"Ixesha liyabhabha" o "ingathi izolo" ziintetho eziqhelekileyo ukuba sonke, ngaxa lithile, sibe nawo amava.
Siyakhula njengoko iintsuku zihamba, kodwa, Kutheni le nto sinoluvo lokuba ixesha libaleka ngokukhawuleza nangakumbi xa sidala?
Izifundo ezininzi zenziwe malunga nokuhamba kwexesha (eyokuqala ngo-2005 nguM. Wittman noS. Lehnhoff kunye neyokugqibela ngoJulayi 2013 nguFriedman, Janssen noM. Naka) kunye izigqibo bafikelele koku kulandelayo:
-Ubudala yinto ebalulekileyo, kodwa ikakhulu xa uthetha malunga nexesha elide. Xa ubuzwa "ikhawuleze kangakanani le minyaka ili-10 idlulileyo?", Abantu abadala babethanda ukuxabisa Ukudlula kwelo xesha ngokukhawuleza kunolutsha. Nangona kunjalo, xa umbuzo ubhekisa kwisantya sokudlula kweentsuku okanye iinyanga, ubudala ayenzanga umohluko omkhulu.
-Uluvo lwe "uxinzelelo lwexesha"idlala indima ebalulekileyo. Ukwenza imisebenzi ngexesha elibekiweyo lokuyigqiba kuhlala kudala ukuziva ukuba sihlala siswele ixesha. Lo mbandela uzimele ngobudala nakwinkcubeko; iziphumo ezifanayo zafunyanwa nabathathi-nxaxheba baseDatshi, baseJamani, baseAustria, baseJapan nabaseNew Zealand.
Ubudala, uxinzelelo lwexesha, amathuba exesha… Asisoze sazi ukuba kutheni sivakalelwa kukuba ixesha lihamba ngokukhawuleza nangaphezulu? Iingcali zengqondo zicebisile Ithiyori ezintlanu ezinomdla ukuhlonipha:
1. Silinganisela ixesha ngeziganeko ezingalibalekiyo.
Ukulandela ingcinga yokuba uWilliam James wayiveza kwincwadi yakhe "Umgaqo wengqondo”; ngokuya sikhula, ixesha libonakala lihamba ngokukhawuleza kuba inani leziganeko ezibalulekileyo liyancipha. Xa silinganisa ixesha lamava okuqala (ukwanga kokuqala, imoto yokuqala, ukuthweswa isidanga ...) ilahleko yokuba nazo (njengoko sikhula), kunokubangela ukuba Iminyaka ihamba ingenanto kwaye phantse ngaphandle kokuyiqonda.
2. Ixesha elidlulayo linxulumene nobudala.
Ngelixa uneminyaka emi-5 ubudala, unyaka omnye ngu 20% bonke ubomi bakhe; Kubantu abadala abangama-50, kwangalo nyaka umelwe kuphela 2% bonke ubomi bakhe. Oku «Ithiyori yolungelelwaniso«, Wacetyiswa nguJanet ngo-1877 kwaye ucebisa ukuba sihlala sithelekisa amaxesha (iintsuku, iinyanga, iminyaka) kunye nexesha elipheleleyo esele siphila ngalo. Ngokufanelekileyo, ixesha elide siphila, ezo zithuba zithetha "kuncinci" ebomini bethu kwaye, ke ngoko, zibonakala ngathi zidlula ngokukhawuleza.
3. Iwotshi yethu yebhayoloji iyacotha njengoko siguga.
Ukwaluphala kubonakala kuhamba kunye nokwehla kolunye uhlobo lwe-pacemaker yangaphakathi. Ngaba "Ukucotha okuqhubela phambili" kwewotshi yethu yebhayoloji inefuthe ngendlela yokuba sibe nemvakalelo yokuba, ngequbuliso, iintsuku zihamba ngokukhawuleza.
4. Njengokuba sikhula, sinika ixesha elincinane ingqalelo.
Xa sasingabantwana, ukusuka nge-1 kuDisemba sazibala iintsuku de uSanta Claus okanye amaSilumko amaThathu asizisele izipho. Nangona kunjalo, njengabantu abadala, sigxile emsebenzini, ekuthengeni iKrisimesi, ukhenketho, amatyala kunye neminye imiba yabantu abadala. Ingqwalasela ngakumbi sihlawula imisebenzi efana nale, kokuncinci siya kuqaphela ukuhamba kwexesha.
5. Uxinzelelo, uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo ngakumbi.
Njengokufunyanisiweyo kwesifundo sikaWittmann noLehnhoff, imvakalelo yokuba akukho xesha laneleyo lokwenza izinto siyichaza kwakhona ndinoluvo lokuba ixesha lidlula ngokukhawuleza okukhulu. Abantu abadala, umzekelo, bahlala benoluvo ngenxa yokuphazamiseka komzimba okanye ukwehla kwengqondo.
Nangona uvakalelo lokuba ixesha "liyabhabha" alinakuphepheka, mhlawumbi singacotha kancinci kule Khrismesi. Masilonwabele ixesha nosapho kunye nabahlobo kunye masiqwalasele ngakumbi loo mizuzu idla ngokungaqapheleki.