Amaphupha ahlala etsala umdla wabantu, kuba abonakalisi nje iinkumbulo kwaye bahlala amava; zikwabonisa imiyalezo evela kwi-subconscious yethu enokuthi izame ukusixelela okuthile. Injalo imeko ye phupha ngamaphela, amava amnandi kakhulu kwaye ahlala ehleli kubemi.
Amaphela aphakathi kwamaqela awoyikwayo ezinambuzane, njengoko abantu besoyika okanye bekruqula imbonakalo yabo; ukufikelela kwinqanaba lokuba phobia. Ngesi sizathu, iphupha elinamaphela linokoyikisa ngokwenene kwabanye abantu; ujonge intsingiselo okanye ukutolikwa okanye kumnatha.
Ukukhangela intsingiselo yeli phupha kuqheleke kakhulu, kuba njengoko besitshilo, kuhlala kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Ke ngoko, ngalo lonke ixesha lokungena siza kubona iintsingiselo ezahlukeneyo okanye ukutolikwa kwamava ephupha anokwahluka kwizinto ezahlukeneyo.
Fumanisa intsingiselo yokuphupha malunga namaphela
Ingxaki yokuba namaphupha ngamaphela kukuba kukho abantu abayoyikayo nabanye abangoyikiyo; ke ngoko, ukutolikwa kungahluka ngokumalunga noku. Ukongeza, izinto zangaphandle ezinje ngamava akutshanje ngezi zinambuzane ziyachaphazela; ezinokuthi zonyuse amathuba okuphupha ngamaphela. Amanye ala mava angaba:
- Ukudibana ngokusondeleyo nomntu okanye amaphela ahlukeneyo
- Ukubukela kwi-intanethi okanye kumabonwakude inkqubo apho esi sinambuzane sivele khona okanye ophambili (njengombhalo, umzekelo).
- Thetha malunga nomxholo nabanye abantu okanye umamele ii-anecdotes ezivela kubo.
Ke ngoko, ukuba kukho enye yezi zinto eziyinyani kwimeko yakho, kunokwenzeka ukuba amaphupha akho abonakalisa nje iinkumbulo. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba ufunde ukutolikwa ukuze uwukhuphe umyalezo onokubakho ovela kwi-subconscious yethu.
Inyaniso yokuphupha ngamaphela inokuchazwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo ngokuxhomekeke kumxholo; iphi ngesiqhelo ibonisa uloyiko okanye ukungazithembi (kwimeko apho baya kuvelisa le mvakalelo xa siyigcina ngokwenyani); Ngelixa umntu ebakhathalele ubukho babo, ke ukutolikwa kuya kuxhomekeka kwimeko kunye nemeko yabo yangoku.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuba namaphupha ngamaphela afileyo?
Ukuba amaphela ayaphila kwaye azula zula ngeenxa zonke, iphupha elo linokutolikwa njengomnqweno wotshintsho kwinkalo ethile yobomi bakho. Mhlawumbi uzibekele usukelo olulibaleyo okanye ongakhange uzame ngokwaneleyo; ke lo ngumyalezo obonisa ukuba uqala ukwenza.
Ukuba uyaboyika ubukho bakhe, mhlawumbi kukho into ongenakuyamkela; into yangaphakathi okanye yangaphandle ekunzima ukujongana nayo.
Fumanisa indlela otolika ngayo amaphupha abhabha
Ezi ntlobo zamaphupha zinokutolikwa kwazo uloyiko lwangaphakathi kunye neengxabano mdala kakhulu; kwimeko yokoyika ebomini bokwenyani. Kule meko kufuneka sicinge kwakhona ngento esiyenzayo kunye noko sikuphumeleleyo.
Ukuba awunayo imilinganiselo yazo, oku kuya kuba ngumqobo kuwe. Ngokwesiqhelo aba bantu abasiqondi isizathu sokuba abanye bezothe okanye boyika amaphela; yintoni enokufumana ukuphazamisa isimo sengqondo okanye isimilo sabanye abantu phambi kwabo.
Ndiphuphe amaphela ekutyeni
Ngokwenene eli liphupha lokuba nabani na angazibeka kudidi olucekisekayo; Ukongeza, ayisiyonto sihlala siyibona mihla le, yiyo loo nto sinokufumana ukutolikwa ngokubanzi. La mava sisilumkiso samandla angalunganga anokujikeleza iiprojekthi zethu, ke kufuneka ulumke.
Kunokuthetha ntoni ukuba namaphupha eenciniba ezinkulu?
Ukuba sidlulisela ukwahluka kwephupha kwintsingiselo ngokubanzi kunye namanye amava, ngokucacileyo siya kugqiba kwelokuba iingxaki zangaphakathi okanye zangaphandle kunye neemeko zininzi okanye zinkulu, oko kukuthi, kusenokubakho iingxaki ezininzi okanye ingxaki enye yobukhulu obukhulu .
Ngaphandle koku, kunokwenzeka ukuba ufumane enye intsingiselo ngokokucoceka. Mhlawumbi ukungqubana ekhaya, emsebenzini, okanye izimvo kusenokwenzeka ukuba zikufike. Zama ukuba ngumntu ocwangciswe ngakumbi kwaye ugcine uxanduva.
Ukwahluka ngakumbi kwephupha
- Amaphela amthubi: ibhekisa kwezo meko apho sifuna ukuhoywa okanye ukwamkelwa khona; ezinokuvela kubantu bangaphandle okanye kuthi.
- Ukuhamba roaches: kunzima ukutolika oku, kuba kwiimeko ezininzi amaphela ahambahamba; oku kuthetha ukuba ngumgaqo oya kuhlonitshwa phantse kuzo zonke iiyantlukwano.
- Amaphela entloko: Le ntsingiselo ilula, kuba ibhekisa kwinto yokuba iingxaki zisichaphazela ngokwasengqondweni, ngokomoya, ngokwasemphefumlweni okanye ngokwasengqondweni. Kuya kufuneka sifumane ingcambu yayo kwaye sifumane isisombululo ngokukhawuleza.
- Amaphela aqaqambileyo: Ikwakukukhumbuza, okuxelela ukuba uyayazi ngokwenyani into ekufuneka uyitshintshile ukuze uphuhlise kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo; Kuya kufuneka uzimisele ngokwaneleyo ukuyenza.
Ukuphupha amaphela kunokuba nenani elikhulu lokwahluka ngokuxhomekeka kumava umntu aphile kuwo okanye umbono kwiTV okanye kwi-Intanethi. Oko kuthetha ukuba iya kuba yinto engenasiphelo. Ngesi sizathu sichaza ezona zihamba rhoqo; Kodwa ngendlela efanayo, siyakumema ukuba uphawule ngamaphupha akho ukuzama ukuwatolika ngeyona ndlela ifanelekileyo.
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