Ndicebisa umceli mngeni namhlanjeUkuba unesibindi, ungayandisa ngexesha: thetha inyani kuzo zonke iimeko, yitsho kanye le nto ucinga kwaye wenze ngokufanelekileyo. Kubonakala kusengqiqweni, kodwa sonke singamaxoki ngaxa lithile kumhla wethu. Banokuba bubuxoki obuncinci njengokuthi "molweni" kusasa "okuhle" kuloo mmelwane singaginyiyo. Nangona kunjalo, kutheni siyenza?
Ezi zizenzo nje zokusinda ekuhlaleni. Ukuba besinyanisekile nge-100% kubomi bethu ngelahlekile Abahlobo abaninzi, ubudlelwane bosapho buya kuqhawuka, siphulukane nemisebenzi. Ngapha koko, cinga ngento enye: singaphulukana nayo yonke loo nto kodwa singazuza ubuncwane obuxabiseke kakhulu, ukunyaniseka (ukunyaniseka).
Namhlanje Ukunyaniseka yinto ethi, kwimeko yam, ndiyixabise kakhulu. Malunga noku, ndinotyekelo ebomini bam: andizithathi njengomntu onentlalontle kuba ndibona uhanahaniso oluninzi, imigaqo, ubudlelwane obunyanzelekileyo obujikeleze mna. Ndisebenzisana nabantu abambalwa kakhulu, kodwa bangama-100% ubudlelwane obunyanisekileyo apho ndingakhathaliyo ngokuba ndingubani ngokwenene, ukufihla izimvo nokwenza ngokufanelekileyo.
Yindlela yam yokuphila kunye nokubona ubomi. Isenokungachaneki kwaye ndiye ndangunobangela wokungaziphathi kakuhle kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndingenantlonelo. Kodwa ndilapha, ndingu-100% mna.