Wonke umntu ufuna ukuba nobomi obunempumelelo ... kodwa Ukuba uyayifuna, kufuneka uyihlakulele njengegadi entle eneentyatyambo ekufuneka uyikhathalele yonke imihla yobomi bakho. Kukho iimpawu ezithile zobuqu ekufuneka uyazi kuba ukuze uphumelele akukho kuphela "ithamsanqa". Ukuba ufuna ubomi bakho bufane nabantu abaninzi, kuyakufuneka wenze kuphela oko kwenziwa ngabantu abaninzi… Ukuba uyangqinelana, uya kuba nobomi obuzinzileyo.
SUkuba unika konke okusemandleni akho yonke imihla, uya kuphumelela. Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba uya kuba ngumntu ophumeleleyo, kuya kufuneka ucinge ukuba uneempawu eziyimfuneko kubuntu bakho okanye kwindlela oziphethe ngayo ukuze ube nakho. Mhlawumbi unenkcazo yakho yokuphumelela, mhlawumbi kuwe ilinganiswa ngokwemali kunye nobutyebi ... inkululeko kunye nokuchitha ixesha kunye nosapho lwakho, okanye mhlawumbi unceda abanye. Impumelelo ayichazwanga ngandlela-nye, kodwa kuya kufuneka ukhethe uhlobo lwempumelelo oluthetha lukhulu kuwe. Ngaba unale mpawu yobuqu eya kukukhokelela empumelelweni?
Uthanda ukukhuphisana ... ngendlela esempilweni
Ukhuphiswano olunetyhefu luya kukhokelela ekusileleni… ngokobuqu. Kodwa ukuba uyazi indlela yokukhuphisana ngendlela esempilweni, impumelelo izakulinda. Ukuba nesidingo sokuphumelela akuyona into embi kwaye nangona izizathu ziyahluka, ukuzimisela kuhlala kungagungqi. Abantu abaphumeleleyo bathe phithi ziindlela zobuchule zokuphucula ukhuphiswano lwabo, bayakucaphukela ukuphulukana nothando olungapheliyo. Abantu bahlala beyiphutha le ndlela yokuziphatha, kodwa ukusebenza nzima akusoloko kuyinjongo. Umqhubi wokhuphiswano lokufezekisa ngaphezulu kunabanye, Banokukukhokelela kwimpumelelo okoko ingeyityhefu.
Uzanele ngokwaneleyo
Uyakwazi ukuthatha uxanduva kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, unako ukuba noxanduva! Unokwenza izigqibo ezinzima kwaye bayakuxhasa xa usenza njalo. Ucinga ngesiqu sakho kuba kuthetha ukuzazi, kodwa ukongeza ekucingeni ngawe kunye neemfuno zakho, ucinga nabanye. Uhlala uzama ukwenza izinto ngokwakho, kodwa ukuba ufuna uncedo, awoyiki ukulucela.
Unamandla kunye nomonde
Womelele ngokwaneleyo ukuba ungabona izinto, awuthandabuzi okanye ulibazise. Xa uyifuna, uyayenza inyani. Abona baphumeleleyo ehlabathini ngabo bahlala bejolise kwiinjongo zabo kwaye bengaguquguquki kwiinzame zabo. Kodwa kwakhona, baye baba nomonde (uninzi lomonde!). Bezimisele ukuba nomonde kwaye uyaqonda ukuba, kuyo yonke into, kukho ukusilela kunye nokukhathazeka. Ukuthatha ngokwakho kuya kuba yingozi… kwaye awukwazi ukuhlawula oku!
Ukhupha okungafunekiyo engqondweni yakho
Nokuba uphumelele kangakanani, ukuhlala kwixesha elidlulileyo kuya kukuthoba amandla okuphucula. Abantu abaphumeleleyo abanamakhonkco kwixa elidlulileyo. Bafunda kuye ngokukhawuleza, kwaye badlulela kumceli mngeni omkhulu ... Bayazi ukuba iimpazamo azisileli, ngamathuba okufunda kunye nokuphuculwa.
