Ngelishwa baninzi abantu (ukuba ayingabo baninzi) abangamkeliyo njengokuba benjalo; ezisa iziphumo ezibi ezinje nge ukungazithembi, ukoyika ukusilela, ixhala, phakathi kwabanye. Ukwamkela ngokwakho akukho nzima njengoko kubonakala ngathi, yenza nje iingcebiso kunye neengcebiso esiza kukubonisa zona kulo myalezo.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuzamkela?
Ngokuqinisekileyo wakhe waliva ibinzana elithi "zithande ngaphambi kokuthanda omnye umntu", elilungile; Ewe, ukuba asikwazi ukuzamkela nokuzithanda, asizukukwazi ukukwenza nabanye abantu nokuba (okanye mandithi, ngekhe kube sengqiqweni ukwenza njalo).
Yamkela ngokwakho kubandakanya nokwazi ubuchule bethu kunye neentsilelo zethu; thanda kwaye usamkele njengoko sinjalo. Ngale ndlela sinokuphila ngokuvisisana nesiqu sethu. Ke ngoko, inyathelo lokuqala umntu ekufuneka elithathile ukuze azamkele kukuzazi.
Umntu ongazamkeliyo uhlala eneengxaki zokuzithemba, ngumntu ongazithembanga, unengxaki yokuziva enetyala kwiimeko ezininzi kwaye unengxaki yokuphazamiseka okanye uxinzelelo.
Ukwamkela ngokwakho akukho lula ukukuphumeza, kodwa ukuba kuyinjongo yethu, ngoncedo lweengcebiso esiza kukubonisa zona kamva, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuziphumeza. Imisebenzi ekufuneka siyenzile ukufezekisa olu tshintsho oluya kuphucula ukuzithemba kwethu.
- Ukujamelana neemvakalelo.
- Samkele ngokwasemzimbeni.
- Ukuhlala kunye nezo zinto zingenakulungiswa.
- Yilwa uloyiko lwethu.
Los iinzuzo zokuzamkela Zahlukahlukene, ikakhulu oko kuya kusenza sizive sikhuselekile; kodwa baya kuthi basinike umgangatho wokunandipha ubomi bethu ngokuzeleyo, ukubona iinkalo zawo ngokukuko kunye nokuphepha ukumosha amandla ukufihla iziphene zethu.
Umntu uzilahla nini?
Njengoko besitshilo ekuqaleni, uninzi lwabantu luthanda ukuzichasa nokungazamkeli njengoko linjalo. Kulula ukwazi ukuba umntu uyayenza na, njengoko beqhele ukugweba, bathuke kwaye bazithethise rhoqo. Oku kuzisa njengesiphumo umthwalo ogqithisileyo wokungakhathali mihla le okuya kuchaphazela ukukhula kobomi bethu bemihla ngemihla.
Ezona mpawu zixhaphakileyo zokuzichasa zezi:
- Ukungazithembi kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo.
- Ukuzohlwaya rhoqo.
- Ukuziva uloyiko okanye uloyiko rhoqo.
- Uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo.
- Uxinzelelo lwentlalo
- Phakathi kwabanye
Unobangela wale meko yokugatywa uhlala evela ebuntwaneni, nangona inokufunyanwa kwinqanaba elinobuthathaka njengokufikisa. Kwimeko yokuqala, abanye abantu abadala bathanda "ukujongela phantsi" abantwana abanezimvo ezingakhiyo; Ngelixa bekwishumi elivisayo, abantu abancinci banokufumana ubunzima bokuxhatshazwa okanye uhlobo oluthile lokuhlukunyezwa.
Ukuthintela ukwaliwa, kufuneka funda ukuzamkela; ke kuya kufuneka siqaphele indlela esizivakalisa ngayo kwaye sithetha ngayo, sibone indlela esiziphatha ngayo kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo, phakathi kweminye imisebenzi esiza kuyichaza ngokweenkcukacha apha ngezantsi.
