Ngokuqinisekileyo uyazi ukuba sonke sinothotho lweemvakalelo ezisisiseko ezisincedayo ukusuka ebuntwaneni ukuba siziqonde kunye nehlabathi elisingqongileyo. Ngokwenyani, ilizwe leemvakalelo linzima ngakumbi kwaye libanzi. Basinceda ukuba sizilawule ngaphakathi kuthi xa siqonda ukuba kutheni siziva sinovakalelo olunye hayi olomzuzwana.
Ndiziva ndilungile yonke imihla
Bonke abantu bafuna ukuziva bonwabe kobu bomi, kodwa ukwenza njalo kufuneka bazive kakubi ngamanye amaxesha. Ngapha koko, ukuze sizixabise iimvakalelo esizivayo njengezilungileyo, kufuneka nathi sibe neemvakalelo zokubi. Benza isigqibo ngendlela oziva ngayo. Kuqhelekile ukuba iimvakalelo ziziphindaphinde kaninzi ... yonke imihla oziva ngayo. Umgangatho wobomi bakho uya kuxhomekeka ikakhulu kwiimvakalelo oziva mihla le.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele iimvakalelo zakho kwaye ubone ukuba ngaba kukho iimvakalelo ongafuniyo ukuziva rhoqo. Ke zeziphi izizathu kwaye ungazitshintsha njani? Zithini iimvakalelo ozifuna ngakumbi kwaye ungazenza njani?
Xa ungazibonakalisi kwiimvakalelo zakho, unokubambeka kwimeko yeemvakalelo ungafuni nokuzazi. Iimvakalelo zezokwexeshana kwaye xa imvakalelo, enjengosizi, ihlala ixesha elide kakhulu, kukho into engalunganga ngokwenene.
Iimvakalelo zikubonisa eyona ndlela yokulandela ukuze ukwazi ukuziva ulungile maxa onke, ukuba uyabahoya ukulungisa into ekwenza uzive ungalunganga, imeko yakho iya kuba mbi. Umzekelo, ukuba uziva unxunguphele ngenxa yokuba ishishini lakho lingasebenzi kakuhle kwaye akukho nto uyenzayo ukuyilungisa, uya kuva uxinzelelo ixesha elide, imvakalelo enokuthi ichaphazele imeko yakho ngaxeshanye. Ke ngoko, Kububulumko ukuhlengahlengisa ngokufanelekileyo ukuphulaphula ngenyameko kwiimvakalelo zakho ezingapheliyo.
Iimvakalelo
Iimvakalelo ziyinxalenye yengqondo yakho. Ngokusisiseko, zizinto ezenziwa ngumzimba wakho kwimicimbi yangaphandle okanye yangaphakathi (iingcinga zakho). Zisekwe kutoliko lwezi ziganeko hayi kumnyhadala ngokwawo. Ingqondo yakho izama ukuphendula umbuzo othi, "Ithetha ukuthini loo nto?" Kwaye impendulo ngunobangela weemvakalelo zakho ezivela.
Oku kuthetha ukuba awulilo ikhoboka kwiimvakalelo zakho. Ungasithatha isigqibo sokuba usabela njani kubo, xa kufuneka nenze nini kwaye xa ningenzi. Ewe ayisiyonto ilula leyo. Kodwa ngokwazi umsantsa ophakathi kwempembelelo kunye nokuphendula, unokufumana ngakumbi ulawulo malunga nendlela oyila ngayo kunye nokuphendula kwiimvakalelo zakho.
Zithetha ntoni iimvakalelo zakho?
Iimvakalelo zikwayinkqubo yempendulo yomzimba wakho. Xa unemvakalelo elungileyo, kufana nomvuzo wokwenza into elungileyo. Iimvakalelo ezingalunganga ziimpawu ezisuka emzimbeni wakho ukuba kuya kufuneka utshintshe into kwaye wenze izinto ngokwahlukileyo.
Ngokucacileyo, yinto elula kakhulu ukuthatha iimvakalelo, kodwa iyanceda, ngakumbi inyani yokuba izinto ezingalunganga azithethi into eyiyo (njengaxa ucinga ukuba uyasilela okanye awunantsingiselo). Kodwa inokuba ngumyalezo wangaphakathi ukutshintsha into ...
Ngaba kukho umahluko phakathi kweemvakalelo neemvakalelo?
Xa bethetha ngeemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo, ngamagama atshintshanayo, nangona enezinto ezithile ezahlukileyo ekufuneka uzazi. Imvakalelo inokubonwa njengempendulo ethe ngqo kunye nangoko kwithuba elifutshane, ngelixa iimvakalelo zingaphezulu kwexesha elide lengqondo. Ngalo ndlela, uvuyo luya kuba yimvakalelo, ngelixa ulonwabo luya kuba yimvakalelo efanayo.
Nokuba yeyiphi indlela, ndicinga ukuba ukwahlula iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo kudala ukudideka ngakumbi ke kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba ziyafana. Kukho iimvakalelo oziva mihla le, kwaye kuya kufuneka ujonge ukuba uyafuna ukuziva ngokusisigxina, okanye hayi.
