Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngezigcawu

Ukuba ufuna ukwazi Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngezigcawu, Siza kulungiselela isishwankathelo oza kuthi ukwazi ngaso zonke iinkcukacha kunye nezinto ezinokwenzeka, kwaye amaphupha athetha lukhulu ngathi kunokuba sinokucinga, kungoko kusoloko kucetyiswa ukuqonda ulwazi ngalunye oluququzelelayo Senze ukutolika okwaneleyo kwaye sizitshintshe ezo zinto ebomini bethu ezinokuba yingozi.

Ukutolikwa kwamaphupha

Uninzi lwenu luya kube luqondile ukuba kukho ubudlelwane phakathi kwamaphupha kunye nenyani, nangona kufanele ukuba kucace ukuba ngamanye amaxesha banokuba nomxholo ozama ukusinika okuthile ngobomi bethu, ngelixa ngamanye amaxesha zizinto nje ezenzeka ngokuhambelana amava.

Umzekelo, ngeli xesha siza kuhlalutya intsingiselo yokuphupha ngezigcawu, kodwa kuyo nayiphi na imeko kuyakufuneka sahlule ukuba iphupha lenzekile ngokusekwe kumava akutshanje njengokoyikiswa sisigcawu, ngokucoca igumbi izigcawu, okanye nokuba sisandula ukubona imuvi apho bavela khona ngeengubo, okanye ngokuchaseneyo sisampulu yangaphakathi esizama ukunxibelelana nenxalenye yethu esiyaziyo.

Ngokucacileyo, ukutolikwa esiza kukwenza kusekwe kwinto yesibini enokwenzeka, oko kukuthi, kuya kugxila kwinto esingayaziyo esifuna ukusixelela ukuba siyitolike into enxulumene nenyani.

Intsingiselo yokuphupha ngezigcawu

Nje ukuba sazi ukwahlula phakathi amathuba okuphupha ngezigcawuUkuba lunxibelelwano oluvela kwi-subconscious yethu, uya kufumana zonke iinkcazo zokwenene ezikhoyo ngokunxulumene nolu hlobo lwamaphupha.

Njengomgaqo jikelele baphupha izigcawu okoko nje bengekho tarantulaKuthetha ukuba sikwindlela elungileyo, nokuba kusapho lwethu okanye emsebenzini. Ngokuqinisekileyo besisebenza kakhulu mva nje kwiprojekthi, kwaye eli phupha liza kubonisa kuthi ukuba kungekudala siza kuqala ukufumana iziphumo kuyo.

Nangona kunjalo, iphupha lifuna ukusixelela ukuba siza kufumana izibonelelo ezininzi kodwa okoko nje sisenza inzame, oko kukuthi, ukuba siqala ukujija okanye ukushiya iiprojekthi zethu, ekugqibeleni yonke into iyakusilela, kodwa ukuba siyaqhubeka kwaye sisebenzise onke amandla ethu ukufezekisa iinjongo zethu, qiniseka ukuba, ngaphambili okanye kancinci emva koko, uya kuyiphumeza.

Kwimeko apho uphupha ukuba ubulala isigcawu, sisilumkiso sokuba kukho uthando okanye ubudlelwane obunokuthi benzakaliswe kungekudala, ke ukuba siye saxabana nomntu osondeleyo kuthi, eyona nto sinokuyenza kukuzama ukulungisa ngokukhawuleza ukukhusela ukuba ingadluli.

Okunye ukutolika kokubulala isigcawu ibonisa ukuba kungekudala siza kuzifumana sikwimeko esinokuyilawula, kodwa iya kuba nzima kwaye ingasibiza imali eninzi. Nangona kunjalo, siya kuba nakho ukoyisa abo bemi endleleni yethu kwaye siya kuyiphumeza injongo yethu.

Kukho nokutolika okunxulumene noko ndiyalunywa sisigcawu, kwimeko apho ke bekuza kuba kubhengeza ukuba kungekudala siza kudibana notshaba olutsha, okanye nokuba ngubani na kwindalo esingqongileyo uyakuba nxamnye naso nasiphi na isigqibo esisithathayo, kungoko ke kufuneka silumke kwaye sichonge oko ingekashiywa lixesha kwaye inokwenza umonakalo emva.

Ukuba sikwixesha eliphantsi kunye neqabane lethu, i-spider bite ingaguqulelwa njengenyaniso yokuba sikrokrela ukuba angangathembeki kuthi, okunganyanzelekanga ukuba yenzeke, kodwa yinto esinayo kwi-subconscious yethu kwaye singayenza into eninzi yomonakalo, ke kuya kufuneka siyilungise ukuba asifuni kuvela iingxaki ezintsha zobudlelwane.

