Abantu zizidalwa zentlalo ngokwendalo kwaye yinto engazukutshintsha kwilizwe. Kukho abo bafuna ukuyibona kwaye abanye bayayikhanyela, kodwa inyani kukuba bonke abantu ngabantu. Ukuya kwinqanaba elincinci okanye elincinci, kodwa sonke sidinga ubuncinci bokunxibelelana ukuze siphile. Akukho mntu unokuba yedwa ngokupheleleyo, sidinga omnye nomnye.
Abantu baneemfuno zentlalo ekufanele ukuba uzazi ukuze ufumane ulonwabo kuwe. Izidingo ezisisiseko zezi: ukutya (impilo, ukutya, njlnjl.), Ukhuseleko (iinkqubo zokhuselo kunye nokuthintela, izindlu, njl.), Uthando (usapho, abahlobo, imfihlo, njl.
Iimfuno zentlalo
UAbraham Maslow, kuLuhlu lweeMfuno zakhe, uchaze iimfuno zethu zentlalo njengesidingo sothando kunye nokuba lilungu. Oku kubandakanya imo yoqhagamshelo, ukusondelelana, ukuthembana kunye nobuhlobo.
Xa ezi mfuno zentlalo zifezekisiwe, siziva siziva siphilile. Kwelinye icala, xa ezi mfuno zingafezekiswa, inokubangela ungquzulwano kunye nokubandezeleka okukhulu.
Kutheni iimfuno zentlalo zibalulekile
Abantu baneemfuno zentlalo ezibaluleke njengemfuno yebhayiloji yokutya. Ngendlela efanayo esinokuthi sibeke emngciphekweni yindlala ukuba siyayeka ukutya, abo iimfuno zabo zentlalo zingafezekiswanga banokuba semngciphekweni wokubandezeleka ngohlobo lweemvakalelo ezibaxekileyo ezikhokelela kwiingcinga zokuzibulala.
Ukuba sifuna ukuqonda ukukhula kwabantu, icandelo lezentlalo libalulekile. Izinto eziluncedo zale mihla zisivumela ukuba siphile ngokuzimeleyo kunakuqala, kodwa kufuneka siqwalasele iindleko kwimpilo yethu yengqondo neyasemzimbeni. Kufuneka siqwalasele impilo yoluntu lwethu.
Kwenzeka ntoni xa iimfuno zethu zentlalo zingajongwanga?
Masishwankathele inkcazo yeemfuno zentlalo. Nangona uMaslow wasebenzisa amagama athi "thanda kwaye ube ngowakho", kukho inkcazo yezentlalo yesidingo esisisiseko sentlalontle: Yimfuno yokuqonda okubalulekileyo kokubaluleka kobuqu, okufezekisiweyo ngokubona okuqinisekileyo kokuhlala kunye negalelo kwezentlalo.
Xa iimfuno zethu zentlalo zingafezekiswa kwaye nokuzithemba kwethu kusongelwa, siyahlawula ngokulwa okanye iimpendulo zenqwelomoya ukuzama buyisela okanye ubaleke umbono wethu olahlekileyo wokubaluleka.
Iimpendulo zokulwa zibandakanya ukubonakaliswa kokuphakama kunye nokubonakaliswa kwamandla. Ukuboniswa kokuqaqamba kubandakanya ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiimpawu zesimo okanye ukonakaliswa kwabanye, kwaye ukubonakaliswa kwamandla kubandakanya iinzame zokulawula okanye ukukhohlisa abanye. Iimpendulo zendiza zibandakanya ukurhoxa eluntwini.
Ukurhoxa eluntwini kuyingozi kuba kuyawanciphisa amathuba okuhlangabezana neemfuno zethu zentlalo, nto leyo eyonyusa umngcipheko wokuzibulala. Iintlungu ezinzulu zeemvakalelo zihlala zivela kukungabikho komntu, ukongeza kwimvakalelo njengomthwalo. Into ekhathazekileyo ibonakaliswa yingxelo "Ndindedwa."
Oku kunemicimbi emibini: isizungu njengesiphumo sokuziva unqanyulwe kwabanye (ukuhlala wedwa, ukungatshati, ukungabi namntwana, njl. ).
Ubulolo
Ngokubanzi, Isizungu yimeko engalunganga ebangelwa yimeko yokwenene okanye yokucinga yokuba wedwa. Abantu abafuna ubudlelwane obuninzi phakathi kwabantu kunokuba benako banokuvelisa iimvakalelo zokuziva bebodwa. Isixa sonxibelelwano lwasentlalweni umntu alifunayo lubanefuthe kubulolo abanokubunyamezela.
