Ngelishwa, kuluntu lwanamhlanje sihlangabezana ngokwahlukileyo iintlobo zokuhlukumeza ezaziwa kakhulu njengezinto ezigwenxa kwaye nokuziphatha ngokungekho mthethweni, kukho izixhobo ukuze abantu abachaphazeleka kolu hlobo lwesimo bakwazi ukusisombulula ngeyona ndlela ifanelekileyo. Emva koko, siza kuhlalutya ezona ntlobo ziphambili zentsokolo ezibonakala njengezona zixhaphakileyo kuseto olukhulu.
Uninzi lweendlela zokuhlukumeza
Sinikezela uluhlu lwezona ntlobo zixhaphakileyo zokuhlukumeza eziye zaqatshelwa luluntu nangamaziko oluntu njengeendlela zokuziphatha ezinokuchaphazela kakubi ubomi bexhoba.
Ukuxhatshazwa
Siqala uluhlu ngolunye lwe uninzi lweentlobo zokuxhaphaza ngokuchanekileyo ukuxhaphaza, okwaziwa ngokuba yi-anglicism yokuxhaphaza.
Kule meko sifumana umdlalo wamandla apho umntu omnye okanye abangakumbi baba ngabaxhaphazi ngokwesoyikiso kunye nokuhlukumeza ixhoba, okoko nje kwenzeka kwimeko yesikolo.
Ngokuyinene, umxhaphazi uziva eyonwabile ngokubandezeleka komntu ophethwe gadalala, ukususela kudala umbono wokuqaqamba owanelisa ezinye iimfuno ongaziyo okanye owalayo ukuyamkela.
Ukuhlukunyezwa esikolweni okanye ukuxhatshazwa ngumcimbi obaluleke kakhulu kuba ukuqhubeka nokuhlukumeza ixhoba elithile kunokude kukhokelele ekuzibulaleni kwezinye iimeko, ke kufuneka kubonwe ngokukhawuleza kwaye kwaziswe abantu okanye abasemagunyeni abanokuthi benze kwaye basombulule imeko.
Ngokubanzi, olu hlobo lokuhlukumeza luya kuba Ukuxhatshazwa kwemiba yokuzithembaKe ngale mvakalelo yongamileyo uzama ukwanelisa isidingo sokuzithemba. Ukongeza, kuqhelekile kakhulu kwezi meko ukuba utata okanye umama wabangcungcuthekisi ngabantu abahlukumezayo, kukho ukungqubana okukhulu phakathi kwabazali nabantwana, njalo njalo.
Kwaye, enye into ngu Ukungabikho kwamaxabiso kwicala lomhlaseli, ingxaki ehlala inemvelaphi yokungabikho kwenkxalabo yabazali ngemfundo yabo.
Kule meko sinokuzifumana zombini ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni njengaye ukuxhatshazwa kwengqondo, kwaye kaninzi iyakuba yinhlanganisela yazo zombini.
Ukuxhatshazwa emsebenzini
Into efana nale siyifumanayo ngokuxhaphaza emsebenzini, ekwabizwa ngokuba kukuhlukumeza, uhlobo lokuxhaphaza oluhlala lwenzeka ngokwasemphefumlweni, kodwa luqhele ukulandela iipateni zomntu ohluphayo esikolweni, oko kukuthi, umntu oswele amaxabiso kunye nemigaqo onokuba nembali ende ukuxhatshazwa kwaye oko kuhlala kusekwe kukhangelo lokuzithemba.
Oku kungathembeki kudla ngokuguqulela kwezi meko njengoloyiko lokuba abanye abantu bangathatha indawo yabo okanye banqatshwe okanye banqunyelwe kwisikhundla sabo somsebenzi.
Oko kukuthi, oku kuhlukunyezwa kuhlala kugxile kuloyiko lokuphulukana nento umntu anayo okanye angabinako ukuyiphucula emsebenzini ngenxa yokuba nemvakalelo yokujongela phantsi phambi kwexhoba.
Ukuhlukunyezwa emsebenzini kunokuthathwa njengokuziphatha kakubiKe ngoko, abasemagunyeni ekufuneka bejongile le meko kufuneka baziswe.
Ukuhlukunyezwa ngesondo
Ngokucacileyo asinakudwelisa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeSexual Harassment ukuba asiyibandakanyi iSexual Harassment, enye yezona zaziwayo kwaye ikwakhuthazwa kukukhangela imvakalelo yokuphakama kunexhoba.
