Ngaphambi kokubona ezi zindululo ze-8 zokuba uzithande ngakumbi, ndiyakumema ukuba ubukele le vidiyo yomzuzu inye enomxholo othi "Ukubaluleka kokukholelwa kuwe."
Ividiyo isibonisa indlela abanye abantu abaphele bephumelela kuqeqesho lwabo abalahliweyo. Nokuba imiqobo iyenza nzima indlela yakho, qhubeka ukuba uyayithanda into oyenzayo:
[imephu]Yeyiphi imiba ekufuneka siyikhathalele nini yomeleza ukuzithemba kwethu? Nazi ezinye zeengcebiso ezibalulekileyo zokugcina engqondweni ukufezekisa oku:
1) Yitya kakhulu ubuncinci kube kanye ngemini.
Zinike ukutya okusempilweni, okwahlukeneyo nokulungeleleneyo, utye kancinci kwaye, ukuba kunokwenzeka, usapho kunye nabahlobo.
2) Yenza umthambo rhoqo.
Akulunganga ukunqamla ngokupheleleyo emzimbeni. I-Gymnastics, i-yoga, okanye omnye umsebenzi womzimba unokunceda ukugcina olu nxibelelwano lubalulekileyo lusebenza.
3) Yenza indawo yakho.
Ukuba nekona ekhethekileyo yokuzifumana kuyanceda ekufumaneni kwakhona ibhalansi elahlekileyo.
4) Musa ukuthabatheka ngesiqhelo.
Ixesha nexesha, zibuze ukuba ngaba ufuna ukutshintsha into kwaye uphinde uzilungelelanise ukuze ufezekise iinjongo zakho.
5) Zivuze.
Zinike izipho amaxesha ngamaxesha ukuze uzenzele kwaye uxelele ukuba uyazithanda. Rhoqo, uzityhala ngamandla.
6) Zinike ithuba lokuchitha ixesha.
Elona xesha lisetyenzisiweyo lelona linanditshwayo. Ukuyeka ukuqhuba kunye nokuchitha ixesha kwimisebenzi engenziveliso yimeko elungileyo ebomini.
7) Bhala phantsi iingcinga zakho.
Ingakumbi ezo ungakhange ubenobuganga bokuzibuza kwincoko. Uya kufunda kancinci kancinci ukubathabathela ingqalelo ukuzenza kwesinye isihlandlo.
8) Yandisa ubudlelwane bakho.
Ncokola nabantu abangabakho kubahlobo bakho abaqhelekileyo. Uya kuziva uvulekile kwihlabathi, baya kukutyebisa kwaye bazise iimbono ezintsha nezingaziwayo.
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