Ndikushiya ividiyo yenkomfa UJona Lehrer, intatheli ebhala malunga neengqondo kunye neuroscience. Yinkomfa yale Umnyhadala omkhulu wenkomfa eyenzeka ePuebla, eMexico, kwaye ibizwa Isixeko seMibono (Ijelo le-YouTube lesiXeko semibono).
Ngesi sihlandlo, uJonah Lehrer ubalaselisa ukubaluleka kweemvakalelo kubomi bethu. Kule meko ndifuna ukwenza umboniso ngaphambi kokubeka ividiyo.
Mva nje, ndiyabona ukuba kukho imijikelezo emibini yangoku kwisayikholoji:
1) Kukho abo bathembayo amandla esizathu sokuphucula ubomi bethu.
2) Kukho abo bathembayo sikwazi ukulawula iimvakalelo ukuphucula ubomi bethu.
Kwiminyaka emininzi isayikholoji ibeke ugxininiso olukhulu kumandla okucinga ukuguqula indlela yokuziphatha, yonke into ibisekwe kulungelelwaniso lwenyani; Ingqondo yokusebenza kwengqondo ifana nale ikhoyo.
Nangona kunjalo, emva kwencwadi eqhumayo ye UDaniel Goleman "Ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo" ngo-1995 kuye kwagxininiswa kwilizwe elinamandla leemvakalelo kunye nokubeka, ngakumbi nangakumbi, kwikona emnyama yokuqiqa.
Ndicinga ukuba izizathu kunye neemvakalelo kufuneka zifunde ukuhlala kunye. Kuya kuxhomekeka kumntu ngamnye. Awunakho ukuxelela umntu oziva ngokweemvakalelo ukuba akhokelwe ziimvakalelo zabo kuba baya kuba ngathi bahamba ngenqanawa. Kuza kubakho amaxesha apho kunokuba kuhle ukuvumela ukuba sikhokelwe ziimvakalelo zethu, kodwa, ngamanye amaxesha, ngokuqinisekileyo kungcono ukusebenzisa iingqondo zethu ezinengqiqo ukuphucula ubomi bethu.
UJona Lehrer ngokungathandabuzekiyo ukholelwa kumandla eemvakalelo kwaye uxelela ibali elinomdla elenzekile kwimpi yomkhosi wase-Bhritane: