Sonke sifuna ukuphuma thina, enyanisweni Ukuziphucula kubalulekile ukuba abantu baqhubele phambili. Kukho amaxesha apho ubomi businika imingxunya eyenzeka phantse ngaphandle kwethu. Ngamaqhuqhuva anokunciphisa amandla akho kodwa ukuba uyazi ukuba ukuziphucula kunokukunceda njani, akukho nto iya kuba nakho nawe.
Ngamanye amaxesha, sidinga inkuthazo encinci yokufezekisa olu phuculo okanye izikhumbuzo ezikuvumela ukuba ubeke indlela ekufuneka uyilandele engqondweni kwakhona. La mabinzana okanye imiyalezo kufuneka ikukhaphe ebomini bakho kuba ziyinyani enzulu efihla umyalezo onamandla kwaye okhuthazayo kumntu ofundayo.
Xa ufumana ibinzana elilungileyo, kuya kukunceda ubonakalise kwaye ukhumbule eyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini ... nokuba amaxesha anzima. Ukuba uziva ngathi umile kwaye ufuna ukuqhubeka nokukhula, awu ... Ke kungenxa yokuba kufuneka uzifunde ezi zivakalisi kwaye ukwazi ukubhala kwaye uhlale usondele kuwe loo miyalezo ikwenza uzive ukhethekileyo ngaphakathi entliziyweni yakho.
Kutheni Imiyalezo yokuziphucula ibalulekile Kuwe
Xa uziva ngathi ufuna umfutho wokuqhubela phambili, kuya kufuneka ukuba usondele kule miyalezo ukuze uye phambili. Ungaphoswa yile ingqokelela yamabinzana anokukunceda ukuba uqhubeke nokukhula njengomntu, kuba ingaphakathi lakho alisoze liyeke ukukhula ukuba ubheja kuphuculo lwakho.
Ukuba uyawathanda amabinzana, Ungathandabuzi ukwabelana nabo bantu ubathandayo okanye ucinga ukuba ezi ntlobo zamabinzana ziya kuhamba kakuhle ukuphucula ubomi babo. Inkuthazo yokutshintsha ubomi bube ngcono ingaqala ngoku. Fumanisa le miyalezo iguqulwe yangamabinzana amahle kunye neembonakalo ezivela kwiingcinga zabo babesazi ukuba ukulandela amaphupha kunye nolonwabo lelona nyathelo lilungileyo lokuphucula ubuqu. Le miyalezo inamandla amakhulu, kuba iya kukunika amandla okufezekisa iinjongo zakho kwaye ububone ubomi ngenye indlela.
Imiyalezo yokuziphucula ekufuneka uyixabise ngonaphakade
- Yiwa phantsi kasixhenxe kwaye uvuke isibhozo (iqhalo laseJapan)
- Musa ukuzigweba ngenxa yexesha elidlulileyo; awusaphili kuyo (Ifeanyi Enoch Onuoba)
- Ukuba awunalo uxolo, ayingoba umntu othile ebe kuwe; Kungenxa yokuba umyekile wahamba Awunakuhlala ulawula okwenzekayo kuwe, kodwa uyakwazi ukulawula okwenzekayo ngaphakathi kuwe (John C. Maxwell)
- Yiba lutshintsho ofuna ukulubona emhlabeni (Mahatma Gandhi)
- Ngokuncwina uyakuqonda ukuba yonke imigudu oyityalileyo ibifanele, ngandlel 'ithile (Engaziwayo)
- Utshintsho ngumthetho wobomi. Nabani na ojonga kuphela kwixesha elidlulileyo okanye langoku uya kuliphosa ikamva (John F. Kennedy)
- Ikamva lixuba amakhadi, kwaye siyawadlala (uArthur Schopenhauer)
- Impumelelo iquka ukusilela ukusilela ngaphandle kokuphulukana nehlombe (uWinston Churchill)
- Ukuba iintlungu azikukhokeleli ekuthobekeni, uchithe ukubandezeleka (UKaterina Stoykova Klemer)
- Abantu bakhetha ukungonwabi ngenxa yokungaqiniseki (UTimothy Ferriss)
- Unamandla okufezekisa amaphupha akho (Tae Yun Kim)
- Zama kwaye usilele, kodwa ungaze usilele ukuzama (uJared Leto)
- Thatha uxanduva lolonwabo lwakho, ungalindeli ukuba abantu okanye izinto zizise kuwe, okanye ungaphoxeka (URodolfo Costa)
- Njengabantu, ubukhulu bethu abuxhomekekanga ekubeni nakho ukubuyisela umhlaba, kodwa ekubeni sikwazi ukuziphinda (Mahatma Gandhi)
- Ukuba ufuna ukuphila ubomi obungaqhelekanga, funda ukuba wenza ntoni umntu oqhelekileyo kwaye ungenzi okufanayo (UTommy Newberry)
