Kule nqaku ndingathanda ukukubonisa ungazitshintsha njani iingcinga ezilawula ubomi bakho. Uza kufunda indlela enamandla yokutshintsha ubomi bakho ngokujolisa kwiingcinga zakho.
Ngaphambi kokubona le ndlela yokutshintsha ubomi bakho, ndiyakumema ukuba ubone ubungqina obunamandla bale ndoda ngaphambi kokuba ife:
Yintoni ingcinga?
Ingcinga, ngohlobo olusisiseko, ngumbane oqhutywa zii-neurons kwingqondo ukuvelisa uhlobo oluthile lokuziva okanye isenzo ngaphakathi kwakho. Ezi ntshukumisa zinokubangelwa yimizwa emihlanu. Kwakhona, ingcinga iveliswa ziinkumbulo zento oyibonileyo, oyivileyo, oyifumeneyo, oyichukumisileyo noyingcamlayo.
Malunga nokucinga.
Uyakuqonda, ukuba ubeka ingqalelo, ukuba uninzi lweengcinga zethu ziphindaphindekile kwindalo, sineengcinga ezifanayo imihla ngemihla: Kufuneka ndiye emsebenzini, ndingenza njani ukuze umphathi onwabe kunye nam? Ndingonwaba njani? Baza kucinga ntoni ngam? Ndingenza njani ukuze iqabane lam lonwabe? Andinakuyenza loo nto, ukufana nabo, ndinokuchitha njani ixesha elininzi nosapho lwam? …………….
Kuba iingcinga zethu ziphindaphindeka, Kunzima ukwaphula esi sangqa.
Ke ngoko, ukuba enye yeengcinga zakho eziphindaphindwayo yile: "Andilunganga"Ucinga ukuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni? Ingqondo yakho iya kugxila ekuboniseni ubungqina obunokuxhasa into ocinga ukuba iphindaphindwe. Ukuba ucinga njalo awumhle kwizibalo, Uya kufumana ubungqina bokuxhasa le ngcamango. Uyakhumbula lonke olo phatho luvakalayo xa wawusenza imisebenzi yezibalo owayephathiswe yona.
Amandla onawo ngaphakathi
Amandla onawo ngaphakathi kwakho ngala alandelayo:
Ukuba ukucinga kwasekuqaleni kuguquliwe kwaye uqala ukucinga ukuba ulungile kwimathematics, igoblin ehlala entlokweni yakho iyakukruna intloko kancinci ithi kwii-neurons zayo, 'Madoda, kufuneka sifumane ubungqina bokuba silungile kwaye uza kuqala ukukhumbula umzuzu xa ii-equations ziphuma okokuqala, uyakukhumbula ukupasa kwakho kweso sifundo kwaye uyakukhumbula indlela obuchaze ngayo umntu ofunda naye ukuba wenza njani umthambo.
Ngequbuliso, kwenzeka into emangalisayo. Iingcinga ezilungileyo onazo malunga nokulunga kwimathematics ziya kukonyusa inkuthazo yakho yokuba ube ulungile kwimathematics, eya kuthi inyuse iimvakalelo zakho malunga nesifundo kwaye ikunike ubungqina obungaphezulu bokubonisa ukuba ulunge kangakanani kwizibalo.
Iingcinga kunye nenyani yazo
Uya kuqaphela ukuba kumzekelo ongentla, iingcinga zakho zokuzixabisa zivela kumava kunye neenkumbulo zangaphambili. Nangona kunjalo, i-ego yakho iya kudlala xa urhuma kwiingcamango ezinjalo. Ukuba uyazisizela xa usithi "andikulungelanga …… .." kukuzithemba kwakho okusokolayo.
Xa ukuzithemba kwakho kunamathela kuyo yonke ingcinga onayo, kwaye uninzi lwamaxesha iyenzeka, inyani yakho iyazinzisa, kuba inyani yakho iba yile nto ucinga ngayo imihla ngemihla. Xa uzikhulula kwiingcinga zakho, inyani iyatshintsha kuba ubona umfanekiso omkhulu.
Ewe akukho lula ukuyeka zonke iingcinga zakho ngaphandle koqheliselo oluyimfuneko, kodwa ungaqala ngaphezulu kwaye jonga ukuba zeziphi iingcinga ezikwehlisayo. Ukuba uneengcinga ezikwenza ube lusizi kwaye zikwenze ucinge ukuba awulungelanga iimeko zentlalo, qala ukukhangela ubungqina bokungqina ukuba ulungile ngokunxulumana nabanye.
Ukuba awukwazi Ukungafumani bungqina konke konke, obungenakulindeleka, emva koko unokwenza oku kulandelayo: yamkela ukuba le mvakalelo unayo ikhutshiwe kuluhlu lwakho oluphambili, kwaye wahlule naziphi na iingcinga ezimbi malunga nayo.
Njengoko usamkela kwaye wahlukene, kukho imvakalelo yokukhululeka. Ngoku ungazikhetha cinga izinto ezintle malunga nabanye okanye ngawe kwaye ufumane ubungqina bokuxhasa ezo ngcinga. Yenza oku yonke imihla yobomi bakho kunye neengcinga zakho kunye nobomi bakho buya kuqala ukutshintsha kakhulu. Ukuba ucinga ukuba ngumsebenzi onzima, khumbula ukuba ubukwenza oku yonke imihla yobomi bakho ukuza kuthi ga kweli nqanaba, ngeli xesha ukhetha into oza kuyicinga.
Ucinga ntoni ngale nto? Zange nditsho bhetele 😀