yokuyifumana
UWalt Disney ucele iibhanki kunye namanye amaziko abolekisa ukuba amboleke imali ukuze aqale ipaki yomxholo wokuzonwabisa. Kuba wayengenayo imbali yamatyala okanye isibambiso, ngokwendalo, wonke umntu wamala. Akayekanga apho. Waboleka kwi-inshurensi yobomi bakhe kwaye wenza imbali.
Ukuziqeqesha kuyandichaza
Abantu abonwabileyo bayaqonda ukuba ukuziqeqesha kubalulekile kwaye benza konke okusemandleni abo ukuze baziqeqeshe. Bayazi ukuba umsebenzi uyafuneka, bayasetyenziswa ngokungaguquguqukiyo, ukwenza imikhwa emitsha elungileyo, kwaye batshintshwe yimida yakudala ethintela impumelelo yabo okanye iinjongo zakho. Ngokwahlukileyo, iipateni zokucinga ezingalunganga zenza iimvakalelo zokuziva zingalunganga, ezikhupha imichiza enetyhefu ekhupha amandla kunye zibulala iiseli zengqondo ngaphambi kwexesha.
Ndingumfundi notitshala wobomi
Abantu abonwabileyo bayaqonda ukuba, ngokungazi okanye ngokungazi, ubomi bumalunga nokufunda nokukhula, kwaye ngokungazibandakanyi okanye ngokungazi, umntu ngamnye osingqongileyo ungumzekelo. Bafuna ukuba yimizekelo emihle kwabanye kwaye, ngakumbi, kubantu abadala abancinci kunye nabantwana.
Ndifuna ukuvisisana kunye nokulingana kwizigqibo endizenzayo
Abantu abonwabileyo bayaluqonda ukhetho lomzuzu nomzuzu abanalo kwinqanaba lolonwabo, impilo kunye nokuba sempilweni. Imalunga nokulingana kunye nendlela yokucinga eyenza ukuba iimvakalelo ezizezona zilungileyo ngomzuzu othile, ukubavumela ukuba banxibelelane nengqondo yabo yearhente, bathembe amandla abo okwenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo, Kwakhona bafunde kwiimpazamo, njengoko "benza ingqiqo" kumava obomi.
Andilindelanga nto, ndi… ndenza awam amathuba
Mhlawumbi uxelelwe ukuba "hayi" amaxesha amaninzi kwiprojekthi okanye kwisicelo somsebenzi. Zininzi izinto ezingamkelekanga onokuthi ucinge ngokuzijula ngetawuli ... Mhlawumbi bakuxelele i-100 hayi kodwa mhlawumbi ixesha lama-101 lelona likothusayo kwaye une "ewe" olinda ixesha elide.