Sonke sinesiphene kunye nokulunga kwaye kulungile ukuba sizazi okanye ubuncinci sazi ngazo ukuphucula ezo zinto zomntu wethu ezisenza sibandezeleke okanye ezingasenzi kakuhle. Eyona nto ifanelekileyo kukufumana ibhalansi phakathi kweziphene kunye nokulunga ... nangona akusoloko kulula.
Kungenxa yoko, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba zeziphi ezona ziphene zomntu kuba zizimo zengqondo ezimbi ukuba ukuba unayo, ziya kukuthintela ukuba uhlale ngokuvisisana eluntwini okanye nakusapho lwakho.
Ezona mpazamo umntu anokuba nazo
Nangona zininzi ezinye iziphene, siza kukuxelela ezinye zazo kuba zezona zixhaphakileyo neziphindaphindwayo eluntwini. Ngale ndlela, uya kuba nakho ukwenza umthambo wokubonisa kwaye ufumanise ukuba ingaba ezi zinto ziyakuchaphazela na kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla.
Ukutshintsha kokungcono kuya kuhlala kusezandleni zakho, kwaye ukuba awukwazi ukuba ungayenza njani, kuya kuba ngaphezulu kokuyimfuneko ukuba ufuna uncedo kwiingcali ukwenzela ukubuyisela ukulinganisela ngokweemvakalelo.
Ngapha koko, ukuba uyabakhumbula abantu abadlula ebomini bethu kwaye basimakishile, kungenxa yokuba Bahlala benothotho lweempawu esizithandayo nezisenza ukuba sinxibelelane nabo. Imfesane, ububele, okanye ukuzincama zezinye zeempawu ezintle umntu anokuba nazo.
Nangona kunjalo, ayinguye wonke umntu oneempawu ezintle, kodwa kukho abantu ubukho babo abukho mnandi kwaphela. Yintoni esingayithandiyo ngabo? Zeziphi iziphene umntu anokuba nazo? Fumanisa Okuninzi ...
Ubungqongqo
I-Authoritarianism luthotho lweempawu zomntu ezibandakanya ukungaziphathi kakuhle kunye nokuziphatha okunganyamezeliyo. Xa ujongene nezi ntlobo zabantu ayinamsebenzi ukuba ulungile okanye akunjalo, uluvo lwakho alunaxabiso kuba konke abakufunayo kukuthobela ngazo zonke iindleko.
Kwelinye icala, abantu abangoozwilakhe baphawuleka ngokukholelwa ukuba bazi bhetele kunabanye izinto ezidingwa ngabanye, nanjengoko umlawuli ongqwabalala esenza.. Ukuba kuphela kwegunya elinakho ukwenza isigqibo sokuba yintoni echanekileyo nengachanekanga, ukubakho kwencoko kubandakanyiwe Kwaye kukho ukuhambisa nje iiodolo ezijolise kwabanye.
Ukubawa kunye ne-avarice
Ukubawa nokubawa ziimpawu ezimbi kakhulu emntwini, kuba akaze onwabe zizinto anazo kwaye uhlala efuna okungakumbi. Abantu ababawayo bazikhathalele kuphela izinto eziphathekayo (ikakhulu imali) kwaye abakhathali nokuba zifumaneka njani. Bahlala befuna ngakumbi nangakumbi.
Ukongeza, into yokuba umntu obawayo ayenzi nje kuphela iimeko zokungabikho kokusesikweni, kodwa ukuba oku kuyasasazeka, ithuba lokusebenzisana kunye nokusebenzisana ukufezekisa injongo efanayo liyanyamalala kwaye kulawula kuphela ubuqu.
Umona
Umona luphawu lomntu olungaphilanga kwixhoba okanye kumona. Emva komona kuhlala kukho ukuzithemba okuphantsi, unxunguphalo kunye nentlungu. Umona yena uyababeka abantu banokuthi bagqwese kwinto ethile abayenzayo, kuba boyika iziphumo ezinokuthi zibekho ngenxa yeziphumo zentlalo ezinokubakho kwezi mpumelelo.
