Sonke siziva sisodwa ngaxa lithile Nangona singabantu abahlala ekuhlaleni kwaye sithanda ukuba phakathi kwabanye, isizungu yinxalenye yobomi. Inyathelo lokuqala lokoyisa ubulolo kukwamkela kwaye wamkele ukuba thina kunye nenkampani yethu ikwayindlela yokuphila kakuhle. Uye wakwazi ukuziva ulilolo xa, umzekelo, uziva ulilolo nangona ujikelezwe ngabantu.
Ubulolo
Ukuziva ulilolo kungokobuqu, ke amava omntu ngamnye okuba lilolo aya kwahluka. Ngokwenyani, isizungu ayisiyonyani, yimvakalelo.
Inkcazo eqhelekileyo yesizungu yimvakalelo esinayo xa isidingo sokuvuza unxibelelwano lwasentlalweni kunye nolwalamano alufezekiswanga. Kodwa isizungu asisoloko sifana nokuba wedwa ... Unokukhetha ukuba wedwa kwaye uphile ngolonwabo ngaphandle kokudibana nabanye abantu, Ngelixa abanye banokufumana amava okuba nesithukuthezi.
Okanye unokuba nonxibelelwano oluninzi ekuhlaleni, okanye ube kubudlelwane okanye inxalenye yosapho, kwaye uhlale uziva ulilolo, ngakumbi ukuba awuziva uqondwa okanye ungakhathalelwanga ngabantu abakungqongileyo.
Oonobangela bodwa
Ubulolo bunezizathu ezininzi ezahlukileyo, ezahluka kumntu kumntu. Asisoloko siqonda ukuba ngamava asenza sizive sedwa malunga nantoni. Abanye abantu, iziganeko ezithile zobomi zinokuthetha ukuba baziva benesithukuthezi, njenge:
- Amava e-duel
- Ukuqhawuka kobudlelwane
- Ukurhoxa kunye nokuphulukana nonxibelelwano lwasentlalweni
- Guqula umsebenzi
- Qalisa into entsha
- Phuma ngaphandle kwedolophu
- Abantu abahlala kwiimeko ezithile banokuba sengozini yokuba nesizungu, umzekelo:
- Ukungabinabahlobo okanye usapho
- Ukwahlulwa kusapho
- Abazali abangenamaqabane ababakhathalele abanye abantu
- Kunzima ukugcina ubomi boluntu
- Ukubangamaqela amancinci
- Yiba neengxaki zomzimba okanye zentlalo
- Ukufumana ucalucalulo lwalo naluphi na uhlobo
- Ukhe wanamava okuphathwa gadalala ngokwesondo okanye ngokwasemzimbeni
Abanye abantu bafumana iimvakalelo ezinzulu nezingapheliyo zesithukuthezi ezivela ngaphakathi kwaye zingapheli, nokuba zithini na iimeko zabo ekuhlaleni okanye banabahlobo abangakanani. Zininzi izizathu zokuba kutheni abantu befumana olu hlobo lwesizungu. Unokuziva ungazithandi okanye uthande abanye, okanye unokungazithembi. Ukucinga ngento ekwenza uzive ulilolo kunokukunceda ufumane indlela yokuziva ubhetele.
Ungaboyisa njani ukuba lilolo
Okulandelayo siza kukunika iingcebiso ukuze woyise isithukuthezi kwaye uqonde ukuba akukubi kangako ukuba uyazi ukuba uhlala kanjani kwaye uphathe ngendlela othanda ngayo.
Yenza izinto ngokwakho
Ngelishwa, Ukuba uzama ukunyanga isizungu sakho ngokuzijikeleza nabantu, inokubakho ixesha elifutshane ngokumangalisayo Ngokukhawuleza ukuba loo mntu ahambe, ushiyeke wedwa kwakhona. Endaweni yokuba noluhlu lwemisebenzi elula oyithandayo okanye ozimisele ukuyizama xa uwedwa: iphazili, ukudlala kwifowuni yakho, ukukhonkxa, ukufunda, ukubukela imovie, ukupeyinta, ukubhala ... Injongo kukukuphazamisa kubukhali isithukuthezi ngendlela esempilweni kwaye uqaphele ukuba inkampani yakho nayo inokuba mnandi.
