Impembelelo yePygmalion: ulindelo luguqula njani ukuziphatha

Iinkolelo umntu anazo ngaye zinokuguqula isimilo ngokuziphatha kakubi okanye ngcono ngokuxhomekeke kwiimeko azifumana ekuzo okanye inkxaso yezentlalo ayifumanayo malunga namandla abo. Umzekelo, umntwana oxelelwe ukuba akanakufezekisa into, akazukuyenza, kuba uya kukhula ecinga ukuba akakwazi ukuyenza. Akana lizwi lenkuthazo elimenza abone ukuba unakho ngokwenene.

Kwelinye icala, emntwaneni omxelela ukuba unakho ukufezekisa into, ukuba ukuba wenza iinzame uya kuba nakho ukuyiphumeza ... Uya kuba nakho ukuzibona usenza into oyifunayo kwaye uya kujonga indlela yokuyifumana. Uya kucinga ukuba unako, kwaye ke uya kuphumelela. Ke ngoko, Iziphumo zePygmalion zicacile: into esiyicingayo, izalisekisiwe ... ikwabizwa ngokuba yi ukuzalisekisa isiprofeto.

'Unentloni', 'Ububi bakho!', 'Ubonakala usisidenge', 'Awuzukuyifumana', 'Ungakhe ulinge, kuba awuyi kuyifumana', 'Wena ngekhe ubengumntu ebomini ',' Akukho mntu uza kukuthanda ngale ndlela umbi ngayo '… Bayimizekelo yeelebheli ezingalunganga kunye nemiyalezo enokuthi ikhokelele kwisiphumo esibi sePygmalion kubantu abayifumanayo (okanye isiphumo seGalatea). Kwelinye icala, ukuba imiyalezo yezo hlobo: 'Unako', 'Zama kwakhona kwaye uyakwenza ngcono', 'Ukuba uyafuna, ungayenza', 'Phupha kwaye ujonge phezulu ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho,' Yenze ngentliziyo yakho kwaye iyakulunga '… Ngaba yimizekelo yemiyalezo elungileyo eya kukhokelela kwisiphumo sePygmalion (okanye isiphumo seGalatea) eneziphumo ezingcono.

IPygmalion kunye neGalatea

KwiGrisi yamandulo eli gama lePygmalion lavela ngentsomi yasentsomini ka-Ovid. Le ntsomi yathi umkroli ongumGrike ogama linguPygmalion wenza indalo yomfazi, oqingqiweyo awathi nguGalatea. IpheU-Igmalion, ekupheleni komsebenzi wakhe, wayengenakukunceda ukuthandana neGalatea, ngenxa yobuhle bakhe.

UPygmalion wayethandana ngokunzulu kwaye wayecinga kuphela ngobomi bakhe ukuba bunganjani ukuba iGalatea ibiyinyani, ukuba ebengenguye umfanekiso oqingqiweyo. Okokugqibela, enkosi kuthixo uAphrodite, uPygmalion ngokunzulu ngothando wamanga uGalatea, kwaye yabuyela ebomini.

Xa ulindelo lomntu omnye lusuka komnye umntu, nokuba luphakame okanye luphantsi ulindelo, oko kuyaziwa njengempembelelo yeGalatea. Kule meko, omnye umntu nguye onefuthe elibi okanye elincomekayo kwintsebenzo yalowo kuthethwa ngaye.

Amandla okulindela

Kuzo zombini iimpembelelo zePygmalion okanye isiphumo seGalatea, kulindelwe ukuba umntu enze okanye afumane okuguqula ngokupheleleyo isimilo. Amandla enkolelo anokutshintsha ngaphakathi komntu, ngokupheleleyo.

La mandla anikwe nakweyiphi na indawo ... kwezemfundo, ebuzalini, emsebenzini okanye nakweyiphi na indawo apho umntu kufuneka enze khona umsebenzi, nokuba yeyiphi na.

Yintoni umphumo wePygmalion ngokuchanekileyo?

Ke ngoko, isiphumo sePygmalion siyafana nesiprofetho esizimeleyo kwaye oku kunokutshintsha kwaye kuguqule umntu ngokupheleleyo ... kulunge, okanye kubi. Imalunga nokuba nolindelo esiya kuye okanye emntwini kwaye ngokwezi nkolelo, zomelezwa kakhulu kangangokuba ziphela ziyinyani.

