Ngaba uyafuna ukuzilawula? Akululanga, kwaye ngumnqweno ongafumanekiyo kubo bonke abantu. Nangona kunjalo, lusukelo olunokuba nomvuzo omkhulu kwabanye abantu.
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zokukunceda ube ngumphathi wakho.
1) Fumana into oyithandayo.
Iya kuba igqibelele ukuba unakho fumana uthando lwakho kwaye ulubeke kwinkonzo yabanye abantu. Fumana into olunge ngayo kwaye yongeza ixabiso kwabanye.
2) Gxila kwi "kutheni" yakho
Cinga, kutheni ufuna ukuzilawula. Kuya kufuneka ube unesizathu esinyanzelayo, esinentsingiselo, nesakho ukunceda unyamezele xa kufika amaxesha anzima.
Ngolwazi oluthe kratya ekufumaneni ukuba kutheni, jonga le ntetho yeTED kaSimon Sinek.
3) Yiba yinto eyoyikekayo umphathi wakho wexesha.
Kubalulekile ukuba ucwangcise ukuba uza kulisebenzisa njani ixesha lakho ngokufanelekileyo. Kubalulekile ukuba iintsuku zihambe kwaye ishishini lakho liqhubekeke, endaweni yokuba ubanjiswe "kukukhubazeka ngohlalutyo" olungenamveliso.
Indlela elula kakhulu yokuqalisa ukuphucula izakhono zakho zolawulo lwexesha kukuchitha imizuzu embalwa ubusuku ngabunye ubhala ishedyuli yokuzilungiselela yosuku olulandelayo. Oku kunokukunceda uhlale umkhondo kwiinjongo zakho kwaye unciphise ixesha elichithwe kwimisebenzi engabalulekanga.
4) Lungiselela ukuthatha inyathelo.
Uninzi lwabantu lujongele phantsi isenzo esifunekayo ukuze baphumelele kwishishini labo. Ukuba uzimisele ukuba ngumphathi wakho, lungiselela ukuthatha inyathelo kwiinjongo zakho (yenza isigqibo kwaye uthathe isenzo).
Kuya kufuneka wenze xa usoyika, xa udiniwe, xa uziva ukhathazekile naxa uzithandabuza.
Unokuba nemibono emangalisayo, kodwa ukuba awuyithathi inyathelo, awuyi kufezekisa amaphupha akho.
5) Yiba nenkcubeko yezemali.
Ukuze ube ngumphathi wakho, kubalulekile ukuba ube nokuqonda kakuhle kwezemali. Ukuqonda imeko yezemali yeshishini lakho kunokukunceda wenze izigqibo zeshishini ezifanelekileyo. Yintoni egqithisile, Ukulandelela i-accounting yakho kuya kukunceda ubone apho unganciphisa khona iindleko, ukuba ujolise phi kwimizamo yakho kwaye zeziphi iinkonzo zakho ezizezona zinenzuzo enkulu.
6) Ukuphuhlisa ingqondo yempumelelo.
Uya kufuneka uphume kwindawo yakho yokuthuthuzela ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Kuya kufuneka ufunde ukwenza ngaphandle koloyiko lwakho, funda ukunyamezela xa usokola, kwaye ucinga okukhulu.
Kuya kufuneka ufunde ukumelana nokuzibekela amangomso kwaye wenze izinto ezikoyikisayo. Ukuphuhlisa imeko yengqondo yempumelelo kunokuthatha ixesha elininzi kunye nomzamo, kodwa kunokuliphucula kakhulu ishishini lakho.
7) Yakha ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nabathengi bakho kunye namaqabane.
Kubalulekile ukuba ujonge ekukhonzeni abanye kunye nokwakha ubudlelwane kunye nabathengi bakho kunye namaqabane. Ukuhambisa ixabiso elikhulu ngenkonzo ebalaseleyo yabathengi kuya kukunceda wakhe ishishini lakho.
Ukuphumelela kwakho kobu bomi kuxhomekeke ikakhulu kubudlelwane bakho nabanye. Ukuba obu budlelwane buqinisekile, indlela yakho kunye nokwenza kuya kuphucula ngokubonakalayo. Fuente