Ukuzivocavoca okanye ukuCamngca

Le mithambo yenzelwe ukufezekisa ingqondo, oko kukuthi, ingqondo. Zikulungele ukuphumla, ukuphucula imveliso yethu, kunye nokuhamba. Obu buchule esiza kubona ukuba busebenza kubo abadala kunye nabantwana.

Yintoni ingqondo?

Ingqondo okanye ingqondo kukwazisa okwangoku. Ihlala apha ngoku. Ngomqondo okwangoku, ukhululekile ukuba ubanjwe kwixesha elidlulileyo kwaye ukhathazeke ngekamva.

Iziphumo zalo mkhuba luxolo lwengqondo.

Kodwa uhlala unxibelelana njani "Apha ngoku" ukuba ingqondo yakho ibhadula usuka kwenye indawo uye kwenye? Impendulo ikwi "ingqalelo epheleleyo". Kubonakala kunzima ukufezekisa olu hlobo lwengqwalaselo kodwa ngenxa yoko siza kubhenca ezinye iimithambo onokuyiphumeza ngayo ukuba uyenza mihla le.

Ezi ndlela zengqondo zibandakanya ngokukodwa kuba zinjalo indlela entle yokwandisa umgangatho wobomi.

Ukuzivocavoca 1: umzuzu omnye wokucinga okanye ukucinga.

Yindlela elula yokucinga ngokujonga indlela. Inokwenziwa nangaliphi na ixesha emini.

Thatha umzuzwana ngoku ukuzama oku. Cwangcisa ialam ukuba ivakalise kwimizuzu eyi-1. Kwimizuzwana engama-60 elandelayo, umsebenzi wakho kukuba gxila lonke ingqalelo yakho ekuphefumlweni. Umzuzu nje 🙂 Shiya amehlo akho evulekile kwaye uphefumle ngesiqhelo. Ngokuqinisekileyo ingqondo yakho iya kuphazamiseka amatyeli amaninzi kodwa ayinamsebenzi, buyisela ingqalelo yakho emphefumlweni.

Ukuzivocavoca kwengqondo kunamandla kunokuba ungacinga. Kuthatha iminyaka emininzi yokusebenza ngaphambi kokuba ube nakho Gcwalisa umzuzu omnye wokuqonda.

Unokwenza lo msebenzi kaninzi ebudeni bemini ukuya buyisela ingqondo yakho kumzuzu wangoku kwaye ndikunike uxolo.

Ixesha elingaphezulu, kancinci kancinci, ungalandisa ixesha lokuzilolonga ixesha elide. Lo msebenzi uyisiseko sokucinga ngokuchanekileyo kwengqondo.

Ukuzivocavoca 2: Ukujongwa kokuQaphela

Chola into onayo ecaleni kwakho. Ingayindebe yekofu okanye ipensile, umzekelo. Beka ezandleni zakho kwaye uvumele ingqalelo yakho ukuba ifakwe ngokupheleleyo yiloo nto. Jonga nje.

Uya kuqaphela ukuziva ngakumbi ngokubakho "Apha ngoku" Ngethuba lo msebenzi. Uye wazi ngakumbi ubunyani. Qaphela indlela ingqondo yakho ekhupha ngayo ngokukhawuleza iingcinga zexesha elidlulileyo okanye elizayo, kwaye kwahluke njani ukuba kumzuzu wangoku ngendlela enokwazi.

Ukuqwalaselwa kwengqondo yindlela yokucamngca. Kubuqili, kodwa kunamandla. Yizame.

Ingqondo injengesibane esinamandla esivumela ukuba ubone okungaphezulu kunoko ukujongileyo. Ingca yengca ikhanya ngokoqobo elangeni ngombala oluhlaza ocacileyo ... Inkqubo yakho iba ngamava asezulwini ngenxa yamandla okuqonda okanye okuqonda.

Unokuziqhelanisa nokuqwalaselwa kwengqondo ngeendlebe zakho. Abantu abaninzi bafumanisa ukuba "ukumamela ngenyameko" yeyona ndlela iqatha yokujonga kunokubona.

