Kukho abantu abathi xa kufuneka beqale umxholo wencoko baphume bengenanto kwaye abazi ukuba mabenze ntoni okanye bathini. Kungenxa yoko le nto kusoloko kungumbono ukufumana okanye ukuba nezihloko ezithile zencoko ezantsi ukuze ukwazi ukuzisebenzisa xa kukho imfuneko yoko. Kungangumhlangano wabahlobo, intlanganiso nosapho ongakhange uzibone ixesha elide ... into ebalulekileyo kukuba uyazi ukuba ungalifumana njani ixesha elifanelekileyo ukuze ukwazi ukuzisa ezi zihloko zencoko ziya kuza luncedo.
Incoko ibalulekile ebantwini ukuze banxibelelane kwaye bazane. Ukuthetha kufana nobugcisa kunye neencoko zobuso ngobuso zezona zinto zingenanto zinokubhalwa ngamagama.
Incoko enomdla
Incoko kufuneka ijongane nezihloko ezivuselela umdla kubo bobabini abantu, akukho mntu ufuna ukuthetha nomntu okruqulayo okanye ohamba ngenyawo. Kwincoko, omabini amaqela kufuneka abe nethuba lokuthetha nokuthetha.
Ukuze incoko ibenomdla kuya kufuneka ucinge ngesihloko okanye imibuzo ukuqala incoko. Imixholo yencoko kufuneka yenze kube lula nakubani na ukuba athethe. Emva koko siza kukunika izimvo ezithile kwizihloko zencoko kunye nemibuzo eya kukunceda wenze iincoko onazo nakweyiphi na imeko kwaye naye wonwabe.
Izihloko ezinomdla onokuthetha ngazo
Emva koko siza kuphakamisa izihloko ezithile ezingenakusilela kwaye ezihlala zizisa incoko emnandi nomntu ophambi kwakho.
- Ubuntwana. Ubuntwana sisihloko sencoko phantse esingaze sisilele kuba sonke siyathanda ukukhumbula amaxesha adlulileyo, xa ubumsulwa busenze sabubona ubomi kwi-prism eyahlukileyo. Oku kukuvumela ukuba ufumane izinto ngomnye umntu, izinto azithandayo, abadlaleyo, njl.
- Ukuhamba. Ngubani ongakuthandiyo ukufumana iindawo okanye ongazange aphuphe ngokuhamba? Isenokuba yingxoxo enomdla malunga nokwabelana ngamava okanye ukufumana ulwazi olunomdla malunga nezinto ezithile.
- Iimuvi, iincwadi kunye nomculo. Ukuthetha ngeemovie, iincwadi kunye nomculo, kuxhomekeke kwinto oyithandayo, kukwayingcamango entle. Uya kuba nakho ukwazi ukuba zithini na izinto ezithandwa ngomnye umntu kwaye ukuba zinxulumene nawe.
- Izilwanyana zasekhaya Ukuba unezilwanyana zasekhaya yindlela elungileyo yokuqalisa incoko kuba ziya kuhlala zizisa intlantsi yothando kwincoko. Ukuba omnye umntu akanazilwanyana njengezilwanyana zasekhaya, banokuba nomdla ekufumaneni amava akho, okanye enye indlela ejikeleze!
- Gastronomy. Ukutya nokusela kukwasoloko sisihloko esihle sencoko kuba wonke umntu uyathanda ukutya nokusela! Unokufumanisa ukuba zithini na izinto zabo okanye ufumane izinto ezintsha kule ndawo.
- Izinto zokuzonwabisa Izinto endizithandayo ziyincwadi evulelekileyo kubuntu besithethi. Xa uthetha ngokuzonwabisa unokufumana umbono wokuba ubuntu besithethi bunjani. Mhlawumbi uyayithanda imidlalo, ukhuphiswano, ukudlala itshesi, njl.
- Izaziso. Ukuthetha ngemicimbi yangoku kuhlala kukudibanisa kuba uya kuba nakho ukwazi ukuba omnye umntu ucinga ntoni ngezihloko ekuthethwa ngazo ekuhlaleni.
Ngezihloko zencoko uya kuba nakho ukwazi ngokweenkcukacha ukuba unjani umntu kwaye ucinga njani kwaye uya kuchaza nezinto ezikuwe okanye ezakho iingcinga. Incoko elungileyo kufuneka ibe yinto engaphaya komntu omnye, ke kuyafuneka ukuba ungabinakho ukuyilawula incoko okanye wenze ingxoxo, Intetho kufuneka ibe neendlela ezimbini!
Imibuzo ekufuneka ilandelwe kwizihloko zencoko
Emva koko siza kukunika ezinye izimvo ukuze ube nemibuzo kwizihloko zakho zencoko kwaye ukuba ngale ndlela kulula ukulandela incoko ngendlela enamanzi ngakumbi. Khumbula ukuba yimibuzo malunga nezihloko ezithile, kodwa kunjalo, unokucinga ngezinye izihloko ezahlukeneyo okanye eminye imibuzo ehambelana nomxholo kunye nomntu ophambi kwakho.
Imibuzo malunga nobuhlobo
Ubuhlobo yenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo ukuze ube nobomi obugcweleyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo kunzima ukubeka ixabiso kumhlobo olungileyo. Yiba nencoko yobuhlobo usebenzisa le mibuzo malunga nabahlobo bakho kunye nobuhlobo ngokubanzi.
- Luluphi olona phawu uluxabise kakhulu kubahlobo bakho?
- Ngaba ungumhlobo olungileyo? Kutheni usitsho?
- Yeyiphi indlela ebalaseleyo yokuhlangana nabahlobo abatsha?
- Loluphi uhlobo lomhlobo olucaphukisayo kuwe?
- Yintoni eyahlula abahlobo bokwenene kubantu obaziyo?
- Ngubani oyena mhlobo wakho mdala? Wadibana njani nabo?
- Ngubani oyena mhlobo wakho umangalisayo? Yintoni ebenza bangaqhelekanga?
- Zeziphi izizathu eziqhelekileyo zokuba ubuhlobo buhlukane?
- Ngaba wenza abahlobo ngokulula okanye ukufumanisa kunzima ukwenza abahlobo abatsha?
- Ngaba bakho abahlobo bakho abahlukileyo ngokuchasene nawe okanye uninzi lwabo luyafana nawe?
- Yintoni entle oyenzileyo kumhlobo wakho? Ngaba kukho ubabalo olukhulu olwenzelwe ngumhlobo wakho?
Imibuzo ngobuntu
Ubuntu bethu yile nto ilizwe langaphandle liyisebenzisayo ukusigweba kwaye zinempembelelo enkulu kunxibelelwano lwethu nabanye. Ngaba ayikulungelanga ukuba nengxoxo malunga nento enefuthe elinjalo kubomi bethu?
- Ngaba umntu angabutshintsha ubuntu bakhe?
- Zeziphi iimpawu zobuntu ezenza inkokheli elungileyo?
- Loluphi uphawu lobuntu obungathanda ukuba nalo?
- Zeziphi iimpawu zobuntu kwabanye abantu ozithiyileyo?
- Yeyiphi yeempawu zakho zobuntu eziye zanceda kakhulu?
- Leliphi elona phawu lomntu licaphukisayo umntu anokuba nalo?
- Leliphi elona candelo libalaseleyo kubuntu bakho? Njani malunga neyona nto imbi kakhulu?
- Buvela phi ubuntu bethu? Bungakanani ubuntu obuyimfuza kwaye buvela phi kwindalo esingqongileyo?
- Kuthekani ngobuntu babanye babahlobo bakho kunye nosapho? Zeziphi izinto ezilungileyo, ezimbi nezingaqhelekanga kubuntu babo?
- Ungabuchaza njani ubuntu bakho? Abanye abantu bangabuchaza njani ubuntu bakho, obufanayo okanye obahlukileyo?
Imibuzo malunga nempumelelo
Sonke sineempumelelo kunye nokusilela kwethu. Basenza ukuba singobani kwaye sihlala siyilensi abantu abasibona ngayo. Sebenzisa ezi ziqalo zencoko ukuba ube nencoko enkulu malunga nempumelelo kunye nokusilela.
- Ngaba ukhe wajika ukusilela kwimpumelelo?
- Yeyiphi impumelelo yakutshanje onayo?
- Yeyiphi eyona ndlela yokulinganisa impumelelo?
- Yeyiphi eyona nto ilandelayo uyisebenzelayo?
- Ngaba sikhona isiphene ebomini bakho ozingcayo ngaso?
- Iyiphi impumelelo yakho enkulu? Ungathini ngokusilela kwakho okukhulu?
- Zeziphi ezinye zeempumelelo okhe waba nazo kubomi bakho?
- Zeziphi ezinye iintsilelo obukhe wanazo kubomi bakho bobungcali?
- Sesiphi esona sifundo sikhulu osifundileyo kukusilela?
- Ngaba uhlala ufunda ukusilela kwakho okanye uyaphinda?
- Ngubani oyena mntu uphumeleleyo omaziyo?
Ewe le yimizekelo nje kodwa kukho izihloko ezingenakubalwa zencoko kwaye kuya kufuneka ujonge umdla okanye umxholo wokukhetha isihloko esinye okanye esinye.