Ngaba kufuneka sazise abo sibathandayo ukuba bahlala kwilizwe lamaphupha, inyani leyo yahlukile, nokuba ikhohlakele okanye ibuhlungu?
Ndicinga njalo.
Njengogqirha, ndinokungqina ngokubaluleka kwezinto ezi-2 ekubonakala ukuba zikude kunyango, kodwa zichaphazela kakhulu ukuxela kwangaphambili kunye nesiphumo sokugula, kuguquko lwesigulana.
Ndiyathetha ulwazi lokugula kunye nomnqweno wokuphilisa.
Isigulana esifuna ukuya phambili sinokhetho oluninzi lokwenza njalo kunalowo uhlala ezazi iziphumo zeso sifo kwaye ke iyekelwa kwilishwa ukuba impumelelo okanye hayi ugqirha wakho kwiipilisi kunye nemixube emisela yona.
Uphawu luphawu lwento engalunganga, umthunywa olungileyo osilumkisa ukuba kukho ingozi yokujongana nayo. Kuba bekutshiwo, isilumkiso ayisiso isigwebo okanye isidumbu; kodwa, lumka, ayisosisombululo sodwa esiqinisekileyo kule ngxaki.
Uya kuzibuza ukuba kutheni ndikubuza yonke le nto ... ndiza kucacisa:
Masithathe olo luvo lwentiyo lwangaphakathi (oluphantse lwaziwa sithi) ngokungathi luphawu, isiginali, uphawu olungacacanga isifo somoya sizakubiza ntoni imfuno yokomoya
Ulwazi lobukho balo kunye nomnqweno wokulahla la mava mabi kunokuba, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, olona ncedo lulungileyo ukusityhala ukuba sihambe umendo wenqwelomoya ephezulu eqondisa ubomi bethu kwicala lokomoya elilityelweyo.
Kwaye oko kuvakala kuluncedo kakhulu, nangona, kwakhona, sisibhengezo nje, njengemvakalelo, iyodwa, ayinakusinyanga isifo.