Isikhokelo sokwazi ukudlala ngothando kwi-Intanethi

Ukuba ucinga funda ukudlala ngothando kwi-Intanethi, Silungiselele iingcebiso esiza kukunceda ukuba uziphumeze ngendlela efanelekileyo kwaye ngakumbi ngaphandle komzamo omkhulu, kodwa ewe, uhlala uthobela ezinye iinkcukacha ezinje ngezi siza kuthi zibonise apha ngezantsi.

Qala ngokukhetha iphepha elifanelekileyo

Ewe, ukuze sikwazi ukunxibelelana kwi-Intanethi, into yokuqala ekufuneka siyazi kukuba maninzi amaphepha enzelwe le njongo ngokukodwa, ukuze babe nesakhiwo kunye nombutho oququzelela inkqubo.

Ukuze uthathe inxaxheba kula maphepha kufuneka kuqala ukuba senze iakhawunti, ukuze singene kuthotho lweedatha kwaye Siza kugcwalisa uphando oluncinci apho siza kubonisa khona iimpawu zethu kunye nezinto ozithandayo, umdla, njl njl.

Ngokucacileyo, abanye abasebenzisi kuye kwafuneka baqhubeke nenkqubo enye, ukuze ngokusebenzisa i-logarithm, iphepha lilawule ukudibanisa abantu abaneempawu ezifanayo kunye nezinto abazithandayo, ngaloo ndlela kuququzelelwa inkqubo kunye nokuvumela dibana nabantu abacinga njengaye kuthi ngaphandle kokwenza olo phononongo lomntu ngamnye.

Oko kukuthi, siyakuba nethuba lokudibana nabantu abaneempawu ezifana nezethu, ukongeza kuloo nto sinokubonisa ezinye iimpawu ezinomdla kuthi kwabo bantu kwaye siza kuba nokukhetha kuninzi lala maphepha ukukhetha abantu esiza kuthi simazi ukuba uvela kwindawo ekufutshane nelethu, ukuze sikwazi ukuququzelela ukubanakho Dibana buqu kamva.

Ewe kunjalo, kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba ayingawo onke la maphepha ayafanayo, kuba ngalinye kuwo ligxile kuhlobo olwahlukileyo lwabathengi, ukuze sibe namaphepha esinokuya kuwo ukuba into esiyifunayo ngumqolo nje Ngobusuku obunye, kunye nezinye eziyilelwe ukukhangela enye into kwaye zidibane naloo mntu sihlala naye ubomi bethu bonke.

Ngokuphathelele kubudala, kunokubakho ukungafani kunye nokwahluka phakathi kwamaphepha, kodwa njengomgaqo ngokubanzi siya kuba nakho ukuthatha inxaxheba kuzo zonke ngaphandle kweengxaki ezininzi ngaphandle kobudala bethu, kuba, nangona nganye ineminyaka yobudala enokuthi ziyahluka kancinci, eneneni kukho abantu bayo yonke iminyaka, oko kuthetha ukuba le yinkcukacha-manani kwaye akufuneki sizikhathaze kakhulu ngayo.

Entre ezona ndawo zibalaseleyo zokudlala ngothando kwi-Intanethi kwaye ufumane iqabane Sinalo:

• Badoo
• Yiba2
• Umhla we-C
• Elula
• eDarling
• UmhloboScout24
• Loovo
• Nyani
• Kulungile
• Ubuqhetseba
• yingxubuwa
• Zimbini
• Zoosk

Ezi zezinye zezona zisetyenziswa kakhulu kwaye zihamba rhoqo, kodwa kuyacaca ukuba zininzi ezinye, ukongeza kwinyani yokuba kuhlala kukho amathuba ngothando kwi-intanethi kwiiforamu, abahlali kwaye ngokubanzi naluphi na uhlobo lwezixhobo esivumela ukuba sinxibelelane nabanye abantu.

