Bendihlala ndisoyika xa kufikwa yenza izizathu. Ndisasebenza kuyo. Nje ukuba uyeke ukwenza into ngenxa yesizathu esingenasiseko (ukuze ulahle uxanduva lwakho) uqala ukudala umkhwa ebomini bakho onokuthi ube nefuthe ekufezekiseni umdla wakho. Unokuba yinkosi yokwenene yokuzithethelela.
Ukuba ufuna ukuthatha inxaxheba ebomini bakho kwaye ujongane nomsebenzi wakho ngokuzimisela kunye nenkuthazo, kuya kufuneka uyivume loo nto izizathu azinasiseko kwaphela. Bangumqobo kuwe ukuziphucula.
Imizekelo yezizathu
"Andinawo umsebenzi ongcono kuba andikufanelanga"
"Andikwazi ukunciphisa umzimba kuba andinaxesha lokuzilolonga"
"Akufunekanga ndithethe naloo mntu kuba andimthandi", njl.
Isakhiwo esisiseko ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:
"Andikwazi ukwenza {into endiyifunayo} kuba ndicinga ukuba {ikhona into endisikelwayo}."
Sithetha ngokuthintela iinkolelo ezilawulwayo. Ungayitshintsha indlela ocinga ngayo.
Kukho i ividiyo ye Tony Robbins eza kuluncedo kolu hlobo lwesifundo. Ndikushiya nevidiyo: (ungalibali ukwenza imibhalo engezantsi ngesiSpanish)