Abantu babonakala benobuchule ekuzibekeleni iinjongo, kodwa asisoloko sihlangabezana nazo. Kukangaphi uzibekele iinjongo kodwa ungakhange ukwazi ukuzifezekisa ngenxa yokuba uphulukene nenkuthazo endleleni? Kulula ngakumbi ukuzibekela iinjongo kunokuba uzenze zizaliseke. Konke kuza ekukhuthazeni.
Kufuneka sinyaniseke: abantu baneengxaki ezinzulu zokuhlala bekhuthazeka kwizinto esizenzayo. Kulula kakhulu ukuhlala kwaye ucinge ngezinto esiza kuzenza emva koko ungazenzi.
Ukusigcina sikhuthazekile, ngamanye amaxesha sidinga uncedo lwangaphandle. Kungenxa yoko le nto siza kuthetha ngeendlela zokuqhubela phambili iinjongo zakho ngokufunda indlela yokuzikhuthaza. Asitsho ukuba izakuba lula, kwaye Asitsho ukuba izakukhawuleza. Kodwa sikulungele ukubheja kuya kuba kufanelekile. Kwaye lulwaneliseko oluziswa kukuphumeza enye yeenjongo? Kwanele ukusigcina sithatha amanyathelo amancinci ukuya kuyo yonke enye into kuluhlu.
Fumanisa ukuba kutheni
Ukugcina umbono wezinto ofuna ukuziphumeza, kuya kufuneka ubhale ezinye izizathu zokuba kutheni ufuna ukufezekisa loo njongo (njengokufumana imilo). Ngelixa oko kunokuvakala kucacile, khankanya izinto ezithile ofuna ukuzenza, Njengokufika kumgangatho wesithathu ungakhange ukhefuzele, ukulala ngcono, okanye ukwehlisa ukutya okungenamsoco kuya kwenza ukuba kube lula ukulandelela inkqubela phambili yakho kwaye ikugcine ukhuthazekile, endaweni yokujolisa kwinjongo engaqondakaliyo efana nokuba "Yiba sempilweni" kungcono ukuba ube nekhonkrithi ngakumbi.
Udinga imizuzwana eli-10 kuphela
Olona phawu lungaqhelekanga lwabantu kukuba sikulungele kangakanani ukuhlala singonelisekanga bubomi bethu. Unombono omangalisayo wokutshintsha ubomi ... kwaye emva koko cinga ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo ezili-100 zokuba kutheni ungafanele uyenze. Ngoku khawufane ucinge ngobomi apho nganye yezi zimvo zimangalisayo iyinyani.
Unokulandela umthetho wesibini we-10: "Ukuba unethuku lokwenza into ojolise kuyo, kuya kufuneka uhambe emzimbeni kwimizuzwana eli-10 kungenjalo ingqondo yakho iya kuphazamiseka." Ekuqaleni, umzimba wakho uyithiyile inyathelo, kodwa ufumana iziphumo. Ngexesha elizayo xa unoluvo okanye ithuku, bala ukuya kwishumi emva koko wenze. Unokuba ubhala nje umbono, kodwa kufuneka unamathisele intshukumo yomzimba kwimpembelelo yengqondo ... Umzekelo, qalisa incoko nomntu.
Yiba noluhlu lwezinto ezikwenza uncume
Masithi awuyazi ncam into oyifunayo. Ukuba uyazi nje ukuba ufuna ukuqala ukuhlala ngcono, gcina uluhlu oluhlaziyiweyo lwamaxesha akwenza uncume. Ungabhala ngesandla encwadini okanye kwisicelo sakho senqaku leselula. Ungabhala kuphela izinto ezikwenza wonwabe, yintoni ekuvuyisayo, yintoni eyenza uhleke ngokuvakalayo, ukhethe oko ufuna ukukubhala. Cinga ngento ekwenza wonwabe.
Okwethutyana, bendibhala nje amaxesha omhla wam endonwabisa kakhulu, endonwabileyo ngawo, kwaye oko kundifikise kule ndawo ndikuyo ngoku. " Ukuba awuqinisekanga ngokupheleleyo ukuba yintoni isiphelo sakho somdlalo, zama ukulandela umkhondo wento ekwenza wonwabe.