Ubundlongondlongo
Ubundlongondlongo kukuziphatha okungathi kule mihla kungakhangeleki kuhle, ngakumbi xa sizenza ngathi siphila kwindawo ephucukileyo. Indoda enobudlova ibona umhlaba wonke njengesoyikiso, kwaye notshintsho oluncinci lonyuka ngomsindo.
Unoburhalarhume
Ukwenzakalisa umntu ngabom kuyaziwa ngokuba yinkohlakalo. Ezi ntlobo zabantu khange zikhulise uvelwano kwaye zingabonakalisi kuzisola ngezenzo zabo. Ngokuqinisekileyo sisiphene.
Ukuziphindezela nengqumbo
Inzondo nokuziphindezela akufani kodwa kuyahambelana. Nangona inzondo iluhlobo lokonakala kokuziphatha, esivakalelwa kukuba sikhubekile, impindezelo sisenzo esidibene naleyo ingqumbo kwaye siziphatha ngendlela enobutshaba kwaye Sifuna ukuba omnye umntu ahlupheke ngenxa yokwenzakala kwethu.
Ikratshi
Ikratshi luphawu olubi lomntu kuba lixabiseke ngaphezu kwezinye kwaye inokujongela phantsi abanye abantu kwaye ibaphathe ngathi bangaphantsi.
Ukuzingca
Ukuzingca kuphawulwa kwinto yokuba umntu akathambekele ekwabelaneni kwaye wenza kuphela xa enokufumana izibonelelo zakhe. Bangabantu abangenakuhlutha kwaye bahlala befuna ngaphezulu. Abayeki bade bafumane le nto bayifunayo kwaye baziva bekhubekile kwaye benenzondo xa bengafumani oko bakufunayo kwabanye.
Ego
I-ego kukuzincoma okugqithisileyo kwisiqu sakho kwaye luphawu olunxulunyaniswa nokusilela okuthile okuchaphazelayo kunye neemvakalelo. Azinakuqinisekisa ubudlelwane obunempilo phakathi kwabantu.
Ikratshi
Ikratshi linokuba yinto elungileyo kwezinye iimeko njengendlela yokhuseleko. Nangona kunjalo, kwiimeko ezininzi ngumqobo kwimpilo-ntle kunye nobudlelwane phakathi kwabantu, kuba kuthintela unxibelelwano lwendalo kunye nokubonisa iimvakalelo. Ikwenza ukuba umntu angaziboni iimpazamo zakhe kwaye unokuzikhusela nabanye.
Ukugqibelela
Ukugqibelela kunokudityaniswa nento elungileyo, kuba umntu angenza umsebenzi ongenasiphako. Nangona kunjalo, olu phawu lobuntu lumenza umntu angonwabi kakhulu, kuba akaze onwabe ngento ayenzayo okanye ayiphumezileyo.
Ukucaphuka
Ukucaphuka kubonakaliswa yinto yokuba umntu uthambekele ekubeni nomsindo kunye nokuphendula ngolunya kukhuthazo abaluthatha njengolukhathazayo. Abantu abacaphuka msinya bahlala becaphuka.
Ukunganyamezelani
Ukunyamezelana okuncinci kwabanye kunye nokwahluka kwenza olu luphawu lube lolunye lwezona ziphene zinkulu ebantwini. Aba bantu abanikezeli kwaye bazele lucalucalulo.
buxoki
Ubuxoki yenye yeziphene zomntu, ezingasoloko zijolise kwabanye abantu, kodwa abantu banokuzikhohlisa. Ukuzikhohlisa kunokuba yingozi kakhulu kwaye kuyindlela yokuphepha inyani.
Ukuphelelwa lithemba
Indlela esicinga ngayo ichaphazela indlela enkulu esiziphatha ngayo. Ukusoloko ucinga ngokungalunganga kuneziphumo eziyingozi emntwini, kungoko kuhlala kungcono ukuba nethemba kunye nethemba.
Ewe zininzi ezinye ... Ezi zezinye zazo, ungathanda ukuqaqambisa enye? Sishiyele izimvo zakho kwizimvo zakho!