Iimvakalelo ezifanelekileyo ngokuchasene neemvakalelo ezingalunganga
Ngokwenyani azikho 'iimvakalelo ezilungileyo' okanye 'iimvakalelo ezingalunganga', zonke 'ziziimvakalelo' kwaye ziyimfuneko ukuze ukwazi ukuziqonda ngcono ngaphakathi. Ngokunjalo, ingumbono olungileyo ukufunda ukwahlula ezo zisenza sizive silungile okanye sinokuthi 'ziimvakalelo ezakhayo' okanye ezo zisenza sizive kakubi okanye 'iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo' ezikwenza uzive ulungile. Babonisa ukuba kukho into ebomini bakho engaguqukiyo kakuhle kwaye kufuneka utshintshe.
Apha ngezantsi uyakufumana uluhlu ezimbini, eyokuqala yeemvakalelo ezakhayo kwaye eyesibini yeemvakalelo ezingalunganga. Phonononga imvakalelo nganye kwaye ubhale okuhle kunye nezinto ezi-5 oziva ngazo ixesha elininzi kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla ephepheni.
Iimvakalelo ezintle
- amor
- Uvuyo
- Isisa
- Kuchaphazelekayo
- Uvuyo
- Imfesane
- I-Esperanza
- Inkululeko
- Impumelelo
- Lungisa
- Uxabiso
- Ukwamkelwa
- Ukulunga
- Ukunconywa
- Uxabiso
- Isisa
- Uxinzelelo
- UAlivio
- Ikratshi
- Uvelwano
- Ingqibelelo
- Isinamathiselo
- Ukwanela
- Imvisiswano
- Ukunyaniseka
- Ukuthobeka
- Ukugxila
- Ubushushu
- Ukunyamezelana
- Isizathu
- U lonwabo
- Ukuqina
- Fortaleza
- Autonomia
- Ukuhlonipha
- Ithemba
- Ukwaneliseka
- Khu seleko
- Uvelwano
- Molo
- Yixabise
- Ukuqonda
- Inzondelelo
- Ubumbano
- Intlonipho
- Umdla
- Uxolo
- Ukubeka
- Ukuzinikela
- Ukhuphiswano
- Ukugcwala
- Imincili
- Ukulahlekiswa
- Inzala
- U ku kholosa
- Lumka
- Inkxaso
- Isidima
- Unamandla
- Ukwaneliseka
Iimvakalelo ezingalunganga
- Usizi
- Melancholia
- Ukulahlwa
- Ukukruquka
- Ukuphathwa gadalala
- Isidingo
- Ukungabikho
- Ukunyusa imeko
- Uloyiko
- Ukukrakra
- Ingxaki
- Ndlongondlongo
- IAgobio
- Ukuthandabuza
- Ixhala
- Asco
- Ukuziphindezela
- Iintloni
- vacío
- Ukudinwa
- Ubutshaba
- Ukuthotywa
- Ukujongwa gwenxa
- Ubukrwada
- Ukuthantamisa
- Uloyiko
- Ukungcatsha
- Ukoyiswa
- Usizi
- Ukuphatha
- Ukusilela
- Uqhekeko
- Ukudideka
- Ira
- Isizungu
- Inzondo
- Rage
- Ukurhanela
- Ukuba sesichengeni
- Ubungangamsha
- Inzondo
- Umsindo
- Uxinzelelo
- Umona
- Ukuzinza
- Ukungonwabi
- Ukujongela phantsi
- Intliziyo ebuhlungu
- Ukungoneliseki
- Ukungazithembi
- Ukucaphukisa
- Umona
- Ukuxhamla
- Ukucaphuka
- Ukuxhomekeka
- Uxinzelelo
- Yoyisa
- Ukudimazeka
- Ukudimazeka
- Ukungabi naso
- Ukungacingi
- Ukudakumba
- Ukukhululwa
- Intlungu
- Inzondo
- Ukunyaniseka
- Ukufuna
- Ukuphoxeka
- Yinkangala
- Ukudelela
- Ukuzisola
- Ukuphoxeka
Lo msebenzi unomdla ekubonakaliseni izizathu ezenza ezi mvakalelo kwaye emva kokuba zikwazi ukusebenza kuzo kwaye zijike zibe zezezintle ezikwenza uzive ungcono. Ukuba uneemvakalelo ezingalunganga, kuya kufuneka ucinge ngento onokuyenza ukutshintsha ubomi bakho kwaye uqale ukuba uphile kwakhona.
Kukho nezinye iimvakalelo ezaziwa njengezinto ezinokuthi zonyuswe okanye zincitshiswe ngokuxhomekeke kwiimeko, ezinje; ukungakhathali, inkanuko, umtsalane, ukumangaliswa, inkalipho, ukulangazelela, ukulangazelela, isibindi, ukuzingca, ukulingwa, umonde, ukumangaliswa, ukungahambelani, ukuthamba, ukuzola, ukuzisola… njl. Ezi mvakalelo zihlala zihamba neemvakalelo ezilungileyo okanye ezimbi ngokuxhomekeke kwiimeko ozifumana ukuzo.