Kutheni ngaphantsi kuninzi; isitshixo solonwabo lwakho

Isenokungabi lixesha lokuqala ukuva intetho ethi 'kuncinci okungaphezulu', kwaye unokucinga ukuba lelinye nje lamabinzana amaninzi ngamanye amaxesha angenanto. Kodwa akukho nto iqhubekayo kwinyani, eli binzana lenza ingqiqo enkulu kwaye xa uqonda ukuba kutheni kuncinci kuninzi, Uyakwazi ukubona ukuba ubomi bakho bunokutshintsha njani bube ngcono, kwaye ungaziva ulonwabo lwakho kuyo yonke imingxunya yolusu lwakho. Libinzana elilula, kodwa elinentsingiselo enzulu.

Ngaphantsi kuninzi

'Okuncinci kuninzi' kunokusetyenziswa kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bakho, nangona ngokwenyani bambalwa abantu abazisebenzisa kubomi babo bemihla ngemihla. Eli binzana kufuneka libe yimantra kuwo wonke umntu ehlabathini.

Ukuphazamiseka ebomini kukhokelela kuxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo, ke ukuba nobomi 'obulula' yeyona ndlela ifanelekileyo yokonwabela ubomi, inzolo, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kunye nolonwabo. Umntu kufuneka akhethe ezona zinto zibalulekileyo ebomini ukuze afumane iziphumo ezilungileyo. Sukuchitha ixesha lakho ngezinto okanye abantu abangenzi nto. Ukubeka phambili kubalulekile kwaye ixesha onalo lelona lixabisekileyo, yiyo eya kuthi ibeke isantya kubo bonke ubomi bakho.

Xa uqala ukwenza lula ubomi bakho, izinto ziba lula kakhulu, phantse ungakhange uqaphele. Ubomi buba mnandi ngakumbi kwaye wonwabe ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Uya kulawula imeko yakho yengqondo, ke izinto ezilula ziya kuthintela uxinzelelo lwakho (eyona njongo iphambili). Oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uhlale kwindawo yakho yokuthuthuzela ngonaphakade, ukuba akunjalo ukuba uyakwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle koxinzelelo kunye noxolo nokuba kuya kufuneka ushiye indawo yakho yokuthuthuzela amaxesha ngamaxesha.

Izinto eziphambili ziya kutshintsha

Xa usazi ukuba awudingi ezona zibiza kakhulu okanye ezona zinto zilungileyo ukuze wonwabe, kwaye amaxesha emihla ngemihla zezona zizalisa intliziyo yakho, izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka ziya kutshintsha. Izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka ziyinto yonke kwaye kude kube uyaqonda ukuba zeziphi ezibaluleke kakhulu ebomini bakho, uya kuba uchitha ixesha lakho.

Ngaba uyazi ukuba uza kuqala nini ukonwaba? Xa uqala ukuzingqonga kuphela ngabantu obathandayo. Akudingeki ukuba uzingqonge ngabantu abaninzi abangabandakanyi nantoni na kuwe, abenzi ukuba ukhule okanye uguquke, abo bantu abakonwabisi. Ukuba abantu ojikeleze ngabo bakwenza uzive ungalunganga, lixesha lokuba ubeke phambili abantu abenza uzive ulungile.

Xa ususa abantu ababi ebomini bakho, yonke into iya kuba lula kwaye uya konwaba. Ewe, uya kuba nabantu abambalwa ebomini bakho, kodwa uya konwaba ngakumbi. Kutheni uchitha ixesha lakho nabantu abangakunika nto? Nokuba uziva uxanduva oluthile kubantu ababethetha lukhulu kuwe kwixa elidlulileyo, kodwa enyanisweni ababoneleli nto kuwe, ungaziva unetyala ... Aba bantu abasengeyonxalenye yobomi bakho.

Utsala amandla oza nawo

Bonke abantu banamandla kwaye uyiloo projekthi. Ukuba uziva ulusizi, uza kuveza usizi kwaye uyakufumana ubomi obuhlungu. Ukuba uveza uvuyo, uyakububona ubomi obunethemba elikhulu nokuba iimeko zinzima. Ukonwaba kwakho kungaphakathi kotshintsho lwembono okwangoku, Unenkululeko yokuzikhethela ukuba ufuna ukuhlala njani ngobomi bakho kwaye unjani.

Ubomi bufutshane kakhulu ukuba ungazikhathazi ngezinto ezingakugcwalisi. Njengokuba abantu beza behamba, imali kunye nezinto eziphathekayo zinokutshabalala, kodwa ulonwabo alunjalo.  Ebomini, kukho ixesha nendawo yayo yonke into. 

Kunzima kakhulu ukwenza inkqubela yokwenene xa ukhubeka kwimiqobo yakudala. Jonga ngeenxa zonke kuwe. Ukuba kukho into engongezi ixabiso okanye intsingiselo ebomini bakho, yilahle. Ungaziva unyanzelekile ukubambelela kwinto ekwenza ube lusizi. Unetyala lakho lokukhokela obona bomi bumnandi, ulonwabo lwakho luxhomekeke kulo.

Ngokwenza ubomi bakho bube lula, ungasusa i-clutter entlokweni yakho kwaye wonwabe ngakumbi. Gxila kumzuzu wangoku ngaphandle kokuhlala kwixesha elidlulileyo okanye ukhathazeke ngekamva, kuba emva koko uya kuzihlambalaza. Yixabise into onayo nokuba ayisiyiyo yonke into obuyiphupha.

Indlela yokonwabela ubomi obulula

Ukuze ubomi bakho buzalise kakhulu, uthathela ingqalelo umyinge othi 'okuncinane kuninzi' kuya kufuneka wenze lula ubomi bakho, utshintshe izinto eziphambili kwaye ungagcini ebomini bakho zonke ezo zinto okanye abantu abanganikeli nto kuwe. Kodwa ungayisebenzisa njani le nto kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla? Uluntu lwanamhlanje lumalunga nokufunxa ulwazi rhoqo, nokuba kungokuqonda okanye ukungazi, kwaye uzame ukukhumbula yonke into. Nangona kunjalo, lo mthwalo ubekwe kuthi uhlala ukhokelela kuxinzelelo, ukudideka nokudinwa.

Lungelelanisa ubomi bakho

Ukonwaba udinga isiphithiphithi esincinci ebomini bakho nasengqondweni yakho. Ukuba uhlala ungumntu ocwangcisiweyo, unokuchitha ixesha lakho ngokunjalo. Kuyimfuneko ukuba uqale uququzelele umsebenzi wakho, ikhaya lakho kunye nobomi bakho, ke nengqondo yakho iya kulungelelaniswa kwaye uya kuxhamla kuwe ngakumbi. Kufuneka ulicwangcise ixesha lakho!

Nandipha iziyolo ezincinci

Ukonwabela iholide elungileyo akuyomfuneko ukuba uye kwelinye icala lehlabathi. Yonwabela into onayo namhlanje, abantu abakungqongileyo kunye nezicwangciso ezingalindelekanga. Yonwabela indalo osondeleyo kuwe kunye neenkcukacha ezincinci ukuba abantu abafuna ukukwenza ebomini bakho.

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