- Okukhona sizibona njengabantu abadlamkileyo, abaphumeleleyo nabaphefumlelweyo, kokukhona siya kuba (Kristi Bowman)
- Eyona ndlela yokuqikelela ikamva kukuyila (uPeter Drucker)
- Lowo unesizathu sokuphila unokujamelana nayo yonke indlela (uFriedrich Nietzsche)
- Ukuba ufuna into ongazange ube nayo, kuya kufuneka wenze into ongazange wayenza (Engaziwayo)
- Inye kuphela into eyenza ukuba iphupha lingenzeki: uloyiko lokusilela (Paul Coelho)
- Kuphela ngabo banobuganga bokusilela okukhulu abagqibela ngokuphumelela kakhulu (URobert F. Kennedy)
- Xa ubomi bukunika ilamuni, yikhame kwaye wenze ilamunade (uClement Stone)
- Qala ukwenza into eyimfuneko, emva koko kunokwenzeka, kwaye ngequbuliso uya kuzifumanisa usenza into engenakwenzeka (uFernando de Asis)
- Jongana nelanga kwaye izithunzi ziya kuba semva kwakho (isaci seMahorí)
- Ixesha lethu lilinganiselwe, ke musa ukulenza ngokuchitha ubomi bomnye umntu (uSteve Jobs)
- Akukho nto ebomini emele yoyikwe, iqondwe kuphela. Lixesha lokuba uqonde ngakumbi, ukoyika kancinci (uMarie Curie)
- Kusoloko kufuneka uzame ukuba ngoyena uphambili, kodwa ungaze uzikholelwe ukuba ungoyena ulungileyo (UJuan Manuel Fangio)
- Umahluko phakathi kokuphumelela kunye nokuphulukana uhlala uhlala uyeka (iWalt Disney)
- Yenza isenzo ngasinye ngokungathi sesokugqibela ebomini bakho (Marco Aurelio)
- Ukuthanda umntu kukufunda ingoma entliziyweni yakhe kwaye umculele xa sele eyilibele (engaziwayo)
- Ubomi abuhlali ngonaphakade. Hlala kwi. Uthando lubuhlungu. Uthando Umona uyakukhathaza. Ungayihoyi. Izinkumbulo ezilungileyo, zigcine entliziyweni yakho (isaci samaHindu)
- Uqeqesho ngumhlobo osenyongweni womntu, kuba lukhokelela ekubeni aqonde ukulangazelela okunzulu kwentliziyo yakhe (Umama uTeresa waseCalcutta)
- Abanye bayakulibala into oyithethileyo, abanye baya kuyilibala into oyenzileyo, kodwa abasoze bayilibale indlela obenze baziva ngayo (Maya Angelou)
- Asinakho ukunceda wonke umntu, kodwa umntu ngamnye unokunceda umntu (URonald Reagan)
- I-90% yabo bonke abangaphumelelanga aboyiswanga ngokwenyani, bayanikezela (uPaul J. Meyer)
- Embindini wobunzima kukho ithuba (Albert Einstein)
- Sukuhlala phantsi ulinde ukuba izinto zize kuwe. Lwela into oyifunayo, zithathele uxanduva (uMichel Tanus)
- Nokuba ungakuxelela ntoni na, amagama kunye nemibono inokutshintsha umhlaba (Robin Williams)
- Ukuba kulungile ukuhlala, kusengcono ukuphupha, kwaye eyona nto ilunge kakhulu, ukuvuka (u-Antonio Machado)
- Ubomi abenzelwanga ukuba babuqonde, kodwa buphile (uGeorge Santayana)
- Okokuqala, ukulungiselela sisitshixo sempumelelo (Alexander Graham Bell)
- Ukuba ndibone ngaphezulu kunabanye, kukuma emagxeni ezigebenga (u-Isaac Newton)
- Yonke into inzima ngaphambi kokuba ibe lula (Goethe)
- Ihlabathi alikho semngciphekweni ngabantu abangalunganga kodwa ngabo bavumela ububi (Albert Einstein)
- Injongo yenyanga. Ukuba uyasilela, ungabetha inkwenkwezi (W. Clement Stone)
- Funa okuninzi kuwe kwaye ulindele okuncinci kwabanye. Ngale ndlela uya kuzisindisa kwiingxaki (Confucius)
- Umonde ngumthi oneengcambu ezikrakra kodwa uneziqhamo ezimnandi kakhulu (Umzekeliso wasePersi)
- Imiphefumlo emikhulu ineentando; ababuthathaka banqwenela kuphela (iqhalo lesiTshayina)
- Ukuba awuyithandi indlela ohamba ngayo, qala ukwakha enye (iDolly Parton)
- Kungcono ukuba uzibonakalise uzisole, kunokuba uzisole ngokungakhange wenze nto (Giovanni Boccaccio)