Iindidi ezi-4 zothando ngokwamaGrike

NgokwamaGrike, Uthando luluvo olungaqondakaliyo oluyinxalenye yobomi bomntu wonke, ukuba ngoyena mntu uphambili uxanduva lotshintsho kunye nokwenza izigqibo ngalo lonke ixesha siphila. Ngale ndlela nangaphandle kokutsalwa komqondo, zine iindidi zothando ezahluke kakhulu phakathi kwabo zibonisa izinto ezithile ezinomdla kakhulu ekufuneka uzazi.

Uthando lwe-Agape

Uthando lwe-Agape aluthandabuzeki ukuba lolona thando lunzulu nolunokwenene olunokuthi umntu afumane amava, kuba unombono obanzi ngakumbi kwihlabathi jikelele kwaye ubanzi kunezinye iintlobo ezintathu zothando.

Ngokusisiseko sithetha ngemvakalelo ezalwe ngokubhekisele kumbono wendalo iphela njengothando esiluva ngendalo uqobo, uthando esiluva kuthixo okanye uthando esinokuluva ngalo lonke uluntu.

Kufuneka iqatshelwe into yokuba, ngaphandle kwakwiimeko ezithile, uthando lwe-agape luthando olunceda kakhulu umntu oluvayo, kuba lunakho ukutyebisa kunye nokuvula ingqondo ngaphandle koloyiko kunye nethuba lokwazi izinto ezintsha kwezinye ngekhe sibe nesibindi sokumelana nayo.

Kwelinye icala, olunye lweempawu oluchaza into yokuba sithetha ngohlobo lothando olonakeleyo kuluntu lwanamhlanje, kwaye isizathu salo monakalo sisisiseko sentiyo, uloyiko kunye nokunganyamezelani. Kunye nobuxoki abantu abaninzi abafuna ukubonisa ukuba banalo olu hlobo lothando ngaphakathi kubo, xa ngokwenyani bekwenza oko ukwanelisa iqela elithile.

Zonke ezi ndlela zokuziphatha zenza ukuba umntu asondele kwaye angavumeli ukuba aqhubeke kwaye alwazi olu hlobo lothando ngolwandiso, ukuze lufumaneke nakubani na kuthi, kodwa asinakuze silufumane kuba asizanga sikholelwa ngamandla kulo.

Uthando eros

Ngokuphathelele Uthando lwe-eros lumalunga nolunye uhlobo lothando olunzulu kodwa ngokubanzi inempawu yokuba yindlala, oko kukuthi, ngendlela efanayo efika ngayo, iphela ishiya.

Esinye sezithako esondla olu thando ngokuchanekileyo ngumnqweno kunye nomnqweno wenyama wabo bonke abantu, ukongeza kwinto yokuba, kwimeko yomntu, uyondliwa ngokulungiswa komntu kunye nemeko apho Sidibana ngawo kanye lo mzuzu.

Ukunika abafundi bethu umbono, uthando lwe-eros sisiseko se uthando lwesini, ke luhlobo lothando olo olukhokelela ekudibaneni ngokwesondo ngamanye amaxesha kunye nokungathembeki.

Uthando philia

Ngoku sijikela kuthando lwe-philia, olo luthando esiziva nalo ngommelwane wethu. Ngale ndlela, unokubona ukuba iya kufana nothando lwe-agape, kodwa kule meko singathetha ngokwembono ethe ngqo, kuba yimvakalelo ezelwe isiya kumntu othile okanye nakwiqela elithile, kwaye iyondla kubumbano kunye noMzalwana.

Olu hlobo luthando luxatyiswe kakhulu kwaye luyacetyiswa kakhulu kubo bonke abantu, kuba luthathwa njengoluhlobo lothando oluvela kokulungileyo kunye nokuzithemba, ukuze aba bantu bazame ukunceda abo bakungqongileyo ngaphandle kufuneka ulindele nantoni na ukuba ibuye.

Kule nto, izinto ezithile ezinje ngentsebenziswano, imbeko kunye nobubele kufuneka zisetyenziswe, zonke zingekho ngandlela ithile kuninzi lwabemi, nangona enyanisweni kubalulekile ukuthathela ingqalelo ukuba basaphila kubo bonke abantu, ke ukuba umntu owalathiswe kakuhle ngolu hlobo unokuziva olu thando kwaye atshintshe ngokupheleleyo ubomi bakhe kunye nolwalamano nabanye.

Uthando storgé

Siphetha ngothando lwe-storgé, olo luthando lobuzalwana, oluhlala ixesha elide kwaye oko kuthetha ukuzinikela kuthi nakwelinye icala lomntu.

Nangona kwezinye iimeko inokubakho ngequbuliso, kufuneka sicace gca ukuba olu hlobo lothando ngokubanzi ludinga ixesha elithile lokukhula, oko kuthetha ukuba into esiyaziyo njengothando ekuboneni kokuqala inokuba luthando lwe-eros, kunye nothando lwalo mntu esifuna ukuchitha naye ubomi bethu bonke, hayi kuba simlungele kodwa sokwabelana naye ngezinto ezinzulu ngakumbi, iya kuba luthando lwe-storgé.

Ukusuka othandweni lwe-storgé kuyakhuselwa kwaye kuthembekile, ukuze inganikezelwa kuphela ngokunxulumene nothando esiziva lulo mntu sithandana naye esifuna ukumanyana naye ubomi bethu bonke, kodwa nangokunxulumene nabo bonke abo bantu benza into ebalulekileyo Inxalenye yobomi bethu, kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke sinesidingo sokukhusela nokukhathalela ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na enye into.

Kufuneka iqatshelwe ukuba udidi esilungiselele lona lolunye olusekwe kwingcinga kunye nokuhlelwa kwe Iindidi zothando ngokwamaGrike, kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha kuye kwavela ezinye iindlela eziye zafuna ukubachaphazela ngakumbi kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke ukufumana intsingiselo yamanye amathandabuzo anokuhlala kwezi nkcazo zine okanye kuhlelo.

Nangona kunjalo, uluvo lwesiGrike lweentlobo zothando lolona lunyamezeleyo olude, kungekuphela nje ngokuba ludala, kodwa ngenxa yokuba, ukuba siyaziphonononga, siyakuqonda ukuba zibandakanya zonke izinto ezinokwenzeka, oko kuthetha ukuthini ukuba enyanisweni akukho mfuneko yokongeza ezinye iindlela zokongeza kuba ngendlela eya kuba lulwahlulo ngaphakathi kweeklasi zothando zamaGrike kuba kungenjalo siya kuba singasafuneki.