Ndingubani? Ndifuna ukuba ngubani ebomini? Yintoni endikhokelayo? Zithini izinto endizithandayo? Le yimibuzo eqhelekileyo kuthi sonke ehlabathini esingazi nto ngayo ukuba sizichaze ukuba ngubani.
Ubunina bobuntu kukuqonda kunye nokuzimela komntu ngamnye ngaye; kukuqonda okukhoyo. Zizo ezo nkcukacha ezibangela impembelelo kwaye zifunyenwe kubo bonke ubomi, banako bafikelele kwinqanaba lokudlula kangangokuba banakho ukutshintsha ngokupheleleyo indlela yokuziphatha kunye nobuntu.
Uphuhliso lwayo luqala ebuntwaneni; Xa usana sele lubazi ubukho babanye kwaye nolwakhe emhlabeni, inyathelo ngenyathelo liqala ukwenza indima eliyimeleyo eluntwini. Ubuni boBuntu buba yimfuneko kunye nelungelo lomntu.
Buyintoni ubuntu bakho?
Kwindawo ezininzi zehlabathi, kuthathelwa ingqalelo ukuba abantwana kufuneka bakhulele kwimeko engenazenzo zokuziphatha okubi, kuba oko kuya kuthintela ukukhula kommi okwaziyo ukonzakalisa abanye kunye naye. Ukusuka kwindawo yokujonga, Abantu yenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo kubuntu bomntu.
Ubuntwana bufanelekile ekwakhekeni kwesazisi sakho ukuze kwinkqubo yokukhula de kube ebudaleni umntu lowo abe nakho ukwenza izigqibo ezichanekileyo, eyinkqubo apho kukhethwa khona phakathi kwezinye iindlela okanye iindlela zokusombulula ezahlukeneyo iimeko zobomi kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo: usapho, ubuqu, uthando, umsebenzi, njl.
Ukudibana kwezentlalo ngu ubuchule bokudityaniswa koluntu kubaluleke kakhulu, kuba, ngaphandle kokubakho koku, umntu oqhelekileyo ebengenakuba nesibonelelo sokuchonga iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuthanda kunye nokuziphatha, ezizinto ezincinci ezithi zichaze umntu ukuba uyakwazi ukujoyina iqela. Iingcamango azijonga ukususela ebuntwaneni, ekudibaniseni nendalo, ziqala ukuyilwa kombono apho umhlaba uya kuxabiswa khona.
Ukuba lilungu loluntu kwaye uvumelana nezimvo ezizikhuthazayo, kunokubangela ifuthe elibonakalayo kwisazisi somntu. Ulwimi, ubuzwe, uhlanga ekuhlaleni, amasiko kunye nosapho luchaphazela kakhulu indlela yokuziphatha, njengoko zizinto ezisibandakanya ngokupheleleyo nangenxa yokuhambisa ulwazi rhoqo ukuba umntu ungowabo njani. Kwelinye icala, igama kunye nobudala yenye yezinto ezenza uluvo lomntu ngamnye.
Umntu ngamnye uzimele geqe, kuba ukukhula kwabo kuxhomekeke kwindalo nakwinkcubeko yabo, yiyo loo nto inkululeko yomntu ifunyanwa kuphela ngokutshintsha iqela lamaziko elidalwe ngabantu elinokuthi licinezele okanye lifumane inkululeko. Umsebenzi womntu ngamnye Akuxhomekeki kuphela ekuziphatheni okungokwemvelo, kodwa nakwisakhono sayo sokuphindaphindeka kwerejista engokomfuziselo yamanyathelo okusebenza, okuthetha ukuvula ingcinga ngokubhekisele kwinto entsha nengazange ibonwe.
Iimpawu zesazisi sakho
Ngokwencwadi ethi "Psychology yoLuntu ukusuka kuMbindi Merika" nguMartin-Baro, isazisi esineempawu ezine ezingundoqo:
- Izinzile ngokuqinisekileyo: "Ndisafana nayizolo, nangona mhlawumbi ngcono itshintshe kancinci."
- Ibhekisa kwihlabathi okanye kwiqela lentlalontle: Umntu uhlala ekulungele ukuba ngamaqela endalo eyahlukileyo, zonke ezi zinengqondo ekhethekileyo kunye nentsingiselo eyodwa kwisimo sentlalo apho baqhuba khona imisebenzi yabo.
- Isazisi somntu siyadityaniswa kubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu.
- Isazisi somntu siyimveliso yoluntu kunye nesenzo esifanelekileyo emntwini.