Ujonge iinkcukacha
Ngamanye amaxesha uziva ngathi unolungelelwaniso olupheleleyo kwiinkcukacha kodwa awunakukunceda ... Nangona abantu abakungqongileyo bengasoloko bekuqonda, oku kuqhuba ukugqwesa. Oku kubonakala ngathi kuyaphikisana nemantra ethandwayo, "Sukuba nexhala malunga nezinto ezincinci," kodwa uninzi lwabantu abaphumeleleyo Bafike apho besenza loo nto xa ibingabo bebesenza izinto ezincinci.
Uzivuza
Xa uprinta, kufuneka uthathe ixesha lokuzikhathalela. Ngokwasemzimbeni nangokomzimba. Oko kunokuba lula njengokucamngca okufutshane okanye umthambo ogcweleyo, into oyithandayo oyithandayo, igalelo lokupha, okanye uhambo oluzenzekelayo kunye nawe okanye umntu omthandayo. Nokuba yintoni, injongo kukuthintela ukudinwa, hlala ujonge kwaye ukhumbule ukuba kutheni uzincama ngenxa yakho.
Ingqibelelo kunye nothando
Ingqibelelo luphawu oluyimfuneko ukuze uphumelele ngoku nakwixesha elizayo. Ukunyaniseka yeyona nkqubo ilungileyo kuyo yonke into oyenzayo; ukuthembeka kudala isimilo kwaye kuchaze ukuba ungubani. Kwakhona, ingqibelelo ihamba kunye nomnqweno, ke ukuba ufuna ukuphumelela, ukuba ufuna ukuphila, ayisiyambeko, kodwa ngumnqweno oya kukusa apho. Ubomi yi-10% yezinto ohlangabezana nazo kunye ne-90% yendlela ophendula ngayo kula mava.
Ithemba nokuzithemba
Uyazi ukuba kuninzi okunokufezekiswa kwaye kuninzi okuhle kulo mhlaba, kwaye uyazi ukuba kufanelekile ukulwela. Ithemba liqhinga lokufezekisa ikamva elingcono: ukuba ubungakholelwa ukuba ikamva lingangcono, ngekhe ulilwele. Ngale ndlela, kubalulekile ukuhlakulela iingcinga zakho ezilungileyo.
Kwaye ukuze ube nethemba, kubalulekile ukuba nawe uzithembe. Uyazithemba… ilula ngoluhlobo. Xa unokuzithemba okungagungqiyo kwisiqu sakho, uya kuba linyathelo elinye elisondela kwimpumelelo, kwindawo ofuna ukuba nayo kwaye uyiphumeze.
Unombulelo ongazenzisiyo
Nokuba unethuba lokuzikhukhumeza, musa ukuba njalo. Unokuba ngoyena mntu unombulelo okhoyo kwaye oku kuya kukwenza umntu ongcono. Uyakwazi ukwazi ukubaluleka kokuziva ithamsanqa lokuba nezinto onazo, ukuba lapho ukhoyo kunye ne Musa ukoyika ukwabelana nabanye ngempumelelo yakho.
Awuzichazi ngokweentsilelo zakho
Akukho mntu uphumelele nge-100%. Impumelelo sisiphumo esihle esoloko sibandakanya ukusilela, ulingo kunye nokufunda. Izazinzulu zisixelela ukuba indalo iphela ibikhona kuphela ngenxa yokuba bekukho umda omncinci omncinci wento kwi-antimatter, ngelishwa kukho isuntswana kwitriliyoni. Kwakukho intshabalalo eninzi yokwenza okuseleyo. Ukuba woyika ukusilela, ke ngokwenkcazo uthintela impumelelo. Dlula kuyo… Indalo yonke ixhomekeke kwimpumelelo kwaye nawe unako!
Unxibelelwano oluhle
Usebenza ukunxibelelana kwaye unike ingqalelo kwabanxibelelanisi abakungqongileyo. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukumamela le nto abangaxeleli yona. Xa unxibelelwano lukhona, ukuthembana kunye nentlonipho zihamba ngendlela.
Ukuba ufuna ukuphumelela, funda ezi mpawu ziya kukukhokelela kuyo kwaye ucwangcise ukuziphila yonke imihla yobomi bakho. Yiba nesibindi uzimisele, uthobeke, unyaniseke kwiimpawu zakho, ungoyiki. Kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, yiba nguwe, njalo!