Wonke umntu ubhenela ekuqiqiseni xa kufuneka abantu bacinge kwaye babonakalise ukuze bafikelele kwizigqibo ezahlukeneyo okanye izigwebo kwimeko ethile. Isizathu yingxoxo yokuba umntu kufuneka abenakho ukungqina into ethile okanye ukweyisela omnye umntu ngeempikiswano zabo. Wonke umntu ufuna ukulunga kwimpikiswano kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, akusoloko kunjalo kwaye bayaphazama.
Isizathu kunye nekratshi nako kuhamba kunye. Ngamaxesha amaninzi xa abantu befuna ukulunga kuzo zonke iindleko, ikratshi alibavumeli ukuba babone ezinye izinto ezinokwenzeka kwaye bavala ibhendi ngaphandle kokukwazi ukujonga imeko. Isizathu sinokuba sesona sizathu sokuziphatha komntu. Kule meko siza kube sithetha ngokuqiqa kwaye kunokuthatha (isiphelo sibandakanyiwe kwindawo) okanye sinyanzele (kukho izigqibo malunga nento ethile).
Isizathu
Xa umntu efuna ukuqonda, usebenzisa imigaqo kwaye ucinga ukuba oko akukholelwayo kuyinyani. Sebenzisa ingqiqo ukufumanisa imigaqo yokuqiqa, njengokuthathela ingqalelo umgaqo wesazisi (umxholo yingcinga), umgaqo wokungangqubani (umbono ofanayo unokuba kwaye ungabi ngexesha elinye) okanye umgaqo isithathu esingafakwanga (ukuba phakathi kokubakho nokungabikho komqondo, akukho ndawo yaphakathi) Ngale ndlela, esona sizathu somntu sifuna ukunika ukuhambelana kwezinto ngokuqiqa.
Ukuqiqa kuhlala kucingelwa ukuba kuchasene ngqo ne-intuition. Umzekelo oqhelekileyo we-intuition ngumbono wokuqala esiwenzileyo xa sidibana nomntu omtsha. Iza engqondweni ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokukhawuleza, kwaye, kwiimeko ezininzi, asinakucacisa ukuba kutheni sicinga ukuba lo mntu ulungile, lo mntu kusenokwenzeka ukuba akalunganga. Ngokuchasene noko, xa abantu becinga ngokuqiqa, bacinga, umzekelo, ngokusombulula iingxaki kwimathematika kwigumbi lokufundela: inkqubo ecothayo, esebenzayo kunye neyaziwayo. Abantu, ubuncinci baseNtshona, nabo bacinga ukuba ukuqiqa kuhlala kusebenza ngakumbi kune-intuition; Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kutheni ugqitha kuyo yonke le ngxaki ukuba uqiqe ukuba iziphumo azikho bhetele kunee-intuitions?
Intuition ngabahlobo bokuqiqa
I-intuition kufuneka ikhawuleze, ingasebenzi, ingabikho zingqondweni, ixhomekeke kancinane kwimemori yokusebenza, kwaye ithambekele kwiimpazamo kunye nokukhetha. Ukuqiqa kufanele ukuba kucothe, kunye nomzamo kunye nokuqonda ngokupheleleyo.
Ngelixa ukubonakaliswa kwe-intuition kungaphezulu okanye kungaphantsi kwe-in, imeko yokuqiqa isekwe ekusebenziseni ukuqiqa okungafunekiyo. Khawufane ucinge ukuba kuya kufuneka ubeke uphawu kwimemori. Unokucinga ngokuzilolonga kunye nokuzilolonga kokuzama ukukhumbula uthotho olude lweenombolo ezingahleliwe. Okanye ungacinga ngememori ezenzekelayo yokufika endlwini yakho okanye ukuba ungubani igama lakho.
Uninzi lwee-intuition zinokwenziwa ukuba zikhumbule, zixineke, kwaye zifunele inkumbulo yokusebenza: funda ukuba uzama ukucacisa ukubhala ngesandla okungalunganga, ukukhangela okubonakalayo ukuba ufuna ubuso obuthile phakathi kwenani elikhulu labantu, njl. Uhlobo lwe-intuition yeyona nto ekufuneka sigxile kuyo. Ngumatshini owenza olona hlobo lubalulekileyo lube nokwenzeka. Ukungalingani kokuqiqa, kufuneka siqwalasele indlela elula ngayo, elona nyathelo lincinci lisenokufanelekela ukuqiqa.
Ukuyiqonda ngcono
ULucia noMarcos abavumelani malunga nomdlalo bhanyabhanya ekufuneka bewubonile ngokuhlwanje. U-Lucia uthi, "Ukhethe i-movie kwiveki ephelileyo, ke kule veki lithuba lam." UMarcos uyaphendula: "Kulungile ngokwaneleyo, lithuba lakho lokukhetha." Olu tshintsho alubalulekanga, kodwa lisafuna ukuqiqa. U-Lucia kufuneka abenakho ukufumana isizathu sokuba kunguye ekufuneka athathe isigqibo sokuba yeyiphi imovie azoyibukela. UMarcos kufuneka akwazi ukuvavanya esi sizathu kwaye Thatha isigqibo sokuba ulungile ngokwaneleyo ukuba anike ithuba.
Ukujonga lo mboniso mncinci wokuqiqa, siyaqonda ukuba, eneneni, kujongeka njengoku intuition. Kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza okukhulu: noLucia okanye uMarcos akufuneki bame okwexeshana ukubonakalisa amandla "Kwiveki ephelileyo ukhethe umboniso bhanyabhanya, ke kule veki lithuba lam." Ayithathi mzamo mkhulu okanye inkumbulo yokusebenza ukuqokelela ingxoxo enjalo, kungaphantsi kokuyivavanya. Ngokubalulekileyo, abantu abazi nyani ukuba kutheni lempikiswano icenga. Isekwe kubuchwephesha bokulunga esingenakupela ngokulula, kwaye iingcali zengqondo zisazama ukuqonda. Nangona isizathu senziwa ngononophelo, indlela ekwenziwa ngayo igcinwa iphantsi kweingqondo.
Ngaphandle kwento yokuba inokukhawuleza, ingazami, kwaye ingazi nto, ukuqiqa kwabelana ngolunye uphawu olubalulekileyo nge-intuitions: indlela yokusebenza. Ngaphandle kokungafezeki, isizathu siphantsi kocwangco olucwangcisiweyo, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, kukukhetha ukungakhathali. Ngapha koko, ukuqiqa kufana ne-intuition kangangokuba kuchanekile ukutsho ukuba ukuqiqa kunomdla kakhulu. Okanye, endaweni yoko, ukuba ukuqiqa kusekwe kuseto lwe-intuition: ukuqiqa kuthathela ingqalelo kwi-intuition malunga nokuba sisiphi isizathu esifanelekileyo sokwamkela isiphelo esinikiweyo. Sinomdla wokuba ukuba uMarcos ukhethe imovie kwiveki ephelileyo, U-Lucia angayisebenzisa njengesizathu sokukhetha i-movie kule veki.
Ngayiphi na imeko, ukuqiqa kunye ne-intuition inokuba ngabahlobo ababambe izandla, kuba zombini ziyimfuneko ukuze bakwazi ukuphendula kwimpikiswano apho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeengcinga kufuneka zilungisiwe ngokuqiqa. Kubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba ukuhlala uchanekile ayiyongcamango ilungileyo, kuba ngamanye amaxesha, ukuhlala ngoxolo nokuziphatha ngokwakho kubaluleke kakhulu kunokuba ngena kwimidlalo yamagama ukufumana ukuba ngubani olungileyo kumcimbi othile.
