Ukuzibekela amangomso izinto yinto ekufuneka sijongane nayo xa sijongene nomsebenzi othile asiziva sithanda ukuyenza. Ukusukela ekubeni umntu ekho, ulibazisile okanye uyiphepha imisebenzi ekufuneka eyenzile.
Ngamaxesha ethu okuvelisa, xa singalibazisi, siziva sanelisekile kwaye siphumelele. Namhlanje Siza kuthetha ngendlela yokwenza la mathuba emveliso abe yinxalenye yesiqhelo.
Injongo yesi sikhokelo kukufumanisa ukuba yintoni ebangela ukulibaziseka, sabelane ngeengcebiso eziqinisekisiweyo ezinokusetyenziselwa ukoyisa ukuzibekel 'amangomso, kwaye sigubungele izicwangciso eziluncedo ezakwenza kube lula ukuthatha amanyathelo.
Unokucofa kwikhonkco elingezantsi ukuze utsibe icandelo elithile okanye skrolela ezantsi ukuze ufunde yonke into.
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Masiqale ngokuqonda okusisiseko esiza kukugubungela kweli nqaku.
Isayensi emva kokuzibekel 'amangomso
Yintoni ukubambezeleka?
Abantu bebekhe bazilazila kangangeenkulungwane. Ingxaki ayinasiphelo, enyanisweni, izithandi zobulumko zamaGrike ezifana noSocrates noAristotle bakhulisa igama lokuchaza olu hlobo lokuziphatha: akrasia.
I-Akrasia Yimeko yokwenza ngokuchasene nomgwebo wakho ongcono. Kuxa usenza into enye nangona usazi ukuba kufuneka wenze enye into. Xa iguqulelwe ngokukhululekileyo, unokuthi i-akrasia kukuzilazila okanye ukungakwazi ukuzeyisa.
Nantsi inkcazo yale mihla:
Ukuzibekela amangomso isenzo sokulibazisa okanye ukuhlehlisa umsebenzi okanye iseti yemisebenzi. Ke ngoko, ukuba ubhekisa kuyo njengokuzibekel 'amangomso okanye ii-akrasia okanye enye into, ngamandla anokuthintela ukuba uqhubeke nale nto uzimisele ukuyenza.
Ngaphambi kokuba singene kuyo nayiphi na le nto ngokunzulu, masime kancinci umzuzwana.
Veki nganye, ndibelana ngeengcebiso zokuziphucula ngokwamanani kuphando lwenzululwazi oluqinisekisiweyo.
Ukuba ufuna ukuhlala unolwazi, ngenisa nje idilesi ye-imeyile apha.
Kutheni le nto simisa imisebenzi?
Kutheni silibazisa? Kwenzeka ntoni kwingqondo okusenza ukuba siphephe izinto esaziyo ukuba masenze?
Eli lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuzisa isayensi encinci. Uphando kwizengqondo zokusebenza luye lwabonisa into ebizwa ngokuba «ukungangqinelani okwethutyana«, esinceda ukucacisa ukuba kutheni ukubambezeleka kutshabalalisa iinjongo zethu ezilungileyo. Ukungahambelani kwexesha kubhekisa kutyekelo lobuchopho bomntu lokufuna umvuzo kwangoko ngokuhlawula umvuzo wexesha elizayo.
Eyona ndlela yokuqonda oku kukucinga ukuba unezibini ezithi 'Ndingu: isiqu sakho sangoku kunye nekamva lakho. Ngokuzibekela iinjongo, njengokunciphisa umzimba, ukubhala incwadi, okanye ukufunda ulwimi, wenza izicwangciso ngekamva lakho. Ucinga ukuba ufuna ukuba ubomi bakho bube njani kwixa elizayo. Abaphandi bafumanise ukuba xa ucinga ngekamva lakho, kulula kakhulu kwingqondo yakho ukubona ixabiso ekuthatheni amanyathelo ngezibonelelo zexesha elide. Ixesha elizayo lokuzixabisa lixabisa umvuzo wexesha elide.
Inkomfa ye-TED apho umlo ophakathi kwaba babini 'I's ucacisiwe.
Nangona kunjalo, Ngelixa ikamva lomntu onokuzibekela iinjongo, kuphela kwesiqu sangoku esinokuthatha inyathelo. Xa kufika ixesha lokwenza isigqibo, uya kuba kumzuzu wangoku, kwaye ingqondo yakho icinga malunga nawe wangoku. Abaphandi bafumanise ukuba okwangoku ndikuthanda kakhulu ukoneliseka kwangoko, hayi umvuzo wexesha elide.