Kuxhomekeka kulindelo, iindlela zokwenza zingatshintsha. Umzekelo, ukuba awunakho ukuthembela ekufezekiseni iinjongo zakho, ngekhe uzinike imiyalezo yenkxaso kwaye awuyi kuziphumeza. Ukuba umntu osondeleyo kuwe akakuniki miyalezo yenkxaso, uyakukholelwa nyani ukuba ayifanele kwaye ngekhe uyifumane. Kwelinye icala, ukuba ucinga ngenene ukuba uyakwazi ukuyiphumeza, uya kutshintsha indlela oziphethe ngayo ukuze uyifumane. Okanye ukuba umntu osondeleyo kuwe ukuxelela loo nto Uyakwazi ukuyiphumeza, uya kucinga ukuba injalo ngenene kwaye uya kuba nakho ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho.

Ngale ndlela, ulindelo kunye nokuzithemba onako kuwe okanye komnye umntu, kunegalelo kwimpumelelo okanye ekusileleni. Ukuba ulindele into entle, uza kuyifumana. Ukuba ulindele into embi, nawe uya kuyilindela. Kuxhomekeke kwinto ocinga ukuba izenzo zakho ziya kubhekiswa kuyo.

Oku kunokuchaphazela umntu ngokuqinisekileyo okanye kakubi. Kwicala elifanelekileyo inokuphakamisa ukuzithemba kwaye ifezekise impumelelo enkulu kwaye kwicala elibi, iya kuthi ichaphazele ukuzithemba kwaye isilele ukufikelela kwiinjongo, nokuba zilula kangakanani. Iziphumo zePygmalion yinkolelo yokuba. Nje ukuba yenziwe, iba yinyani.

Okulungileyo nokubi

Njengayo yonke enye into, umphumo wePygmalion unamacala amabini kwingqekembe enye. Kwicala elifanelekileyo, sifumanisa ukuba umntu oneengcinga ezakhayo unokufumana nantoni na ayifunayo. Abantu abakhuthaza abanye ngemiyalezo elungileyo yenkxaso kwaye ngengqondo baya kuba besenza umsebenzi omkhulu kubomi bomnye umntu, phantse ngaphandle kokuyiqonda. Utitshala, umzekelo, ophatha bonke abafundi ngokulinganayo nokuba baqhuba njani na kwizifundo, uya kufumanisa ukuba bonke baphucula kakhulu.

Kunoko, isiphumo sepygmalion Inokuba nenxalenye engathandekiyo neyingozi ebantwini ... xa iingcinga zijika zingalunganga kwaye zide zibe yityhefu. Imiyalezo engcikivayo, ukugxeka okwonakalisayo ... konke oku kuthoba isidima sakhe nawuphina umntu, namphi na ubudala. Abazali abagxeka kakhulu, ootitshala abafuna ngenkani kakhulu, abaphathi abanetyhefu ... yonke loo nto, Kunokwenza umntu azive ngathi akanakukwazi ukufumana izinto kwaye angangaphumeleli.

Iziphumo zePygmalion zinokwenzeka nangaliphi na ixesha ebomini. Unokuba sisiphumo sakho sePygmalion okanye somnye umntu. Ngesi sizathu, kuya kufuneka uwakhathalele amagama owasebenzisayo xa uthetha nabanye abantu naxa uthetha wedwa. Amandla wamagama akanakuthelekiswa nanto kwaye zona, zisetyenziswe ngokuchanekileyo, zingabutshintsha ubomi bomntu kwaye ukuba zenziwe ngomkhamo omkhulu, zingaguqula umhlaba.

Kholelwa kwinto oyifunayo, kwaye uyakuyila. Cela umngeni kwabanye nakwindlela elungileyo kwaye iziphumo ziya kumangalisa. Sukuwajongela phantsi amandla amazwi akho, kodwa kwaneengcinga zakho. Ungazinika okanye uzinike ukuzithemba okufunekayo (okanye okufunwa ngomnye umntu) ngaphandle kokwazi ngokupheleleyo okwenzayo. Inkalipho kunye nesibindi zivela kumagama kwaye nakwiingcinga.