Ngeentsuku ekufuneka uzenzile ezingakukhuthazi kakhulu kodwa kufuneka uyenze, jonga kolo luhlu kwaye ukhethe enye yezo zinto uzibhalileyo. Yenza into ekufuneka uyenzile nokuba awuziva ngathi kwaye ke khuthazeka kwaye uvuze umzamo wakho ngokwenza ezinye zezo zinto zikwenza wonwabe.
Thatha ibhafu ekhuthazayo
Xa usebenza usukelo, kulula ukubanjwa kukudinwa kokufikelela olo sukelo. Uqala ukusebenza nzima ngakumbi nangakumbi nangakumbi nangakumbi, usondela ngakumbi kwelo phupha… kwaye ngaphambi kokuba wazi, ulahlekelwe ngumbono wokuba yayiyintoni injongo yakho kwasekuqaleni. Unokuphulukana nenkuthazo, usike uxinzelelo olukhulu, usike ukugqiba ukudinwa kwakho.
Ukuze woyise nayiphi na imeko engentle kwaye inkuthazo yakho ingalahleki apha endleleni, kufuneka "uhlambe" rhoqo kwizinto ezikukhuthazayo. Njani? Yenza eyakho ibhodi yokubonisa ukufezekisa into ocinga ukuba uyenza ebomini kwaye uyayibona nanini na ufuna.
Ibhodi yokubonisa yingqokelela yeengxelo, imifanekiso, kunye nezicatshulwa ozigcina zibalulekile ekhayeni lakho ukuze ukwazi ukuzibona nanini na xa uzidinga. Kuya kufuneka ujonge le bhodi yonke imihla ukuzikhumbuza rhoqo ukuba kutheni usenza le nto uyenzayo.
Phuhlisa umbulelo
Okwangoku sivula amehlo, siyayazi yonke into ekufuneka siyenzile ngala mhla. Ukuzigcina ukhuthazeka, jonga izinto ezimbalwa onombulelo ngazo xa ulele.
Xa sivuka, sihlala sikhathazwa yinto ekufuneka siyenzile kunye nento ekufuneka siyilungisile, kwaye kugxilwe kuthi. Ke, Ukutshintsha loo ngcinga kwangoko, ukuqonda nje okulungileyo, kukubeka kwingqondo engcono yokujongana nemini.
Qala kancinci
Zonke iingcali esithethe nazo zacebisa ukuseka isiseko sento yokwenene ukuze ukwazi ukukhomba kwinkqubela phambili onokuyenza. Umzekelo, Anditsho ukuba vuka ngo-6 kusasa xa uzonda kusasa ... Endaweni yoko, zama ukuseta iwotshi yealam ye-15 yemizuzu ngaphambi kokuba uvuke, uthathe uhambo olufutshane yonke imihla, okanye ukongeza imifuno entsha kwisidlo sakho sangokuhlwa. Cotha kwaye uzinzile… uyaluphumelela ugqatso.
Sebenzisa isibali-xesha
Lo ngumdlalo omncinci wobuchopho esiwuthandayo. Setha isibali xesha semizuzu engama-30 kwaye wenze nantoni na oyiphephayo, ngesantya esiphezulu. Nokuba kwenzeka ntoni, hlala kude naloo msebenzi. Kungcono uthule ifowuni yakho ukuze ungaphazanyiswa.
Xa ixesha liphuma, thatha ikhefu lemizuzu eli-10 kwaye wenze nantoni na oyifunayo. Asikhathali, yifumana ngokuchanekileyo. Ke xa loo mizuzu ye-10 iphezulu, yenze kwakhona. Qhubeka usebenza imizuzu engama-30 kunye nemizuzu eyi-10 yokuphumla, Ude ugqibezele nantoni na oyenzayo
Ngezi ngcebiso zokuba uhlale ukhuthazekile kwaye usebenze ngokwenene, ungenza nantoni na ngenzondelelo engakumbi ... Nangona inyathelo lokuqala lifuna ukuyenza, unganakho? Ewe kunjalo!