Imisebenzi yobukrelekrele bemvakalelo kunye nokuzilolonga yimizamo yokwakha, yokuphuhlisa, kunye nokugcina ubuNgcali boMoya (EI) Abantu abaninzi banomdla wokuphucula i-IE yabo, ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Ezinye zezona zizathu zixhaphakileyo zokusebenza kwi-EI yakho zibandakanya: ukufuna ukuphumelela, ukulungelana noluntu, ukwenza abahlobo abatsha, okanye ukuphucula nakweliphi na inqanaba lobomi.
Kananjalo, abantu abaninzi bafuna ukuphucula i-EI yabo ukuze baziqonde bona kunye nabantu abanxibelelana nabo kwinqanaba elinzulu. Akukho siphazamiso ekubeni ubukrelekrele ngokwasemphefumlweni, kwaye izibonelelo zinokuba ninzi. Ukuba ufuna ukuphucula ubukrelekrele bakho beemvakalelo kodwa ungazi ukuba ungaqala ngaphi, emva koko ungaphoswa yile mi sebenzi ukukunceda ufumane umbono wokuba ungaqala njani.
Okokuqala: iingcebiso kwizixhobo zobuNgcali boMvakalelo
Nokuba ufuna ukwakha ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo, ukukhuthaza okanye ukufundisa abantwana bakho, ukuphucula umsebenzi wakho, okanye nangaso nasiphi na isizathu, zininzi izinto ezenziwayo, izixhobo kunye nezixhobo onokuzisebenzisa. Kodwa ngaphambili, Kubalulekile ukuba ungaphoswa zezi ngcebiso ngaphambi kokusebenzisa imisebenzi ebomini bakho.
Iingcebiso zokuphucula ubukrelekrele bakho beemvakalelo
Ukuba injongo yakho kukwandisa ubukrelekrele bakho beemvakalelo okanye ukunceda abathengi bakho bandise ubukrelekrele babo (umzekelo, nawuphi na umsebenzi we-IE kwinqanaba lomntu), gcina ezi ngcebiso zisixhenxe engqondweni:
- Cinga ngeemvakalelo zakho;
- Buza abanye ngeembono zabo;
- Yiba ngumqwalaseli (weemvakalelo zakho);
- Sebenzisa "nqumama" (umzekelo, thatha ithutyana ucinge ngaphambi kokuba uthethe);
- Jonga "kutheni" (vala isikhewu ngokuthatha umbono womnye umntu);
- Xa bekugxeka, sukucaphuka. Endaweni yoko, zibuze: Ndinokufunda ntoni?
- Ziqhelanise, ziqhelanise, uziqhelanise
Iingcebiso zokuphucula ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo bamaqela
Ukuba into oyifunayo kukuphucula ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo kwiqela lakho, gcina ezi ngcebiso zisi-7 engqondweni:
- Yiba nenkokeli
- Chonga amandla kunye nobuthathaka bamalungu eqela
- Beka uthando kwinto oyenzayo
- Yakha imilinganiselo yeqela
- Ukuphuhlisa iindlela zokuyila zokulawula uxinzelelo
- Vumela amalungu eqela ukuba abe nelizwi
- Khuthaza abasebenzi ukuba basebenze kwaye badlale kunye
Ukongeza, kukho izinto ezintathu ezibaluleke kakhulu kwimpumelelo yeqela lomsebenzi:
- Ukuthembana phakathi kwamalungu
- Imvakalelo yesazisi seqela
- Imvakalelo yokusebenza kweqela
Ukuba kubonakala kuwe ukuba ezi zinto zintathu zinxulunyaniswa kakhulu nobukrelekrele bemvakalelo, ulungile! Awunakho ukuba neqela elikrelekrele ngokweemvakalelo ngaphandle kwamalungu akrelekrele ngokweemvakalelo, Kodwa kuthatha okungaphezulu koko: udinga imigaqo kunye neenqobo ezikrelekrele ngokwasemphefumlweni, imeko yeqela elifanelekileyo, kunye nomnqweno wokwakha ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo yeqela. Ukwenza oko, kuya kufuneka:
- Ukuqonda kunye nokulawulwa kweemvakalelo kwinqanaba lomntu ngamnye
- Ukuqonda nokulawula iimvakalelo kwinqanaba leqela
- Ukwazisa kunye nokuzimisela ukusebenza neemvakalelo ezingaphandle kweqela.