Umzekelo, singadibana nomntu kwiforum enxulumene nesihloko esithandayo njengegadi, iimoto, umculo, njl., Kwaye siyaqhubeka nokugcina unxibelelwano ngaphandle kokunyanzela, ngokuhamba kwexesha kunokwenzeka ukuba ikwazile ukuseka ubuhlobo obuhle obunokuba nobudlelwane obunokubakho neqabane, oko kuthetha ukuba akufuneki sityeshele naziphi na izixhobo esinazo.

Ngayiphi na imeko, iphepha, iforum okanye inkqubo ofuna ukuyisebenzisa ukwenza uloyiso lwakho ziya kuba kuwe, kwimeko yethu siza kugxila ekuboniseni amanye amaqhinga oza kufunda ngawo indlela yokudlala ngothando kwi-Intanethi ungakhange ufe kwilinge.

Amaqhinga okwazi ukudlala ngothando kwi-Intanethi

Ngoku ukuba ukhethe iphepha oza kukhangela kuloyiso lwakho lokuqala, sibonisa amaqhinga oza kufunda ngawo ukuba udlale ngothando kwi-Intanethi ngaphandle kokujonga okutsha.

Qalisa ukuba nguwe

Siyazi ukuba le yi elona nqanaba liqhelekileyo lehlabathi lokoyisa, kodwa enyanisweni kuyinyani, kuba akukho ndlela ibhetele yokwazi umntu ngaphandle kokumtyhilela size sizibonise njengoko sinjalo.

Ngokucacileyo apha kufuneka senze uthotho lweempawu, kuba ayifani nento yokuba sifuna ukudibana nomntu ngenjongo yokwabelana ngento engaphezulu kobuhlobo, ukuba endaweni yoko sikhetha ukugcina ubudlelwane obunqabileyo, kwimeko apho mhlawumbi uhlobo lomntu esiyiyo alubalulekanga kangako, kuba iya kuba bubudlelwane obushukunyiswa yimbonakalo yomzimba ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na enye into.

Kodwa siyithatha njengenjongo yokuba injongo yakho kukuqhubela phambili, oko kukuthi, uhlobo lobudlelwane olunzima kakhulu kwaye kunzima ukulufumana, ke siyakholelwa ukuba kulapho kufuneka sigxile ngokusisiseko, kwaye ngale ndlela , ukuzibonakalisa njengoko sinjalo kubalulekile.

Kufuneka sihlale sinyanisekile kwaye singoyiki nokuzazi ezethu iimpazamo, kodwa ngaphezulu kwayo yonke into kubalulekile ukujonga indlela omnye umntu avule ngayo ukuze yonke into ihambe ngokuthe ngcembe, ukunqanda ukufuna ukuxelela yonke into ngosuku lokuqala, kuba inakho nika uluvo lokuba siphelelwe lithemba kwaye mhlawumbi loo mntu akamjonganga umntu onomdla onjalo.

Khumbula ukuba kubalulekile ukuba sihambe inyathelo ngenyathelo kwaye ngokuzolileyo, ukuba iRoma ayizange yoyiswe ngosuku kwaye ukuqeshwa kwakho kokuqala akuyi kufika kwiiyure ezingama-24.

Ungalibali ukuba kubalulekile ukuba wabelane ngezinto ozithandayo

Enye into ebalulekileyo ekufuneka sicace gca ngayo kukuba kubalulekile ukuba sabelane ngezinto esizithandayo kunye nomntu esifuna ukumoyisa. Ngokucacileyo, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba siyayithanda njengoko injalo, oko kukuthi, iyasitsala ngenxa yeempawu zayo, kodwa kufuneka sicace gca ukuba ubuhle yinto enokusitsalela kwimeko yokuqala, kodwa i-ephemeral okoko ngokuhamba kwexesha iyancipha, kwaye Uthando luhlala lusekwe kwinto esivakalelwa ngayo ngumntu, hayi ngobuso bakhe.

