Ndingathanda ukuba uqale ubukele le vidiyo ilandelayo ndiyilungiselele njengentshayelelo.
Imalunga nesayikholojista uLaura Royo kwaye kule vidiyo uyasimema ukuba sifumane iitalente zethu zokuphucula ubomi bethu:
[imephu]Ukufumanisa kunye nokuphuhlisa iitalente zethu kungasinika inkuthazo kunye nomdlandla, kwaye ngombulelo wokwazi ukuba ziyintoni na, singazibuza ukuba singathanda ukwenza ntoni ngazo kwaye ufumanise ukuba yintoni injongo yethu kobu bomi.
Ukuba siphila ubomi ngokuhambelana namandla ethu okuzalwa okanye sishiya iindawo ukuze siziphuhlise, siya kuziva singena ukuvumelana y yimincili nemihla yethu yemihla ngemihla kwaye oku kuya kuba nefuthe ngqo kuthi ulwaneliseko lomntu y lonwabo.
Ndikubuza kwakhona IMIBUZO EMITHATHU endisungule kwividiyo ukuze ukwazi ukuphinda uzifunde kwaye uthathe ixesha lokuyiphendula ngokuzolileyo:
1) Yeyiphi le misebenzi, imisebenzi okanye iintshukumo ezithi xa uzenza zikwenze uzive ukhululeke kangangokuba ulahle umkhondo wexesha?
2) Zinto zini ozenzayo ezinomdla kwabanye abantu kwaye kulula kuwe ukuba uzenze kwaye azidingi mzamo mkhulu?
3) Ucinga ukuba unganegalelo lini eluntwini ukuba uphuhlise iitalente zakho zemvelo?
Ukuze ufumanise ukuba zeziphi na iziphiwo onazo, kubalulekile ukuba uzivumele ukuba uqhathwe ngu:
- indlela oziva ngayo unomdla, que
- iti inomdla y
- iti dibanisa nomzuzu wangoku kwaye ikwenza ulibale yonke enye into ngexesha laloo msebenzi.
Ndiza kukunika umzekelo wemihla ngemihla:
Masithi uyathanda kakhulu ukuya kwimiboniso bhanyabhanya. Xa uhleli kwisitulo kwigumbi lokuhlala ubukele imovie kwaye ibali likutsala, ungena ngokupheleleyo kwiscreen, ulibale yonke enye into kwaye uchonge omnye okanye nangaphezulu kubalinganiswa, uyahleka, woyike okanye ukhale ngokungathi ukuba ubuphila ibali abakuxelela lona.
Yile nto ndiyithethayo xa ndithetha ngokuba idityaniswe apha kwaye ngoku kwaye yenye yezona zinto zibonakalisayo uzenzayo into ebandakanya wena i-100% kwaye uyayithanda.
"Italente, ubukhulu becala, ngumcimbi wokuzingisa."
UFrancisco Umbral
Lo mzekelo we-cinema unokuchazwa kubomi bakho bokwenyani xa, unxulunyaniswa neetalente zakho zangaphakathi, ulawula ukuzinika indawo ziphuhlise, uzonwabele kwaye ufumane nokuphila ubomi obufunayo ngokwenza izakhono zakho zibe yindlela ophila ngayo okanye umsebenzi wakho.
Akufuneki silibale into yokuba le asiyibhedi yeeroses kwaye ukuba ukuphuhlisa ubomi obufunayo kwinqanaba lobungcali kuya kubandakanya umzamo omkhulu kunye nokuzinikela ekubeni unganikezeli ngokuzama nokujongana nobunzima onokudibana nabo.
Ndikucebisa ukuba uphuphe umkhulu kodwa ugcine iinyawo zakho emhlabeni.
UKUQALA unokumakisha uphawu lwe- ithagethi encinci kwaye ulwe ukuze uzinike ixesha lokuphuhlisa kwaye ukusuka apho uza kubona.
Kungenzeka ukuba uziva usoyika ukusilela okanye bazokuthini njengoko bendikuxelele kwividiyo edlulileyo apho sabona khona umxholo wokungoneliseki ngoBomi, kwaye kunokuba nzima kakhulu kuwe ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni le ikwenza wonwabe ngokwenene .
Umntu ngamnye wahlukile kwaye akukho ncwadana ithi yintoni eya kuvumela umntu ngamnye ukuba azalisekise ubuqu bakhe.
Kuya kufuneka uyifumanele ngokwakho kwaye ukuba awungekhe, umsebenzi wohlobo lwengqondo ozokuvumela ukuba uphinde uzifumane kwaye ulahle uloyiko lwakho.
Ndifuna ukwabelana nawe ngesicatshulwa ukubonisa:
"Ubulumko bokugqibela kukuba namaphupha amakhulu ngokwaneleyo ukuba singalahleki kuwo njengoko siwalandela."
UWilliam Faulkner
Umbuliso omnandi,
ULaura Royo, ugqirha wezengqondo