Ubuntu yinto enzima yokuchaza into efunyenwe ngaphakathi kwabantu. Ubushushu kunye nomlinganiswa benza obo buntu busenza sahluke kwii-idiosyncrasies zethu. Ngapha koko, ubuntu, ubume kunye nomlinganiswa zezi ngcinga zintathu zisetyenziswayo kwizengqondo ukuze sikwazi ukuthetha ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokuziva kunye nokucinga. Kuqhelekile ukuba abantu baphazamise iintsingiselo zabo.
Ukuze ungaphinde udideke ukuba yile nto yenzekayo kuwe, siza kuchaza ukuba yintoni intsingiselo nganye ukuze kuthi, ukusukela ngoku, uqonde ngakumbi ukuba bathetha ntoni kodwa, ukuba uziqonde ngcono kwaye ubunjani bobuntu bakho.
Ubushushu
Ubushushu sisiseko sayo yonke into, yeyona ndlela yakho yobuntu kwaye inxibelelene kakhulu nemfuza kunye nookhokho bakho. KUNYEYeyona nxalenye yendalo kunye neyethuku yobuntu bakho… kwaye iyakuhlala iza kuqala. Ubushushu buvela okoko siseziintsana. Kukho iintsana ezicaphuka ngokulula kunabanye kwaye kunjalo ngaphandle kokufunda, bubushushu abanabo kwasekuzalweni.
Ubushushu abuyonto enokuthi iguqulwe ngokulula okanye itshintshwe ngenxa yokuba unobunzima bokuphatha. Ungasebenza kubushushu kodwa kuthatha umzamo owongezelelekileyo kuba ubushushu obusisiseko buya kuhlala bukubuntu. Inzame ebonakalayo inokwenziwa ukunqanda ubushushu ekubangeleni iingxaki kubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu.
Umntu
El umlinganiswa Ukuba ihamba emva kobushushu kwaye oku kuyakuxhomekeka ngqo kumava ekufuneka uphile ebomini bakho. Ivela kwimeko okhe wanayo ebomini bakho, into oyifundileyo ekhaya okanye esikolweni ... yonke into ebikufundela yona yiyo eyenze isimilo sakho. Imikhwa yenziwa ngaphakathi komlinganiswa kwaye zonke ezi zinto zenza ubuntu bakho.
Kungenxa yoko le nto inkcubeko ibaluleke kangaka ebantwini, kuba inkcubeko yentlalo yenza ubuntu babaninzi abakhula ngaphakathi kuyo. Umntu akazinzileyo kunesimo sengqondo ngenxa yokuba ayiveli kwimfuza, Inokubunjwa kwaye itshintshwe ngokuxhomekeke kwiimeko ezinamava. Umlingiswa uhamba ngamanqanaba ahlukeneyo kwaye kukwishumi elivisayo xa ebunjwe ngokupheleleyo, nangona inokuqhubeka nokutshintsha ngexesha lobomi.
Ubuntu: ukudityaniswa kwayo yonke into
Ubuntu sisimbuku somlinganiswa kunye nokuziphatha. Ubuntu yinto esenza sahluke kwaye singaphindeki. Ngamanye amaxesha sinokuziva ukuba kukho into malunga nobuntu esingayithandiyo kakhulu kwaye kwimeko enjalo, kuyimfuneko ukuba sicingisise malunga nokuba yintoni kwaye sijonge izisombululo kunye neendlela ezintsha zokwenza izinto ezisenza sizive ngcono ngathi.
Ubuntu iseti yeempawu ezizuzwe njengelifa kunye neseti yamava obuqu akwenze ukuba unguye namhlanje. Kwinkalo yeengqondo, ubuntu benziwa liqela leemvakalelo, ukuqonda kunye nezenzo ezenza indlela yokuziphatha komntu.
Ubuntu yindlela oziva ngayo ngezinto kunye nendlela onxibelelana ngayo nabanye. Ubuntu liqela leenkqubo ezisebenzisanayo kwaye ziya kukunceda ubone umhlaba ngandlela thile. Nangona kunokwenzeka ukuba uqonde ukuba bunjani ubuntu ngezi mpawu zichaziweyo, inyani kukuba iingcali azivumelani kwinkcazo ngamxhelo mnye kuba ibandakanya iinkalo ezininzi zobomi bomntu.
