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RHOQO NDIHAMBA Iintsuku ezimbalwa ukusuka ekhaya, Ndishiya abantwana umzobo omncinci kwiphepha lokubhala okanye ebhodini. Ngemivumbo embalwa ndenza umzobo kaloliwe okanye imoto ekwiwindow yakhe umlinganiswa ajonge ngaphandle, ewangawangisa kwaye ngubani ofanele ukuba ndim. Ingena endaweni yokubhaliweyo ebendikade ndikushiya umfazi wam ngaphambi kokuba sibe nabantwana.
Ngenye intsasa, kanye xa ndandiza kuphuma endlwini ukuba ndide ndibuye kude kunesiqhelo, ndakhumbula umzobo. Ndabeka ibrifkheyisi yam phambi komnyango wekhitshi olityibilikayo owawugutyungelwe ngepeyinti ebhodini kwaye ndathatha itshokhwe kwibhokisi engasentla kwesiqandisi.
Saceba ukudibana kwiveki kamva kumamazala wam eAmsterdam, apho beza kuhamba ngeCitroën Berlingo yethu eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka.
Ndiqale ngokupeyinta indlu kamamazala wam enkulu kakhulu, kodwa kuba ndingxamile ndakhetha ukuzoba ngokukhawuleza endaweni yokuchola irabha ndiqalele phantsi. Kwimivumbo embalwa ndazoba izindlu ezidibeneyo, kwaye ndaye ndazoba ndoyama ngefestile yomgangatho wesibini, ndincumile kwaye ndibulisa iBerlingo engaqhelekanga.
Ndandisoyika ukuba, ngenxa yokunqongophala kobunzulu kumzobo, ngekhe babambe into eyayibonisa, ndaye ndathatha yonke itshokhwe kwifriji kwaye ndaqala ukuyifaka imibala kwimoto eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kunye nakwindlu ekhanyayo iorenji. Ngetshokhwe etyheli ndazoba inyanga emile okomnwe kwaye bendisenaxesha lokongeza indlela yendlela ngee-amsterdammertjes ezine, ezo ziibhola ezimdaka esixekweni, ngaphambi kokuba zibaleke. Ewe, le mibuliso izotyiweyo yeyabo bahlala ekhaya, kanye njengokuba amagama athi "see you soon" kufuneka athathe indawo yam bade baphinde bandibone. Nangona kunjalo, imizobo yokuvalelisa ikwalisiko endizama ngalo ukucinezela umnqweno wam.
Lo mzobo emnyango usekhona kwaye ukusukela ngoko siye sabhala phantsi izinto ezikuluhlu lokuthenga ngaphezulu, kwisithuba esasishiyelwe simahla ecaleni kwenyanga.
Ngobunye ubusuku, bendikhangela indawo yokongeza "isepha" kuludwe, ukujonga kwam kwawela kumzobo kwaye ndakhumbula unyaka ongaphambili, xa ndandizobe umfanekiso.
Ngequbuliso kwenzeka kum ukuba kutheni iminqweno edlulileyo ihlala ibonakala iphelelwe lixesha, hayi kuba singasenayo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba akukho mfanekiso, akukho mmeli unokukwazi ukubandakanya yonke iminqweno. Isiphoso asikokungafezeki komelo, kodwa bubume obungapheliyo bayo yonke iminqweno. Nangona ukubonakaliswa kweminqweno yethu kungafezekanga, umnqweno ngamnye ufuna umfanekiso, kuba yile nto siyilindeleyo.
Ukuzoba itshokhwe, emele umnqweno wokuba banal ukuba lusapho oluhlanganisiweyo, igcine inkumbulo yento esasiyiyo. Ndiyabulela koku, indivumele ukuba ndikhangele kwiimvakalelo zam ngelo xesha, kwaye ndabona ukuba iminqweno yam ayizalisekanga. Hayi ngoba sasingadibananga kwakhona emva kweveki ende kumamazala wam eAmsterdam. Ngokuchasene noko, yonke into ihambe ngokwesicwangciso. Kodwa kuba imvakalelo yokuhlangana kwakhona evelisa kuthi ayinakuze ihambelane noko besikulindele kuyo.
Le ncwadi imalunga nobume balo mnqweno. Kwimifanekiso ethatha indawo yale nto siyifunayo, kodwa ayinakho ukwamkela.
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