Kuya kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba ugcina la manqanaba mathathu engqondweni njengoko usebenza ekwakheni iqela elinengqondo ngokweemvakalelo. Khumbula ukuba ayisiyiyo kuphela ngabantu abakwiqela, kodwa indlela abanxibelelana ngayo nabanye kunye nabo bangaphandle kweqela.
Imisebenzi yokuphucula ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo kubantu abadala
Bhala incwadana yemvakalelo
Emva kokuba wazi ukuba ngubani igama lemvakalelo nganye kwaye xa ivela kwaye kutheni, lixesha lokuba uqale ubhale ijenali yeemvakalelo. Yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokwazi iimvakalelo oziva mihla le. Udinga kuphela malunga nemizuzu eyi-10-15 ngosuku, kwaye kungcono ukuyenza ngaphambi kokuba ulale. Uyakwazi ukuphonononga ukuba usuku lwakho luhambe njani kwinqanaba leemvakalelo.
Ukuba umzekelo uziva ulusizi okanye wonwabe kakhulu, bhala phantsi. Ngale ndlela unokucinga ngendlela oza kuziphatha ngayo kwixa elizayo ukunqanda iimvakalelo ezingalunganga. Uyakwazi ukuqonda ngcono indlela oziva ngayo, kutheni, kunye nento ekufuneka uyenze kwikamva ukuphucula isimo sakho sengqondo.
ivili lobomi
Ivili lobomi yindlela efanelekileyo eya kukunceda ukuba uzazi kwaye ukwazi ukulungisa into engakonwabisi okanye wonwabe. Uya kufuna kuphela imizuzu engama-20 ngosuku kwaye kulula kunokuba ucinga. Uya kuba nakho ukwazi ukuba yeyiphi na into oyifunayo kunye neemfuno zakho, ukuze ube nakho ukuziva amandla onawo ebomini bakho. Bhala phantsi eyona nto uyifunayo kunye neyona nto ibalulekileyo kuwe ngoku.
Ngoku uya kuba nombono ocacileyo malunga neenjongo ekufuneka uzifezekisile ngaphandle kwentloko yakho. Oku kubalulekile ukunceda ingqondo ibeke umgama phakathi kwezi ngcinga kunye neengcinga ezisebenzayo.
Kuya kufuneka ubhale iinkalo zobomi bakho ezibalulekileyo kuwe kwaye ofuna ukuziphucula ukuze ube nomgangatho wobomi obungcono. Inokuba ngumsebenzi, izihlobo, iqabane lakho, abantwana bakho, usapho, ulonwabo, njl. Emva koko kuya kufuneka ucinge ngezinto eziguquguqukayo ezinale ndawo kwaye ubhale amanqaku kumdibaniso ngamnye, kwisikali se-1 ukuya kwi-10, aze u-1 angoyena ubalulekileyo aze abengu-10 abaluleke kakhulu. Xa unocwangco lokhetho, emva koko ungaqala ukubhala phantsi izinto oza kuzisebenzisa ukuphucula umgangatho wobomi bakho kwaye yonke into iqala ukuqengqeleka kakuhle.
Yima umzuzu!
Ufuna kuphela umzuzu o-1 opheleleyo ukuze uzilawule ngokwasemphefumlweni kwaye ube nakho ukuba nobudlelwane obuhle phakathi kwabantu. Khawufane ucinge ukuba ukwindawo enomoya ombi kakhulu kwaye yonke into iphuma esandleni. Kule mizuzu kunokuba yimfuneko ukuyeka umzuzu (okanye ngaphezulu), coca ingqondo yakho kwaye uphendule ngakumbi ngentloko kunokuba nentliziyo yakho kuloo meko yoxinzelelo.
Ngomzuzu omnye ungafunda ukuphumla nokulawula iimvakalelo ezinzulu ngokucamngca ngaloo mizuzwana engama-60. Nje ukuba ugqibelele ubuchule, ungayisebenzisa nanini na, naphi na. Ukuba uziva uxinzelelo oluninzi, ngaphezulu komzuzu omnye kungcono ukuthatha imizuzu emi-1 yokuphumla ngokweemvakalelo kwaye ubuyele eluxolweni. Ngezi ngcebiso kunye nemisebenzi uya kuyonyusa ubukrelekrele bakho bemvakalelo phantse ungazi.