Indlela ayisoloko ilula; Igcwele imiqobo ethintela ukuba singahambeli phambili. Uninzi lwale miqobo sizibekele lona; ke kufuneka sifumane indlela yokoyisa.
Emva koko uza kubona ifayile ye- Ukudityaniswa kwezinto ezili-15 ezisithintelayo ukuba siqhubeke nokufikelela kwinjongo zethu.
1. Lindela ukuba izinto zenzeke ngaphandle kokutshintsha nantoni na. Yonke into kobu bomi ifuna umgudu wokuba yenziwe. Ukuba sihlala nje singenzi nto, akukho nto izakwenzeka.
2. Ukulinda ngokungapheliyo ixesha elifanelekileyo.Akukho xesha lichanekileyo ngoko yenza ingqondo yakho kwaye uyenze ngoku. Ixesha elininzi elidlulayo, kuya kusiba nzima ngakumbi kuwe ukwenza isigqibo.
3. Ukucwangcisa kugqithise. Musa ukucwangcisa izinto kakhulu kuba kuyakuxabisa ukwenza izigqibo. Yiba nesicwangciso esisezantsi kwaye uhlengahlengise utshintsho oluya kuvela.
4. Awufuni ukuthatha umngcipheko ngokungeyomfuneko. Masiyamkele, ongazibeki emngciphekweni, angaphumeleli. Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka sibheje kakhulu ukuba sifuna ukufezekisa impumelelo esiyilangazelelayo.
5. Ukwalelwa "izolo" kusenzakalisa "namhlanje". Funda ukushiya ngasemva onke loo mava angahambanga kakuhle kwaye ujonge kwikamva, ngale ndlela akuyi kubakho nto ikuthintelayo ukuba uqhubele phambili.
6. Awuthathi uxanduva lwakho. Kuya kufuneka ukuba uvume iimpazamo zakho kwaye ube nakho ukuzilungisa ukuze ufunde kwaye uqhubele phambili.
[Ndicebisa eli nqaku: Ukuzama ukubetha ukuzinyameka]
7. Ufuna izinto zigqibelele. Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba izinto azisoloko zigqibelele. Sukufuna ukugqibelela kwaye uya kuba nakho ukonwabela ngakumbi iimeko zobomi bakho.
8. Uyayiphepha inyaniso. Inyani yile nto iyiyo, kwaye ayinakutshintshwa. Ukuyibaleka ayizukuyenza inyaniseke kancinci. Yamkele kwaye uqhubeke.
9. Unengqondo evaliweyo kwiingcinga ezintsha. Ukujongana neemeko ezinzima kufuneka sicinge ngazo zonke iindlela ezinokubakho, kuphela ngale ndlela esinokuthi sifumane "indlela yokuphuma."
10. Uvumela abantu abangafanelekanga ukuba badlulisele izimvo ezimbi kuwe. Libala ukuba abanye bathini na nokuba bacinga ntoni ngawe. Ekuphela kwento abaza kuyenza kukukubekela ecaleni kwaye bakubeke ecaleni kwendlela eya empumelelweni.
11. Uhlala uzixelela ukuba awukwazi. Logama ungakholelwa, awuyi kukwazi ukweyisela nabani na. Yazi imida yakho kwaye ufunde ukuba ungabetha njani.
12. Bambelela kwinyani. Sebenzisa idatha yokwenyani ukwenza izigqibo zakho. Iingcinga kunye nokuthelekelela akuyi kukunceda uqhubele phambili kwindlela yakho ke kufanelekile ukuyishiya ngasemva.
13. Ubulindele ukuba izinto zibe lula. Akukho nto yenzekayo, ngokuqinisekileyo sonke besiyilindele ngoluhlobo. Nangona kunjalo, unganikezeli kwaye uqhubeke usilwa kuba ngasemva kobunzima luzuko.
14. Ukulibele ukubaluleka kokunceda abanye. Jonga abantu abakungqongileyo kwaye uzibuze ukuba ungabanceda njani. Ngamanye amaxesha ngezenzo ezincinci nje onokubuphucula ubomi bakho.
15. Awuthathi manyathelo amancinci mihla le: Ufuna ukuqhubela phambili ngamanyathelo amakhulu kwaye ayinakuhlala kunjalo. Nokuba eyona ndlela inde iqala ngenyathelo elinye kwaye ayinakuhlala igutyungelwe ngokukhawuleza.
Susa le miqobo kwaye ungaqhubeka nendlela yakho. Incwadi eyeleleneyo: