La indawo yokuthuthuzela Inokuchazwa okanye yahlulwe njengemo yengqondo, apho umntu ekhululekile nangona ekwiimeko ezimbi, oko kukuthi, ukhetha ukuhlala kwimo leyo ngaphandle kwemeko ezimbi ezijikeleze yena; okokugqibela uloyiko lokuqhubela phambili, ukukhula kunye nokukhula njengomntu.
Kulo lonke eli nqaku siza kuthetha malunga nezibonelelo zokushiya indawo yokuthuthuzela kunye neengcebiso eziza kukuvumela ukuba ukwenze ngokulula. Kuya kufuneka unyamezele, uqeqeshe kwaye uzame konke okusemandleni akho ukonwabela ubomi.
Kutheni le nto kufuneka ushiye indawo yokuthuthuzela?
Nangona le meko yengqondo inokukhusela kwaye ikhusele umntu okwethutyana, emva kwexesha elide ibachaphazela kakubi; kuba umkhwa namasiko anokuzisa iziphumo ezingafunekiyo. Ukongeza, uninzi lwabantu abahlala kule ndawo bathambekele ekuphuhliseni ukungakhathali kunye neemvakalelo okanye iimvakalelo ezifanayo nezifunyanwa ngabo banengxaki yoxinzelelo okanye ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo.
Ke ngoko, inyani yokushiya loo ndawo ishenxisa oko kunokwenzeka okanye itshintshe ubomi bakhe nabani na owenza isigqibo sokwenza njalo. Leyo yeyona nto iphambili kwaye iluncedo kwabo banobuganga bokuthatha umtsi. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuqaqambisa ezinye izibonelelo zokuphuma kule meko yengqondo.
Uya kuba namandla ngakumbi kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo
Ubomi njengoko buqhubeka buqhubela phambili ngenxa yethu kumava esihlala kuwo. Oku kuyachaphazeleka xa sihlala kwindawo yethu yoxolo; ke siyakuphulukana nokuninzi ekufundeni nasekulibaziseni ukukhula kwethu njengabantu ngabanye.
Nje ukuba ukwazi ukoyisa enye okanye ezingaphezulu koloyiko lwakho olunzulu (njengokungaphumeleli kunye nokuphulukana nezinto onazo okanye ukuba mbi kunakwimeko okuyo ngoku, kuyakuvumela ukuba uqhubele phambili ngokuzimisela okukhulu. Esihlala siqinisekisa impumelelo yabantu.
Kwelinye icala, sonke kufuneka sifunde ukuwa kwaye, emva koko, sivuke; ukusukela kweli nyathelo lokugqibela, kuxa umzamo wethu uqhubeka ngakumbi kwaye sifezekisa izinto ezintle. Ukuba awuzivumeli uwe kwaye shiya indawo yokuthuthuzela, awungekhe womelele.
Uya kuphuhlisa ubuchule bakho
Ngokubeka ecaleni i yesiqhelo nangemihla ngemihlaUya kuba nakho ukuphuhlisa ifayile yakho ye- ubuchule bokuyila; Ewe, kuya kufuneka ulwe okanye ujongane nezinto ezahlukeneyo zangaphakathi nezangaphandle oza kuthi uzibone endleleni.
Ngalo mzuzu uya kuba nakho ukufumana izisombululo obungacingi ukuba zikhona; Ewe, awuzange ucinge ukuba unale ngxaki okanye ucinga nje ukuba ayinasicombululo kwindlela obukade uphila ngayo. Ukongeza, abantu abathatha umngcipheko rhoqo kunokwenzeka ukuba baphuhlise iinkalo zobuntu babo ezikhuthaza ubuchule.
Uya kuphuhlisa ukuzithemba kunye nokukhuseleka kuwe
Abantu abangenakuphuma kwindawo yabo yokuthuthuzela babonakaliswa ngokuba uyoyikeka kwaye ungazithembi; kuba uloyiko lwabo lubabamba umva kwaye bayabuthandabuza ubuchule babo bokujongana nabo. Nje ukuba ukwazi ukwaphula loo mqobo kwaye ujongane nehlabathi ukufezekisa zonke iinjongo, iinjongo kunye namaphupha owakhe wazibekela wona; ke ngelo xesha ke uya kuqala ukukholelwa kuwe.
Nje ukuba uqale ukuzibona usombulula iingxaki kwaye uphila usuku nosuku, kulapho ke uya kuthi ucinge ukuba ungumntu okwaziyo ukwenza izinto ongazange wazicinga. Uya kuqala thembela ngakumbi kubuchule bakho nakuthuku, eyakondla ngamava afunyenwe endleleni.
Uya kuba nakho ukukhula njengomntu
Ngamanye amaxesha sijonga nje kwizinto eziphathekayo (singathethi ixesha elininzi), sishiya bucala ukukhula kwangaphakathi nophuhliso. Ngokoluvo lwam, ndicinga ukuba akunakwenzeka ukufezekisa amandla ethu apheleleyo ngaphandle kokuqala siziphuhlise njengabantu, ubuncinci ukuzazi thina kunye nokuzivumela ukuba sihlolisise umhlaba.
Uninzi lwabantu abaphumeleleyo bayazi ngokuchanekileyo ukuba banjani, baya kwihambo kwaye bakholelwa kwiiprojekthi uninzi okanye konke ukuthandabuza. Bakhethe ukubeka emngciphekweni impumelelo, besazi ukuba xa bewile, kufuneka baphakame bazame kwakhona.
Iingcebiso zokuphuma kwindawo yokuthuthuzela
Nje ukuba ufunde izibonelelo okanye izibonelelo zokushiya indawo yakho yokuthuthuzelaNgokuqinisekileyo uya kukhuthazeka kwaye ukhuthazwe ukuba wenze njalo. Nangona inokucaca, kwiimeko ezininzi sidinga uncedo okanye inkxaso ukusinika ukutyhala; ke olu lwazi lufuna ukukunceda uqonde ukuba kutheni kwaye kutheni kufuneka ulandele ezi ngcebiso.
Zama ukulawula amasiko
Bathi umntu uyakwazi ukuziqhelanisa nantoni na ngeentsuku nje ezingama-21; oko kuthetha ukuba phantse inyanga ukuhlala kwigumbi elitsha kunokuba ngumkhwa. Ukuba sidibanisa ukuchitha iminyaka emibini kuyo, uya kucinga ukuba loo nto iya kuba yeyomntu ngamnye njani.
Kubantu abaninzi lo mzekelo wokuzenzekelayo unokuba nefuthe kubomi babo; kuba ngokwenyani yokungaphumi kwindlu ababeziva bekhululekile kuyo, banokuphulukana nethuba elikhethekileyo. Umzekelo, ukunyuselwa emsebenzini kwenye indawo yesixeko okanye kwesinye isixeko.
Kuya kufuneka sicoce ukuba yonke into kobu bomi yeyokwexeshana kwaye ukuba siqhela kwizinto, siza kube sichitha ixesha elibalulekileyo esinokutyala lona ekufumaneni amava amatsha anika ulwazi esiza kulusebenzisa kwixesha elizayo.
Guqula iindlela zakho
Ukuthathela ingqalelo ingcebiso yangaphambili, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ukuqala ukuphuma kwindawo yokuthuthuzela, utshintshe iindlela zakho zezinye ezifanayo okanye ezahluke ngokupheleleyo. Ezi zinokusetyenziswa kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo zobomi bakho, njengokutya, ubudlelwane, umsebenzi okanye izifundo, phakathi kwabanye.
Eminye imizekelo yokutshintsha iindlela onokuthi uzenze:
- Guqula indlela otya ngayo izitya ezintsha. Bukela ukupheka ikeyiki ngewaka leelekese ozibone kuFacebook kwiveki ephelileyo.
- Phuma uye kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo, apho unokuncokola nabantu ngaphandle kwesiqhelo. Ukuphulukana noloyiko lokuthetha nabantu ongabaziyo, ekugqibeleni bonke bade side siqale uguquko; ngubani owaziyo, lo mntu ungaziwayo angangumhlobo omangalisayo okanye umfazi wamaphupha akho.
- Bhalisela iiklasi ezizimeleyo okanye ezikhethiweyo ukuze uguqule lo mbandela. Unokuzama ukwenza izinto ongakhange uzenze ngaphambili.
Xoxa ngento onokuyenza ukuzicelomngeni
Abantu abangenayo indawo yokuthuthuzela babonakaliswa ngokuzicelomngeni ngokwabo amaxesha ngamaxesha (abanye bahlala rhoqo). Olu luphawu ekufuneka uzame ukukopa, njengoko ingumgangatho oya kukuvumela zama ngandlela zonke ukuzibonakalisa nakwabanye ukuba uyakwazi ukuphumeza into ocinga ukuba uyayenza.
Ekuqaleni kunokuba nzima okanye kungonwabisi, kodwa kancinci kancinci uyakubamba umsonto. Ukongeza, le mingeni inokuhlala ikunceda ukuba uphume kwiimeko ezimbi, ezinje ngobudlelwane obunetyhefu okanye umsebenzi apho uziva ungonwabanga.
Fezekisa iinjongo zakho kwaye uphinde ucinge ngobomi bakho
Ngokushiya indawo yethu entofontofo, sifuna ukukhula ngokobuqu kwaye ngokufuthi ngokwezemali. Ngale ndlela siya kuzama ukulandela iinjongo zethu ezichaziweyo; eya kuthi ngamaxesha amaninzi ibe nokuzaliseka.
Inikwe imeko yokufezekisa owona mgangatho uphakamileyo siwuphakamisileyo; ke kuya kufuneka sinike yonke into ukuze siqhubeke siyenza kwaye sizogqitha ngamaxesha onke. Nangona kunjalo, kukho umzuzu apho sifumana "ukuthotywa" ngenxa yokuba siqhela ukwenza okufanayo; ke kuloo meko kuya kufuneka uphinde ucinge ngobomi bakho kwaye ufumane umngeni omtsha.
Ungasoloko uphuma kwindawo yakho yokuthuthuzela
Kulungile ukuphuma kwindawo yokuthuthuzela kuzo zonke izibonelelo kunye nezibonelelo ezichaziweyo, kodwa akukho ngcamango yokuhlala ngaphandle ngonaphakade; kuba ayinakwenzeka. Ukuba uhlala usenza izinto ezahlukeneyo kunalezo ubuzenza, unokuziqhela ngokulula.
Ngamanye amaxesha kuye kufuneke sibuyele kulaa ndawo, sithathe ikhefu okanye sonwabele impumelelo yethu kwaye siphinde siphume siye kujongana nehlabathi.
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Inqaku elilunge kakhulu livuyisana, ndibhalisile. Abantu abaninzi bakufumanisa kunzima kakhulu ukuphuma kwindawo yabo yokuthuthuzela, eli nqaku liza kuba lihle kakhulu. Ndingumlandeli wemixholo yenkuthazo kunye nokuziphucula ngokwakho.
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