Iingcebiso zokufezekisa ukuzamkela
Uyawazi amanqanaba okwamkela
La ukuzamkela inokwahlulahlulwa ibe ngamanqanaba amathathu ahlukeneyo ezisukela ngaphakathi ziye ngaphandle kokuzithemba. Kuya kufuneka uqale kwinqanaba lokuqala ukuze ukwazi ukutshintsha oku kulandelayo; kuba ukuba uzitsiba ezinye zazo, ngokuqinisekileyo ezinye zeengxaki zakho ziya kuqhubeka nokuzingisa.
- Inqanaba lokuqala libonakaliswa ngokuba lelona linzulu kwaye ngamanye amaxesha silijonga; ukuba ngoyena unokubangela iingxaki ngakumbi ebomini bethu. Umbono kukwamkela ukuba singabantu, sineminqweno, iimvakalelo, ilungelo lokuphila nokuzichaza, sonwabe kwaye sibenobomi apho siziva sikhululekile xa sinoba ngubani kwaye sinantoni.
- Ngokwenxalenye yayo, inqanaba lesibini liqukethe ukwazi nokwamkela ubuntu bethu; Nguwo ophawula abanye abantu ngeemvakalelo, iingcinga, indlela yokuziphatha kunye nezenzo ezahlukileyo kwezo zabanye. Musa ukuzisola ngendlela oyiyo (ngaphandle kokuba uyabonzakalisa okanye ubachaphazele abanye, ngokucacileyo).
- Okokugqibela, kubandakanya ukuzixhasa (endaweni yokuzigxeka okanye ukugweba), Oko kukuthi, ukuba ngumhlobo wakho. Oku kuthetha ukuba uyakuqonda kwaye uhlalutye ukuba kutheni ucinga, uziva okanye uziphatha ngendlela, uqonde xa uyenza ngendlela engeyiyo kwaye emva koko, akuncede uphucule.
Yiba nethemba ngakumbi
Kubalulekile ukuba sazi ukuba kufuneka sikuphephe ukufuna okungaphaya kwamandla ethu kunokuba sinakho okanye sinokwenza. Ngokuqinisekileyo yinto esiyenzayo ukuphucula, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ukuthambekela kunokuba neziphumo ezibi; kuba yonke into eyenziweyo ngokugqithisileyo ihlala iyingozi.
Zazi ngokwakho, zamkele ngokwakho kwaye ujonge ngokuqinisekileyo kwizicwangciso zakho zexesha elizayo. Nje ukuba uyazamkela, Kulula kakhulu ukuba nethemba ngotshintsho ofuna ukulwenza lube ngcono.
Bonisa wonke umntu ukuba ungubani
Yeka ukucinga ukuba ukuzifihla okanye ukuzicinezela uza kugcina izihlobo, usebenze, phakathi kwabanye. Kufuneka uzamkele kwaye ubonise abantu ukuba unjani; Ngale ndlela kuphela apho uya kuba nakho ukufumana abantu abakuxhasayo kwaye bakuthande njengoko unjalo.
Beka uloyiko lwakho ecaleni
Nangona uloyiko lwethu lusikhusela kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo, zikwasibopha. Kubalulekile ukuba silwe noloyiko olungasivumeli ukuba siqhubele phambili, njengoloyiko lokungaphumeleli, oluthi lwakoyiswa, kuxa sikwazile ukukhula ngokwenyani njengabantu.
Yazi imida yakho
Ukuba uyazazi, uya kwazi ukuba unemida ethile kunemiba eyahlukeneyo. Ukuba nolwazi olu kuyakuvumela ukuba ulwe ngamandla amakhulu. Ngamanye amaxesha sicinga ukuba singazitshintsha izinto esingenakho ukuzilawula okanye sizibekele iinjongo ezinomdla nezingenakulindeleka; ethi isuse iminqweno kwaye isenze sizive singalunganga ngathi.
Ukwamkela akuthethi ukuba kufuneka sizinze ngenxa yento esiyiyo okanye esinayo kwaye akukho nto inokutshintsha; kodwa endaweni yoko samkele imeko esikuyo ngoku, eya kusivumela ukuba sihlalutye into nganye esifuna ukuyitshintsha ebomini bethu ibe ngcono.
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