Ngenxa yeso sizathu kubalulekile ukuba, ukuba le nto siyifunayo yile fumana umntu ubomiKuya kubalulekile ukuba sibe nezinto ezifanayo naye, ukuze sikwazi ukwabelana ngamaxesha akhethekileyo rhoqo kwicala elinye.

Kodwa musa ukudideka, oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka sifane ngokufanayo, kuba inokuba bubudlelwane obukruqulayo kwaye iyabenza bube yinto engathandekiyo, ngenxa yoko umahluko kwizinto ozithandayo unokuba yeyona ndlela inomdla wokuvula kwaye ukwazi ezinye iinkalo zethu esingenakuze sizifumane ngenye indlela.

Isishwankathelo, kuya kufuneka sabelane ngento ngaphezulu komnqweno wokubonana, kodwa akuyomfuneko ukuba silandelwe kuba oko kungasinceda ukuba sithenge isipili.

Musa ukunyanzela imeko

Ngexesha le woyise loo mntu akufuneki unyanzele imeko akukho xesha, kwaye eli cebiso lisemthethweni kwabo bafunda indlela yokudlala ngothando kwi-intanethi njengoko kunjalo nakwabo bafuna ukuyenza buqu. Ukuzama ukwenza izinto zihambe ngokukhawuleza kwenza ukuba omnye umntu othuke kwaye sibonakale sinqwenela, ke ukungxama kuya kuba lolunye lweentshaba zethu eziphambili.

Kunjalo asizukubeka isini kwincoko zokuqala nazo, kuba ingumbandela obuthathaka ukuba kude kangangoko kunokwenzeka sishiya kamva kwaye, ukuba kukho imfuneko, okomzuzwana xa sijongene ubuso ngobuso. Zingaphi izibini ezilahlekileyo ngenxa yokwenza isiqhulo esimalunga nesini esasingeyiyo ihlaya elinjalo kodwa ukuzama ukuzisa loo nto kwincoko.

Ukuba ningamadoda, kucetyiswa ngakumbi ukuba ulinde owasetyhini ukuba awuze lo mbandela ngandlela thile ukuwulungisa.

Ngokwemvelo kuya kuba ngoyena mcebisi wakho ubalaseleyo

Enye yeempazamo eziqhelekileyo esizenzayo xa sizama ukuqhagamshela kwi-Intanethi kukuba izinto zinyanzelwa ngokugqithileyo. Kucacile ukuba ngokubanzi asizukukwazi ukunxibelelana ekuqaleni kwangolo hlobo lunye ngokuthetha njengokubhala, kwaye kuba sisixhobo apho kufuneka sebenzisa uhlobo lolwimi olubhalwayo Kungenzeka ukuba kubekho ubunzima obuya kuvela kwaye siya kunyanzelwa ukuba sisebenzise ii-clichés, oko kukuthi, kwezo amabinzana aqhelekileyo asetyenziswa xa uthetha ngomntu wethu okanye into esiyifunayo ebomini.

Oku kukusilela okubalulekileyo, kuba kubonakala ngathi yonke inkqubo yoyiso icwangcisiwe, kwaye nangona kuyinyani ukuba sizama ukuyicwangcisa ngokufanelekileyo, injongo yethu ikude kunokubonakala ngathi, ke siza kulandela zonke ezi zinto. amanyathelo kodwa siya kuyisebenzisa yonke indalo yethu, kwaye njengoko besicebisile kwinqaku lokuqala, kubalulekile ukuba uzibonakalise unjalo, ngeziphene zakho kunye nokulunga kwakho, nangona ewe, ungaqali ngokukhankanya zonke iziphene zakho ezoyikisayo naye ngokufanayo kwaye akasafuni kuphinda eve kuwe.

Zibuze iimvakalelo zakho kwaye ungoyiki ukuzibonisa

Enye ingxaki xa kuziwa Yoyisa kwi-Intanethi Kuyinyani ukuba ubudlelwane obubandayo benziwe, ukuze mhlawumbi kubenzima ngakumbi kuthi ukuba sivuleke kwaye sichaze iimvakalelo zethu, kwangaxeshanye ukuba singamazi ngokupheleleyo omnye umntu kwaye oku kwenza into ngaphakathi yenza kube nzima kuthi ukuvula iimvakalelo zethu.

Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka senze konke okusemandleni ukutshintsha oku, kwaye oku kufuneka sikwenze ukusebenza ukuzithemba kuthi kwaye ungoyiki oko omnye umntu acinga malunga nendlela esivakalelwa ngayo zizinto.

Ukuba, umzekelo, singabantu abanomdla kakhulu, ngokucacileyo asizukukhala yonke imizuzu emihlanu kuba oko kunokuthetha ukuba sinengxaki eyahlukileyo esingayijonganga nayo okwangoku, kodwa akufuneki sikoyike ukubonisa ukuba sinjalo ngenene, kodwa ukuba ngaphandle kokuyinyanzela, khumbula ukuba kubalulekile ukuba sibe sendalo kwaye singanyanzeli nto kwaphela. Ukuba omnye umntu akabathandi abantu abanolwazelelelo ngakumbi, kungcono ukufumanisa ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngaloo ndlela uphephe ukuchitha ixesha ukuze kamva siqonde ukuba asifanelani ncam.

Iinethiwekhi zentlalo kunye negalelo lakho

Apha kufuneka sicace gca, kwaye kuhlala kusithiwa, ukuba sifuna ukudlala ngothando, into ekufuneka siyenzile kukufihla izinto kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo, ukuze ukuba, umzekelo, sihlale neqela labantu besini esahlukileyo , kungcono ukuba singazibeki ezo foto ukuze singaniki uvakalelo lokuba sikwenye indlela okanye enye.

Ndicinga ukuba le yimpazamo enkulu, kuba yenye yezona ndawo zisisiseko kunye nento ebesithethile ngayo ekuqaleni kwale incinci ukudlala ngothando Ngokuchanekileyo ubume bendalo kunye nendlela yethu yobuntu kufuneka ihlonitshwe, ke ukuba xa unefoto yoluhlobo omnye umntu ucinga ukuba mhlawumbi sinomlingane okanye singabantu abathanda ukuhlala nabanye abantu besini esahlukileyo, ngakumbi Kufanelekile ukuba sijonge ngqo umntu onokuziqhelanisa ngcono nendlela yethu, kuba kungenjalo oku kungasizisela iingxaki ezininzi kwixa elizayo.

Ngaba lixesha lokwenza idinga?

Ukuba uwalandele onke amanyathelo kwaye uthathele ingqalelo ukubaluleka kokuba nguwe ngexesha lokuqala loloyiso, mhlawumbi sele ilixesha lokuba uvule kwaye wenze umhla wokuqala ngobuqu, inyathelo elibaluleke kakhulu kubudlelwane Ibonisa ukuba kwicala lethu kukho injongo yokuqhubela phambili, kwaye ukuba umntu uyayamkela, ngokucacileyo nayo unomdla wokubazi ngcono kuba ejonga ukuba kunokubakho into phakathi kwethu.

Kodwa njengoko besitshilo, ungaze ubaleke, kwaye inyani yokuhlala akufuneki ibe yinto esiyishiya iveki kwaye ngequbuliso, kodwa kufuneka siyazise kwincoko ngokwendalo, ukuze ekugqibeleni sifikelele isivumelwano sokudibana ngobuqu.

Ngala maqhinga alula okufunda ukudlala ngothando kwi-Intanethi, siyathemba ukuba sikuncede ukuba uthathele ingqalelo ezinye zezona zitshixo zikuvumela ukuba ungazi kuphela umntu onokuba yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobomi bakho, kodwa ufumane enye Ngubani otshata nathi, ukuze sibe nezinto ezifanayo kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke siqinisekile ukuba siza kuhloniphana ngandlela zonke.

Kwaye ke sicebisa ukuba wabelane ngale nto incinci online ukufundisa isifundo ngokusebenzisa uthungelwano lwasentlalweni kunye nabahlobo bakho.