Ukuzivocavoca 3: bala imizuzwana eli-10

Ukuzivocavoca kuyinto elula yokuzivocavoca 1. Kule mithambo, Endaweni yokujonga ukuphefumla kwakho, vala amehlo kwaye ujonge kuphela ukubala ukuya kwishumi. Ukuba uxinzelelo lwakho luye luqhubeke, qala ngaphezulu kwinombolo yokuqala. Mhlawumbi oku kuyenzeka kuwe:

«Inye… zimbini… zintathu… ndiza kuthini kuJuan xa ndidibana naye? Owu Thixo, ndiyacinga.

«Inye… zimbini… zintathu… zine… oku akunzima kangako emva kwayo yonke loo nto" Hayi hayi ... yingcinga leyo! "

«Inye… zimbini… zintathu… ngoku ndinazo. Ndigxile kakhulu ngoku… Thixo, yenye ingcinga. "

Ukuzivocavoca 4: imiqondiso yokuqwalaselwa

Gxila kwingqwalaselo yakho yokuphefumla ngalo lonke ixesha umqondiso othile usenzeka. Umzekelo, ngalo lonke ixesha ikhala ifowuni, khawuleza uzise ingqalelo yakho kumzuzu wangoku kwaye uhlale ugxile ekuphefumlweni kwakho.

Khetha ngokulula umqondiso olungele wena. Unokuthatha isigqibo sokuba wazi ngokupheleleyo ngalo lonke ixesha ujonga esipilini. Okanye ngaba ngalo lonke ixesha izandla zakho zibambana? Unokukhetha ingoma yentaka njengophawu lwakho.

Ukuphuhlisa kunye nokwenza le ndlela yokucinga kunamandla amakhulu okuphumla.

Ukuzivocavoca 5: ukuphefumla okwaziyo

Lo msebenzi unokwenziwa umile okanye uhleli, kwaye phantse naphina kwaye nangaliphi na ixesha. Into ekufuneka uyenzile kukuhlala uzolile kwaye ujonge ukuphefumla kwakho okomzuzu.

Qala ngokuphefumlela ngaphakathi nangaphandle. Umjikelo kufuneka uhlale malunga nemizuzwana emi-6. Ukuphefumla ngaphakathi ngeempumlo zakho nangaphandle ngomlomo wakho, uvumele ukuphefumla kwakho kungenzeki.

Beka iingcinga zakho ecaleni umzuzu. Beka ecaleni izinto omele uzenze kamva. Jonga nje ukuphefumla kwakho okomzuzu.

Ukuba uyonwabele le ngcaciso imfutshane yokuzola kwengqondo, kutheni ungakwandisi ibe yimizuzu emibini okanye emithathu?

Ukuzivocavoca 6: Qaphela izinto ezincinci kunye neziqhelekileyo ozenzayo yonke imihla

Lo msebenzi wenzelwe ukuhlakulela ulwazi olwandisiweyo kunye noxabiso ngemisebenzi elula yemihla ngemihla.

Cinga ngento oyenzayo yonke imihla ngaphezulu kwesinye; into oyithatha kancinci, njengokuvula umnyango, umzekelo. Okwangoku xa uchukumisa iqhosha okanye uphatha ukuvula umnyango, yiva ngokunzulu zonke iimvakalelo zelo mzuzu: ukufudumala kweqhina, indlela oliguqula ngayo, ukuthamba kwalo, ...

Olu hlobo lokuqonda akufuneki lube ngokwasemzimbeni kuphela. Umzekelo: Nanini na xa usenza ingcinga engathandekiyo, unokukhetha ukuthatha umzuzwana ukuyeka, ulebhelishe loo ngcinga njengengamampunge, kwaye ukhulule ukungakhathali. Okanye, mhlawumbi ngalo lonke ixesha unuka ukutya, yazi loo nto ivumba kwaye uyayixabisa indlela onethamsanqa ngayo kukutya okumnandi kunye nokwabelana nosapho kunye nabahlobo.

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