Ukuhamba ngengxaki ekhoyo akukho mnandi kuye nakubani na kuba unokuziva ukuba yonke into iyangqubeka ezinyaweni zakho ... Nangona enyanisweni, mhlawumbi ubeka yonke into endaweni yayo. Ingxaki ekhoyo ikwabizwa ngokuba kukukhathazeka nangona ikhona into efanayo: ivakalelwa kukuba ubomi abunantsingiselo. Kuvakala ngathi ubukho abunantsingiselo, akukho mida ... Siyazi ukuba sonke siza kufa ngenye imini kwaye ke, iyintoni intsingiselo yobomi?
Uxinzelelo olukhoyo okanye iingxaki zihlala zivela ngexesha lotshintsho kwaye zibonisa ubunzima kulungelelwaniso, zihlala zinxulumene nelahleko yokhuseleko. Umzekelo, umfundi wasekholejini ohambisa indlu okanye umntu omdala ohamba noqhawulo-mtshato olunzima unokuziva ngathi isiseko ubomi babo babakhelwe kuso siyabhidika. Oku kunokukhokelela ekubuzeni intsingiselo yobukho.
Kwizinto ezikhoyo, ingxaki ekhoyo ithathwa njengohambo, ukuqonda, amava ayimfuneko, kunye nobunzima. Kuvela kulwazi ngenkululeko yakho kunye nendlela obuya kuphela ngayo ubomi ngenye imini.
Umngcipheko onokubangela ingxaki ekhoyo
Ingxaki ekhoyo ihlala iqhubeka emva kweziganeko ezithile zobomi, kubandakanya:
- Ukuchongwa kwesifo esibi okanye esisongela ubomi.
- Faka udidi lobudala obubalulekileyo, njengama-40, 50, okanye ama-65
- Ukufumana amava abuhlungu okanye abuhlungu.
- Umsebenzi okanye utshintsho lomsebenzi
- Umtshato okanye uqhawulo-mtshato
- Yiba nabantwana
- Ukufa komntu omthandayo
Abantu abanezi meko zilandelayo zempilo yengqondo banokuba sengozini enkulu yokuba neengxaki ezikhoyo; nangona ezi ngxaki zingabangeli ingxaki ekhoyo:
- Ixhala
- Ukuphazamiseka kubuntu obunemida
- Uxinzelelo
- Ubume obungalunganga obuphambanisayo
Wazi njani ukuba unengxaki ekhoyo?
Ukuze wazi ukuba unayo okanye awunayo ingxaki ekhoyo, kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba zikhona ezinye iimpawu ezinokukunceda ukuba uchonge. Ngexesha lengxaki ekhoyo, unokufumana iimpawu ezahlukeneyo, kubandakanya:
- Ixhala
- Uxinzelelo
- Isizungu
- Ukukhathazeka okugqithisileyo
- Ndiziva ndoyisiwe
- Ukunqongophala kwenkuthazo namandla.
- Ukuzahlula kubahlobo kunye nabantu obathandayo
Iindidi zeengxaki ezikhoyo
Ingxaki ekhoyo ligama eliqhelekileyo, elinokusetyenziselwa ukudibanisa iintlobo ezininzi zeengxaki ezinokubangela ukuba umntu abe nengxaki ekhoyo.
Uloyiko noxanduva
Ubukho buyagxininisa ukuba sonke sikhululekile ukwenza izigqibo ebomini, kwaye le nkululeko yokwenza izigqibo iza noxanduva. Nangona kunjalo, unikwe indawo yokugqibela yokufa, izenzo zakho zinokubonakala zingenantsingiselo xa zijongwa ngokunxulumene nomfanekiso omkhulu wobomi bakho.
Ngale ndlela, inkululeko ikhokelela ekuphelelweni lithemba, kwaye uxanduva lwale nkululeko lubangela ixhala. Kukangaphi usilwa nesigqibo kwaye woyika ukuba sisigqibo esingalunganga? Olo loyiko ukwenza isigqibo esingalunganga kubonisa ixhala lenkululeko enxulumene neenkxalabo ezikhoyo.