Izinto ezinefuthe kulwakhiwo lwesazisi
Usapho
Le yeyona arhente iphambili ethi wonke umntu ayicinge xa kukhankanywa izinto, yeyona yona ithe ngqo, isondele kwaye icacile. Yonke into iqala ekhaya, ke usapho liziko ekuthethwa ngalo kwintlalo ube ngumntu olungileyo nakwilungu leqela loluntu.
Isikolo
Elinye iziko livuleke ngakumbi kunelosapho apho uluntu lunika khona uxanduva lokuqeqesha abantu kwimikhuba nakwamasiko. Kule nto, umntu ujonga ngakumbi abasesichengeni sokuphenjelelwa Ngabanye abantu ukusukela umntu ngamnye kwaye ke usapho ngalunye lunendlela eyahlukileyo yokuba ngumzali.
Amaqela abahlobo
Le yiarhente ixesha elininzi ayikhathalelwa, kodwa iyayichaphazela indlela yethu yobuntu kunye nokwenza uhlobo lomntu esidibana naye, njengoko isitsho intetho: "Ndixelele ukuba uhlala nabani kwaye ndizokuxelela ukuba ungubani."
Uluntu
Umbutho lelo qela labantu kunye namaziko ahlala kwindawo ethile. Ukutyikitya okuphetheyo, isitayile asifumanayo kuya kuba negalelo kumntu kwisikhundla sentlalo yomntu, ngokunxulumene nomsebenzi wabo.
Izakhiwo zazo
Kukho amaxesha apho umntu eya kuhlala ezama ukufihla izinto angazithandiyo ngomntu wakhe, eguqula la manqaku mabi abe ngutyekelo olupheleleyo olunesiphumo esiyingozi kuba ngamanye amaxesha kunokwenzeka ukuba kugxilwe kwinto abazama ngayo fihla, baziva bephenjelelwe kakubi nokuba novakalelo olupheleleyo kulo naluphi na uluvo okanye ukugxekwa okunokuthi kuveliswe yinto ethile yesazisi.
Ingqondo yenkqubo kunye nokuchaneka anako umntu
Oku kunxulumene nokuba ngaba kulandelwa kulindelo lwentlalontle kuye ekuthatheni inxaxheba kwakhe kwimimandla eyahlukeneyo yobomi bentlalo ekuthi ngexesha elinye okanye kwelinye abe yinxalenye.
Inkqubo yokwakha isazisi
- Ukuqwalaselwa komzimba wakho.
- Ukuchongwa kwabantu abasondeleyo, ikakhulu ngabazali.
- Ngokuthe ngcembe uyanxulumana nehlabathi elijikeleze amanye amaziko, esi sidla ngokuba sisikolo.
- Funda ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zabo indlela yokuziphatha kunye neencasa.
- Uyaqonda ukuba ufuna abanye ukuba baphile kwaye baphuhlise umbono we-Self.
- "Mna" umfanekiso obonisa ukuba ndingubani.
Akukho mxholo ngqo okanye isazisi, ngaphandle kwabo banegalelo ngokugqibeleleyo kuphuhliso lwabo.
Sisiphumo sobudlelwane noluntu, umntu uthatha iindlela zobuntu kunye neendlela zokwenza izinto, akhulise amandla athile kwaye acinezele abanye, konke oku kudibanisa ukuzazisa. Sizizidalwa ezinokukwazi ukwenza izinto ezintsha kunye nokudala, Ngeso sizathu, amathuba okuthatha amanyathelo okuqiqa, awabantu kunye neentlobo, athe anyuka, ngenxa yezi zakhono zibalaseleyo zokufunda.
Izenzo zethu zisichaza njengabantu, maxa wambi ezibonakalisa njengokungaqiniseki okanye okuyingozi. Amaxesha amaninzi, unyulo lubanjwa kwimeko yoxinzelelo. Ke, ukuntsokotha kwezenzo zabantu okanye imeko yokuziphatha yamkelwe.
Okuqhelekileyo umahluko phakathi kweenqobo ezisesikweni zokugwetywa kunye nokuziphatha okunesiphumo kuye kwathatha indawo yohlobo lwemibuzo phakathi kwaba babini, eye yaxhasa inyani yokuba imfundo ivele ngokuzimela ekuziphatheni ngokuzimela komntu nasekuphuhlisweni kwengqondo yabo ebalulekileyo, esekwe kwisakhono uphonononge ukugwetywa okudala, thatha okuye kwaqatshelwa wafunda okutsha, ngokwaphula lonke ilifa lenkcubeko nasekukhangeleni iingxoxo ezintsha ezisengqiqweni ezisekwe kwintetho esengqiqweni.