Kwimeko ukuba izigcawu zivela ephupheni kwaye ngeli xesha sineengxaki zomthetho okanye sisalinde ukumangalelwa, oko kuthetha ukuba kukho ubunzima obuninzi bokuyiphumelela, ukuze singanikezeli kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke asizukuthemba ngaphezulu kwethu ukuqhubela phambili.

Siya phambili namanye amathuba anje ngenyani siphupha sibona isigcawu esikhulu kakhulu, oko kuthetha ukuba ithamsanqa liyankqonkqoza emnyango wethu, kwaye ukuba siyazityhala, kungekudala sizokwazi ukunyuka sonyuse inzuzo yethu. Ewe kunjalo, kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba kukho umntu ngaphakathi kwindawo yokusebenzela ofuna ukuwuthintela kwaye angasenzakalisa, ke kubalulekile ukuba siyilawule kwaye siyazi indlela yokujongana nayo.

Ukuba Izigcawu zirhangqile, iphupha lisityhilela ukuba siza kungena kwelona xesha lilungileyo ebomini bethu, ukuze siphucule umsebenzi wethu, usapho lwethu luya kuba manyano ngakumbi, abahlobo bethu baya kuthembeka ngakumbi kwaye abo isuti iya kuthi shwaka, kwaye ubudlelwane bethu njengesibini nabo buza kuphucuka.

Si izigcawu ezimbini zivela ephupheniEnye inkulu kwaye enye incinci, ikwayindaba ezimnandi ukusukela ekubeni i-subconscious yethu iqondile ukuba sisendleleni elungileyo kwaye kungekudala zonke izinto ezinxulumene nobomi bethu ziya kuphucula. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba nasiphi na isigcawu siziphosa kuthi sizame ukusiluma, oku kuthetha ukuba, ngaphandle kokuphucuka okubonakalayo, kuzakubakho nabantu abasingqongileyo abazakwenza konke okusemandleni ukuthintela ukuba izinto zingasihambeli kakuhle.

Kwimeko apho kwifayile ye- phupha isigcawu segolide siveleOko kuyakuthetha ukuba ubudlelwane bethu neqabane buza komelezwa kungekudala, nokuba asinabo, kungekudala siza kudibana nomntu oza kubaluleka kakhulu ebomini bethu. Ewe kunjalo, akufuneki sihlale nomntu wokuqala esimbonayo, kuba ayisiyiyo ingcaciso, kodwa umntu onokusenza sonwabe ngokwenyani ukwindawo esihlala kuyo kwaye kufuneka sazi ukukhangela kakuhle.

Kwimeko apho siphupha khona sileqa isigcawu esisindile kuthiKwimeko apho, inokuchazwa njengokuba ithuba lokuphucula izinto liyabaleka kuthi. Kukho into esendleleni yethu esicinga ukuba iya kusithintela ekufezekiseni injongo yethu, ke kwezi meko kuyacetyiswa ukuba sithathe uxanduva kwaye sinikele amandla ngakumbi kwiprojekthi yethu, kuba singaya phambili nokuba sibona kunzima.

Ukuba ngexesha lomdyarho siyakwazi ukumbulala, i-subconscious yethu idlulisela kuthi ukuba siziva singakhuselekanga kwaye asinathemba lokufumana iprojekthi, okanye ukuba kukho into esikhathazayo kwaye isenza sithandabuze amathuba ethu. Ukuba siyambulala singaqondanga, oko kuthetha ukuba sinoluvo lokuba ukulungisa imeko akunakufikeleleka, kodwa ukuba siyambulala ngenjongo, ezantsi siyazi ukuba likho ithemba nangona sele sililahlile.

Ukugqiba, siyakukhumbuza ukuba ekuqaleni kwenqaku besikuxelele ukuba ukutolikwa bekusekwe amaphupha nezigcawu, kodwa ewe, okoko nje bebengekho tarantula. Ewe, ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha i-tarantulas, liphupha elibonisa inkxalabo yethu ngento ethile namhlanje.

Ngokubanzi kubhekiswa emntwini okusingqongileyo, nokuba liqabane lethu ubudlelwane abuhambi kakuhle njengoko kufanele, okanye ngabanye abantu, nokuba ngabahlobo okanye usapho, abakwimzuzu obuthathaka bempilo kwaye kubonakala ngathi abekho Amathemba amahle okuba banokufumana ukuphuma kwimeko abakuyo.

Ngamafutshane, ukuphupha izigcawu ngokubanzi kuhlala kakuhle, nangona zonke iinkcukacha kufuneka zihlalutywe ukubona ukuba liphupha elilungileyo okanye, endaweni yoko, kwenzeka ntoni kukuba i-subconscious yethu ikhathazekile yile meko sijamelana nayo.