Nangona kungekho ngcaciso ngamxhelo mnyeInto eqinisekileyo kukuba zonke iinkcazo zinento enye efanayo: kukho iphethini ethile kuyo yonke into ekhokelela abantu ukuba baziphathe ngokufanayo kwiimeko ezifanayo. Nangona zininzi izinto eziguquguqukayo kuba umntu ngamnye wahlukile, imeko inokufana nayo.
Umahluko phakathi komlinganiswa nobushushu
Nje ukuba sifikelele kweli nqanaba, siyakuqonda ngcono ukuba yintoni ubunjani kunye nobushushu, ke uya kuyiqonda nangakumbi. Kuqhelekile ukuba kuthiwe isidalwa esiphilayo ngasinye, isilwanyana ngasinye, isinambuzane okanye umntu unesimilo sakhe, okanye ukusibeka ngokubanzi, iimpawu zaso ezithile. Yintoni egqithisile, Kwincoko yemihla ngemihla, abantu bahlala bedibanisa amagama 'umlinganiswa' kunye 'nobushushu' nangona, enyanisweni, awafani, njengoko besesitshilo ngasentla.
Ngokusisiseko, ubushushu yinto enxulumene nobukhulu bomntu. Yindibaniselwano yazo zonke iimvakalelo, utyekelo kunye neempembelelo abantu abangakwaziyo ukuzitshintsha okanye bazisuse kuba zendele kubume babo bendalo nobomzimba. Ubushushu, ke ngoko, inxulumene ngokusondeleyo nobume bezilwanyana bomntu.
Umntu, kwelinye icala, nangona ungenako ukwahlulwa kubushushu, umele ubukrelekrele, ukwazi kunye nokuzithandela komntu. Isimilo somntu sisiphumo somzamo wakhe wokuguqula, ngokudibanisa okanye ngokuthabatha, imiba ethile yesimo sakhe sangaphakathi ukusetyenziswa kwamandla akho okuqonda kunye neemvakalelo kunye nokusetyenziswa kwamandla akho okuthanda.
Isimilo kukuziphatha komntu owaziyo okwenzayo kunye nalapho aya khona, ngelixa ubushushu bumele imo yendalo yakhe, utyekelo oluphantsi komphezulu wokuqonda kwakhe. Umntu unjalo, ngokuthetha, ukuhlanganiswa kwazo zonke iimpawu ezithile zobume bomntu ezoyisiweyo zaza zalawulwa.
Ngaba inokutshintshwa?
Njengoko besesitshilo, phantse akunakwenzeka ukutshintsha ubushushu, kuba wonke umntu ozelwe emhlabeni ufumene ubushushu obuchazwe kwangaphambili. Kodwa njengoko isimilo senziwa kukuthanda utyekelo lomntu oqiqayo kwaye abonakalise kwaye ofuna ukuziqinisekisa ngokuphucula okanye ukonakalisa ilifa azalwe nalo, oku kubangela isimo sengqondo, indlela yokubonakalisa ehlala iphikisana ngokuthe ngqo nomoya wobuntu.
Yile nto siyithethayo ngohlobo. Uhlobo lomntu, ngokuthetha, 'luhlobo' olutsha lobushushu bakhe, uhlobo olunombala, olulungisiweyo kwaye lujolise kwinjongo ethile, efanelekileyo. Kufana nomkhwa ofunyenwe ngabom kwaye iba yindalo yesibini. Umntu akayona into ekhoyo ekuzalweni, yenziwe ngokuthe ngcembe, ngaphezu kweminyaka. Ungayibona le nto ebantwaneni: banesimo sengqondo kodwa abanabalinganiswa okwangoku.
Njengoko sele ubonile, ubuntu, ubume kunye nomlinganiswa zizigama ezahlukileyo kodwa zenza iyunithi enye. Umahluko onawo unexabiso elikhulu kwaye ke unokuyiqonda ngcono indlela oziphethe ngayo. Nje ukuba uyiqonde indlela oziphethe ngayo, kuya kuba lula ukuyiguqula kwimeko apho ufuna ukuyenza khona ukuze uzive ngcono ngobomi onabo.