Abakholelekileyo bakholelwa ukuba sinolu xinzelelo okanye uxinzelelo kuba akukho ndlela "ilungileyo" kwaye akukho sikhokelo sokusixelela ukuba senze ntoni. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo, elowo kuthi makenze ingqiqo ngobomi bakhe. Ukuba olu xanduva luziva lukhulu kakhulu, sinokubuyela kwiindlela zokuziphatha ezisikhusela kolu luvo loxinzelelo.
Intsingiselo yobomi
Ukuba ulwa noxinzelelo olukhona, unokuzibuza, "Yintoni injongo yokuphila?" Njengoko uqhubeka notshintsho ebomini bakho kwaye ulahlekelwe kukhuseleko lomxholo oqhelekileyo kunye nolwakhiwo, ungabuza umbuzo ngobomi, ukuba ekugqibeleni, isiphumo kukuba uyafa. Kutheni usenza izinto?
Ukukwazi ukuba nomnqweno wento enokuthi ithathelwe ingqalelo njengobomi obungenantsingiselo kubonisa ukuxabisa ubomi ngokwabo. Ukuba ungayeka ukuzama ukuphilela ukuphela, okanye "injongo," kwaye uqale ukuze uphile ngesenzo "sokuba" uqobo, uya kuqala ukubuphila ubomi bakho ngokupheleleyo.
Ukunyaniseka
Ingxaki ekhoyo inokukhokelela kubunyani, obuya kukuzisela uxinzelelo. Unokuba neengcinga malunga nokudlula kobukho bakho kunye nendlela ophila ngayo. Xa uyeka ukucinga ukuba uza kuvuka uphila yonke imihla, unokuba nexhala, kodwa kwangaxeshanye uya kufumana intsingiselo enzulu kuyo yonke into.
Ungaqaphela ukuba zonke iingxaki zemihla ngemihla ezikukhathazayo azisabonakali zibalulekile, nazo zonke iingcinga, Uloyiko kunye noxinzelelo malunga nokuhamba komhlaba kuyanyamalala, kuba ujongene nengxaki enkulu kakhulu. Ekupheleni kobomi bakho, ngaba uya kuyenza le nto? Ngaba kuya kubaluleka ukuba ukhetha wuphi umsebenzi, yimalini onayo, okanye yeyiphi imoto oyiqhubileyo?
Isigaba sobomi
Uninzi lwabantu luba nengxaki ekhoyo xa betshintshela kwisizukulwana esitsha: ukusuka ebuntwaneni ukuya ebuntombini okanye ebudaleni ukuya kubomi obudala. Iziganeko ezibalulekileyo zobomi, kubandakanya nokuthweswa izidanga, ukuqala umsebenzi omtsha okanye utshintsho lomsebenzi, ukutshata okanye ukuqhawula umtshato, ukuba nabantwana kunye nokuthatha umhlala-phantsi, nako kunokubangela ingxaki ekhoyo.
Ukufa nokugula
Ukuphulukana neqabane, umzali, umntakwabo, umntwana, okanye omnye umntu omthandayo kuhlala kunyanzela abantu ukuba bajongane nokusweleka kwabo kwaye babuze ngentsingiselo yobomi babo. Ngokufanayo, ukuba ujongene nesifo esibi okanye esisongela ubomi, Unokuba nengxaki ekhoyo ekoyikisayo ngeengcinga zokufa kunye nenjongo yobomi.
Ukuba ucinga uhamba nobunzima obukhoyo kodwa ungazi ukuba ungamelana njani okanye ucinga ukuba ngekhe ukwazi ukuyoyisa, funa inkxaso kwangoko. Ukuhamba ngengxaki ekhoyo kuqhelekile kunokuba ucinga kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuba uhambe wedwa.
Unokufuna inkxaso kusapho nakwizihlobo, kodwa ukuba ubona kufanelekile, funa uncedo kwingcali yezempilo yengqondo ukuze ufumane isikhokelo malunga nento onokuyenza ukuze uphinde ufumane ulungelelwano lwangaphakathi. Ngale ndlela uya kuphinda ubuxabise ubomi onabo kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, uya kuba nguwe kwakhona. Sinobomi obunye kuphela kwaye kufanelekile ukuba uphile ngokubulela ithuba lokuba ngokwakho yonke imihla yobukho bakho.