Ungaphuma ngokwakho, ungasebenzisa isizungu njengethuba lokuzazi ngcono. Thatha isidlo sangokuhlwa, ukuya kwiimuvi, epakini, kwimyuziyam ... kwiindawo apho uhlala ufuna ukuya khona. Uninzi lwabantu lufuna ubudlelwane bokulawula iimvakalelo zabo kunye nokuziva ulilolo inokuba lithuba lokufunda ukuba ungayenza njani ngokwakho.
Khangela imisebenzi apho unokuhlala wedwa naxa uhlala nabanye abantu
Ungaya kwiklabhu yethala leencwadi, uye kwimisitho esixekweni sakho, ungadibana nabantu abanezimvo ezifanayo kuwe, uye kwiiklabhu zentaba okanye uye kwiiklasi zokufunda ukufota. Injongo kukufumana indawo apho uya kungqongwa ngabantu, nokuba awunyanzelekanga ukuba wenze abahlobo. Ukuba udibana nomntu opholileyo apho, nokuba kungcono, Kodwa injongo ayizukuba yile, kodwa kukunandipha into oyenzayo.
Zama ukuba noluntu ngamanye amaxesha, nokuba awuziva uthanda oko
Ngaba ingcinga yokuthetha nabantu abatsha ikwenza uphume ubilo olubandayo? Ayonto ingaqhelekanga leyo. Isizungu sinendlela yokwenza ukuhlangana kwezentlalo kubonakale kungenantsingiselo. Ngexesha elithile, kuya kufuneka uzinyanzele ukuba uzenze ... Kwaye izinto ziya kutshintsha zijikeleze phantse ungazi. Iziqinisekiso zemihla ngemihla, ezinje ngengxelo ethi "Ndi", zinokukunceda kule nto. Izinto zokucinga ezinje: Ndinomdla, ndinezinto endiza kuzinikela, andoyiki ukwaliwa, yimizekelo elungileyo.
Ubulolo, ukuba uyafuna, bobethutyana
Nokuba uziva ulilolo ngoku, oko akuthethi ukuba uyakuhlala unesithukuthezi okanye awusoze ufumane abantu abakunye nawe. Nguwe umyili wekamva lakho, kuya kufuneka uphume uye kwenza amaqhina amatsha ukuba ufuna ukonwabela ukuba wedwa kunye nenkampani kwangaxeshanye. Wonke umntu unento anokunikela ngayo kubudlelwane, kuya kufuneka uphume apho ubenze.
Yiya kunyango
Ukuba, nokuba kuxabisa ukuya kunyango, ngamanye amaxesha ukuya kwingcali yezempilo yengqondo ngumbono olungileyo. Oko akuthethi ukuba isizungu ngokwaso siyingxaki, kuthetha kuphela ukuba kufuneka ufunde ukusamkela ebomini bakho, ufumanise ukuba kutheni ungathandi ukuba wedwa kwaye uyitshintshe, ukuze ukwazi ukuzamkela njengeyona nkampani ibalaseleyo.
Nokuba uyathandabuza kwamanye amaxabiso onyango, kunokuba luncedo kwisizungu ngenxa yokuba umanyelwe kwaye uxabisiwe. Ngamanye amaxesha iba malunga nomntu okumameleyo.
Khumbula ukuba kuninzi lweemeko, ukuba lilolo yinto onokukhetha kuyo. Ukuba ucinga ulilolo ngenxa yokuba ungumntu oneentloni, Kuya kufuneka woyise kuphela ukuba neentloni ngokwakho okanye ngoncedo lweengcali. Isizungu akufuneki sikwenze uzive ungalunganga kwaye ayifanelanga ukuba ngumjikelo okhohlakeleyo, inokuba yeyethutyana okanye ikhethe nje.