Akumelanga sibhidanise ukukhathazwa ngokwesini kunye nokudlwengulwaOko kukuthi, iSexual Harassment akunyanzelekanga ukuba ibandakanye naluphi na uhlobo lokudibana emzimbeni, kodwa inokuthetha ngomlomo okanye nokuba kungokuziphatha okanye indlela yokucinga, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo isini asihlukanga kule meko, oko kukuthi, bobabini ixhoba kunye nomxhaphazi Yiba ngamadoda okanye abafazi.
Njengakumatyala angaphambili, kufuneka silumke kakhulu ekufumaneni i-Sexual Harassment kwaye sisombulule ingxaki ngokukhawuleza, kunye nomxhaphazi onoxanduva olusemthethweni kwezi meko mabaphendule kuzo kwabasemagunyeni.
Ukuxhatshazwa kwi-intanethi
Ukugqiba uluhlu lwethu lokuhlukumeza sinobundlobongela nge-intanethi, enye indlela yokuxhaphaza ekwabizwa ngokuba yi-cyberbullying, kwaye ngokusisiseko ikwayinto efanayo ukuxhaphaza kodwa, endaweni yokuqhutywa kwimeko yesikolo, kwenzeka nge-Intanethi. indlela yokuba umntu okanye abantu abaliqela bahlasele omnye ngenjongo yokulawula isimilo sabo nokubenzakalisa.
Ukuxhatshazwa kwi-intanethi kuhlala kwenzeka kwimidiya yoluntu, ukufuna ukuhlazisa ixhoba, ukulithuka, ukulihlukumeza kwanokulusongela, ukuze kungabikho nje inani elikhulu lamangqina, kodwa nayo yonke into ibhaliwe, kwaye ixhoba linokuxela imeko yokuhlukunyezwa ngqo kwinethiwekhi yoluntu. ngokwayo, eya kuba nguye ophetheyo ukuthatha indawo kwindawo yokuqala ngokunqumamisa isenzo esingqongileyo, kunye nokubonelela, ukuba kukho imfuneko, lonke ulwazi olucelwe ngabasemagunyeni kwimeko apho inkqubo yezomthetho ingenisiwe.
Ungajongana njani nalo naluphi na olu hlobo lokuhlukumeza
Xa ujamelene nokuhlukunyezwa, nokuba singalixhoba okanye lingqina, kufuneka sisebenze ngenkani kwaye sithathe isigqibo, kuba amaxesha amaninzi umhlukumezi uhlala eyigwala kwaye enolu hlobo lokuziphatha ukwanelisa ukungazithembi nokufihla oku kuyinyani zombini phambi kwabanye njengaye.
Ngeso sizathu, amangqina kunye nalowo uxhatshazwayo akufuneki boyike ukujongana nolu hlobo lomntu, kwaye kwimeko yokuthandabuza, abasemagunyeni banokubhenela ekuqaliseni inkqubo yesivumelwano malunga nokupheliswa kwendlela yokuziphatha okanye , ukuba akunjalo, kuya kuvulwa inkqubo eya kuthatha amanyathelo ngokuchasene nomxhaphazi.
Njengoko besitshilo, umhlukumezi uhlala evela kusapho olunobundlobongela, yiyo loo nto ngamanye amaxesha kubhetele ukuqhuba ngokuthe ngqo kwinkqubo yenkundla, ngaloo ndlela kuthintelwe ukuba imeko ibe mandundu.
Amangqina angathathi nxaxheba ngokuchasene nokuhlukunyezwa (nokuba luhlobo luni na), ayasebenzisana nomhlukumezi, kuba, ukuba iqela liyaphikisana kwaye liyibonisa kakuhle phambi komhlaseli, kuyakwanela ukuba anikezele indlela oziphethe ngayo.
Ngayiphi na imeko, Ukuba sivakalelwa kukuba singamaxhoba okuphathwa gadalala, kufuneka sikwazise kubantu abasingqongileyo ngaphandle koloyiko okanye iintloni, kuba yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokusombulula ingxaki ngaphambi kokuba ifike kwisimo esibi kakhulu kwaye ibangele iingxaki ezinkulu kuthi nakulo naliphi na iqela elibandakanyekayo.
Molweni, bendilixhoba lokuxhatshazwa ngokwesini ngumfundisi wecawe yePentekoste…. Into endinokuyenza