«Cinga uze ube sisityebi« yeNapoleon Hill ngokuqinisekileyo yenye yezona zibalaseleyo iincwadi zophuhliso lomntu ezibhaliweyo. Ekupheleni kweli nqaku unencwadi epheleleyo yeaudiyo ukuba unomdla.
Enye yeencwadi ezivunyiweyo yenye yezona zinto zisikhuthazayo namhlanje, Tony Robbins.
Esinye sezahluko esizithandayo kuluntu ngokubanzi isahluko esithoba sinikezelwe kuQhubeka, mhlawumbi kuba kunjalo isitshixo sobomi obanelisayo nobonelisayo.
Apha siza kuveza amanqaku aphambili esi sahluko ukufumanisa ukuba zeziphi iimfihlo zokuphuhlisa olu mgangatho ubalaseleyo.
Ungayiphuhlisa njani ukuzingisa.
Amanyathelo akhokelela kumkhwa wokuzingisa:
- Injongo ichazwe ixhaswe ngumnqweno ovuthayo wokuyizalisekisa.
- Isicwangciso esiqinisekileyo, ibonakaliswe ngezenzo eziqhubekayo.
- Ingqondo ivaliwe kuzo zonke iimpembelelo ezimbi kwaye iyadimaza, kubandakanya neengcebiso ezimbi ezivela kusapho, kubahlobo, nakwabo ubaziyo.
- Umanyano olunobuhlobo nomntu omnye okanye nangaphezulu abakukhuthazayo ukuba uqhubele phambili kwisicwangciso kunye neenjongo zakho.
Izizathu ezichazayo zokuzingisa:
- Inkcazo yenjongo. Ukwazi into oyifunayo mhlawumbi lelona nyathelo libalulekileyo ekuphuhliseni ukuzingisa. Amandla aqhubayo ukoyisa ubunzima obuninzi.
- Ndinqwenela. Kufuneka sibe nomnqweno onamandla wokufezekisa oko sikulangazelelayo ukuze singasweli nto xa kukho ubunzima.
- Ukwanela. Ukukholelwa kumandla akho okuphumeza isicwangciso kuyakukhuthaza ukuba unamathele kwisicwangciso ngokuzingisa.
- Ukuchaneka kwezicwangciso. Ukuba nezicwangciso ezineenkcukacha zenjongo nganye kunokukhuthaza ukuzingisa.
- Ukulawula isifundo esingena kuso. Ukwazi ukuba izicwangciso zakho zivakala, ngokusekwe kumava okanye ekujongeni, ukuba nolwazi ngesihloko kukhuthaza ukuzingisa; "Ukuqikelela" endaweni yokuba "wazi" kutshabalalisa ukuzingisa.
- Intsebenziswano. Imfesane, ukuqonda, kunye nokusebenzisana ngokuhambelana nabanye zihlala zikhulisa ukunyamezela.
- Amandla. Umkhwa wokugxila kwiingcinga zakho kwizicwangciso zokwakha ukufezekisa injongo ethile kukhokelela ekuzingiseni.
- Umkhwa. Ukuzingisa sisiphumo ngqo somkhwa. Uloyiko, olona tshaba lubi, lunokunyangwa ngokufanelekileyo ngenxa yokuphindaphindwa kokunyanzeliswa kwezenzo ezincinci ezenziwa yonke imihla.