Nangona kunjalo, ayilo nani lobudlelwane boluntu obumisela ukuba abantu baziva bengamalolo na. Endaweni yoko, ziimvakalelo kunye nokuqonda okwenzekayo kumava omntu ngokunxulumene nolu nxibelelwano oludlala indima kumava okuba lilolo. Umzekelo, unxibelelwano ekuhlaleni apho umntu eziva oku kulandelayo kunxulunyaniswa nesizungu:
- Ukungathembani
- Impixano ngokweemvakalelo
- Ukungabikho kwenkxaso yentlalo
Umntu unokuba nonxibelelwano oluninzi kwaye azive elilolo okanye abe nonxibelelwano oluncinci kwaye azive engoyena mntu ukhuselekileyo emhlabeni. Xa ubudlelwane bomntu bunganikezeli into efunekayo okanye efunekayo, ayonelanga. Oku kuyakwenza ukuba umntu azive ekhutshiwe kwaye anganqwenela ubudlelwane obonelisayo. Kwelinye icala, umntu onxibelelana kancinci ngokwasentlalweni ubonakala ngathi uyaxhamla kunxibelelwano analo nabahlobo bakhe, kwaye unokukonwabela ixesha lakhe yedwa. Kananjalo, nokuba unonxibelelwano oluncinci kwezentlalo, ukuba bayakuzalisa, awuhlali ufuna ukunxibelelana nabanye, kuba awuzidingi.
Ezi mpawu zilandelayo zinxulumene nomntu zinxulunyaniswa nesizungu
- Ukuba neentloni
- Ukuzijongela phantsi
- Ukuzazi
- Ukubekwa wedwa
- Ira
Ukuziva uwedwa ekuhlaleni kuyinto eqhelekileyo
Ukuziva ulilolo kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Kweminye, inokoyikisa kwaye yonakalise. Okona kuncinci, kubuhlungu. Isizungu sinokukhula sibe sisifo esixhaphakileyo nesinganyangekiyo esineengxaki ezinzulu zengqondo nezomzimba, kubandakanya:
- Ukuhlaliswa koluntu
- Uxinzelelo
- Ukuhlukunyezwa kwesiyobisi
- Imikhwa emibi yokulala
- Imikhwa emibi yokutya
- Iingcinga zokuzibulala kunye nokuziphatha
- Ukungasebenzi komzimba kunye neentliziyo
Unyango lwesizungu
Unyango lwesizungu lujolise ekwandiseni unxibelelwano lwasentlalweni lomntu, kunye nokubanika izakhono zentlalo kunye namathuba okwenza oko. Ezinye zezi zilandelayo:
- Unyango lweqela kubantu abanesizungu
- Iminyhadala yoluntu yabantu abaziva bodwa
Ukunyanga ngokuziphatha okujolise ekuguqulweni kweengcinga ezimbi umntu anazo malunga nabanye kunye nobudlelwane boluntu kunokuba luncedo kakhulu. Inqanaba lesizungu linokwehliswa ngokufundisa umntu ukuba iinkolelo zakhe zingenangqondo kwaye zinobungozi kubo, kunye nokuqhubela phambili iingxaki zabo. Ukongeza, kubalulekile ukuvavanya nokunyanga (kubandakanya ukusetyenziswa kwamayeza, ukuba kubonisiwe) naziphi na iimeko ezingaphantsi kwengqondo ezinokuba negalelo okanye ezibangelwa bubulolo bomntu.
Abantu ngabantu
Abantu, ngenxa yesidingo, bavela baba ngabantu. Ukuxhomekeka nentsebenziswano phakathi kwethu kuphucule amandla ethu okuphila kwiimeko ezibi zendalo. Nangona izoyikiso zokusinda kwezi meko ziye zancipha kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, abantu kusafuneka bazimanye nabanye. Ngapha koko, ukunqongophala konxibelelwano kunokubangela iingxaki ezininzi, kubandakanya isizungu.
Kwiminyaka yethu yedijithali ehambileyo, enye yezona zinto zixhalabisayo ngokubhekisele ekukhuleni kwesizungu yindlela esiye sathandana kancinci ngayo kwabanye. Kwakukho ixesha apho ukusinda kwethu kwakuxhomekeke ekuthembekeni nasekuxhaseni ubudlelwane.
Ngokusisiseko, nokuba sinobugcisa obungakanani na; Ukunxibelelana ngokweemvakalelo kuyaqhubeka nokuba yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yokuba ngumntu. Siyadingana, mhlawumbi hayi ngendlela esichaze ngayo ngendaleko, kodwa ngesidingo esihlala sibalulekile ekusindeni kwengqondo.