Ndinomhlobo endincamathele kuye mva nje kwaye unengxaki yoxinzelelo, eyona nto kukuba uziva into eyomeleleyo kum, kodwa andisahambelani naye ngenxa yengxaki yoxinzelelo endiva ukuba sele indichaphazela. .
Ndihlala ndimkhathalela ngendlela endinako ngayo, ndizama ukumphazamisa ngohlobo lokuba avume kum ukuba xa enam uziva "uxolo" oluthile endimthobisayo ngalo xa enxunguphele.
Uya kugqirha, ugqirha wezifo zengqondo ukuba achaze ngokuthe ngqo, ebekade ekunyango olwahlukileyo olwalusebenzela yena ngaphambili kodwa ngoku azibonakali zinempembelelo efanayo kwaye sele enxanelwe kangangokuba usike iingalo zakhe kwaye ufuna ukufa, Oku kuyandikhathaza kakhulu, ndide ndimxelele ukuba ndizakuya naye kwagqirha ekuqeshweni kwakhe okulandelayo ukuze angabikho yedwa, ndiyamxabisa kakhulu kwaye andinakukunyamezela ukubona indlela asokola ngayo, kwaye oku kuyachaphazela ngendlela endinoloyiko lokuba angayiqonda indlela endiziva ndibuhlungu ngayo ngaye kwaye acinge ukuba ungumqobo nje kubomi bomntu wonke kwaye ekuphela kwento ayisebenzisayo kukundenza ndizive ndimbi.
Ndiyayixabisa nayiphi na impendulo kwangaphambili kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba bayandinceda.
Sawubona,
Okokuqala ndifuna ukukubulela kakhulu ngokunxibelelana nathi usichazele ngecala lakho.
Ndicinga ukuba nangona ujolisa ingqalelo kumhlobo wakho, ngenxa yendlela ozibonisa ngayo, kukho imigca emithathu yomsebenzi wonyango ekufuneka wenziwe.
Okokuqala, kwaye enye yeengxaki zakho, yimvakalelo yomhlobo wakho. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, inkxaso yakho ibaluleke kakhulu kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo iyamnceda kakhulu ukuya phambili. Imeko yokudakumba ibonakaliswa ngokutolika gwenxa yonke into eyenzekayo ebomini bethu kwaye ukuba uthi phambi kwakho uziva ebhetele, ngokuqinisekileyo kungenxa yokuba ubeka kubaluleke kakhulu kule nkxaso. Kulungile ukuba uye kugqirha wezifo zengqondo ukuze anyange imeko yengqondo yakho kodwa ukuba awuqhubekeki ekubuyiseni kwakho kunokuba yimfuneko ukuqwalasela utshintsho lobuchwephesha. Ngamanye amaxesha ayizizo zonke iingcali ezinikezela wonke umntu kwaye utshintsho olulula ukusuka kwelinye lonyango ukuya kwelinye lunokwenza imimangaliso.
Into yesibini endicinga ukuba ibalulekile ukujongana nemeko yakho yengqondo. Kunzima kakhulu ukugcina uqhakamshelwano nomntu odandathekileyo kwaye uhlala unethemba, iyafana nesifo sokudinwa komzimba esifunyanwa ngabantu abanonophela abantu abafuna ukuhoywa ngokusisigxina. Kuyimfuneko kakhulu ukugcina ucoceko lwengqondo kunye nokuzikhathalela ngokwakho ukuze ukwazi ukunika lonke uthando lwethu kwabanye abantu, kuyadinisa ukuhlala uyinkxaso elungileyo kwaye kulula ukuwela kwithemba xa sibona oko iinzame zethu zokukhuthaza azisebenzi. Yiyo loo nto ndikukhuthaza ukuba uzikhathalele, ngokwakho kwaye kwangaxeshanye ukunceda umhlobo wakho ngcono.
Into yesithathu ekufuneka ujongane nayo inxulumene nolwalamano lwakho. Ukusuka kwinto oyithethayo, kubonakala ngathi kukho intembeko enkulu phakathi kwakho nobabini kwaye ibekwe kwimeko yeengxaki zomhlobo wakho okoko ubabona njengesiqhoboshi kwelinye icala ukuze bahambelane ngakumbi naye okanye bambonise indlela uzive (esoyika ukumkhathaza xa ubona ukuba nawe uchaphazelekile ngokwasemphefumlweni). Ndicinga ukuba kuya kufuneka nisebenzisane nolwalamano lwakho niphonononge ukuba ingakunceda njani ngendlela elungileyo kwaye ukhuphe okuhle ekuhlaleni kunye ukoyisa ezo zinto zinokuchaphazela imvakalelo ngendlela engeyiyo.
Enkosi kakhulu ngokuthatha ixesha kwaye uphendule kum, bendingenalo ixesha lokufunda impendulo yakho. Ndimxelela ukuba ndisemfazweni kunye nomhlobo wam, nangona ngamanye amaxesha ndicinga ukuba iya isiba mandundu /: kwaye ndiyavuma ukuba ndiyoyika kakhulu ukuba uya kwenza into kwaye ayilahle ngonaphakade. Malunga nokutshintsha uluvo lwezonyango, nokuzama omnye ugqirha, ndimxelele, kodwa ingxaki kukuba usapho lwakhe lunezinto ezimbalwa kakhulu kwaye benza okuncinci abanokukwenza. Enkosi kwakhona ngexesha lakho.