Kwiipaki zokuzonwabisa, ukukhwela kwimidlalo ethile, abathathi-nxaxheba bayacelwa ukuba babeneminyaka ethile yobudala kunye nokuphakama. Ukulawula le meko yokugqibela, kuhlala kukho ekungeneni komdlalo ngamnye uhlobo lomnyango olunobude obuncinci obufunwa yimigaqo yokhuseleko. Ukuba umntwana kufuneka agobe ukuze apase, oko kuthetha ukuba uku-msebenzi kwaye unokukhwela umtsalane.
Xa intloko yomntwana ingafikeleli kwibar ethe tyaba, abamvumeli angene, kwaye amaxesha amaninzi umntwana uyacaphuka. Uzama ukugqitha ephindaphinda, kodwa endaweni yokusondela kubonakala ngathi ibha iya inyuka ngokunyuka. Akukho ngxabano isebenza, ukuba umlindi wenza umsebenzi wakhe, umntwana akamkelwa.
Ihlala isenzeka. Kwiinyanga ezimbalwa kamva ubuyela epakini. Umntwana ukhulile ngeesentimitha ezi-2 ezazilahlekile entlokweni yakhe ukuze achukumise ibha. Yeyiphi ingxaki ebingenakoyiswa kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo ngoku akunjalo kwaphela. Kweneke ntoni?
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Ukuba umnqweno qhubeka kwindlela yophuculo lomntu ngaphezulu kobuvila, siya kufunda ukuba ngokuqinisekileyo sinemiqobo kwaye sikhubazekile, kodwa siya kufumanisa ukuba ezinye zezithintelo azikho ngonaphakade.