Ngoko ke, Ukuzimela okwangoku kunye neKamva eliQhelekileyo lihlala liphikisana. Ixesha elizayo lifuna ukubonakala, kodwa okwangoku ndifuna idonut.
Kwangokunjalo, uninzi lwabantu abancinci luyazi ukuba ukongela umhlala-phantsi kwiminyaka engama-20 ukuya kwengama-30 kubalulekile, kodwa Kulula kakhulu okwangoku ukuba ndithenge izihlangu ezintsha kunokonga umhlala-phantsi.
Iziphumo zexesha elide kunye nemivuzo ayinakuthenjelwa ekukhuthazeni isiqu sakho sangoku. Endaweni yoko, kufuneka fumana indlela yokuhambisa umvuzo kunye nezohlwayo kwixesha elizayo. Kuya kufuneka wenze iziphumo ezizayo zibe ziziphumo ezikhoyo.
II. Ungayeka njani ukuzilazila
Kukho iindlela ngeendlela esinokuzisebenzisa ukunqanda ukuzilazila. Okulandelayo, ndiza kucacisa kwaye ndicacise umxholo ngamnye.
Inketho 1: Yenza imbuyekezo ngokuthatha inyathelo ngokukhawuleza
Ukuba kunokufunyanwa indlela yokwenza ukuba izibonelelo zokhetho lwexesha elide zikhawuleze, emva koko kuya kuba lula ukunqanda ukuhlehlisa. Enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokuzisa umvuzo wexesha elizayo ngalo mzuzu iqhinga elaziwa njenge "Ukuhlelwa kwesihendo".
Ukwahlulahlula izilingo ngumbono ovele kuphando oluqhutywa luqoqosho lokuziphatha Umntu onobisi katy kwiYunivesithi yasePennsylvania.
Ifomathi esisiseko yile: Yenza nje [into oyithandayo] ngelixa usenza [INTO uyalibazisa].
Nazi ezinye Imizekelo eqhelekileyo yokubeka isilingo ngokwamaqela:
- Mamela iincwadi zomsindo okanye iipodcast ozithandayo ngelixa usenza umthambo.
- Bukela umboniso wakho owuthandayo ngelixa u-ayina okanye usenza umsebenzi wasekhaya.
- Yitya kwindawo yokutyela oyithandayo ngelixa unentlanganiso yakho yenyanga kunye nomlingane onzima.
Inketho 2: Yenza iziphumo zokuhlehlisa ngokukhawuleza
Zininzi iindlela zokunyanzela iindleko zokuhlehlisa ukuba zihlawulwe kwakamsinya kunangoku. Umzekelo, ukuba uyeka ukwenza umthambo, impilo yakho ayibi nkenenkene kwangoko. Iindleko zokuzibekel 'amangomso iba buhlungu emva kweeveki neenyanga zokuziphatha kobuvila. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uyazibophelela kuqeqesho nomhlobo nge-7 kusasa ngoMvulo, iindleko zokutsiba uqeqesho lwakho zikhawuleza ngakumbi. Ukuphoswa kokuzilolonga kuya kukwenza uzive ngathi usisidenge.
Enye inketho ukubheja nelungu losapho oya kulilolonga iintsuku ezi-3 ngeveki. Ukuba awuthobeli kuya kufuneka umnike i-euro ezingama-30.
Inketho 3: Yila amanyathelo akho exesha elizayo
Esinye sezixhobo esizithandayo zoochwephesha bengqondo ukoyisa ukuzibekela amangomso kuthiwa "Indlela yokuzibophelela". Iindlela zokwenza isivumelwano zinokukunceda uyeke ukuzibekel 'amangomso ngokuyila izinto oza kuzenza kwixesha elizayo.
Ngokomzekelo, ukutya kungalawulwa ngokuthenga ukutya kwiiphakheji ezizodwa kunokukuthenga ngobukhulu obukhulu. Unokuyeka ukuchitha ixesha kwifowuni ngokususa ii -apps zosasazo zasekuhlaleni.
Unokwakha ingxowa-mali yokonga ngokungxamisekileyo ngokwenza ugqithiso oluzenzekelayo.kwiakhawunti yakho yokonga inyanga nenyanga.
Le yimizekelo yeendlela zokuzibandakanya ezinceda ukunciphisa amathuba okuzibekela amangomso izinto.
Inketho 4: yenza ukuba umsebenzi ubenokufezekiseka
Ukungqubana okubangelwa kukuzibekel 'amangomso kugxile ekuqaliseni isimilo. Nje ukuba uqale, kubuhlungu ukuhlala usebenze kuyo. Esi sizathu esihle sokunciphisa imikhwa yakho kuba ukuba imikhwa yakho mincinci kwaye kulula ukuba uyiqale, uya kuba mancinci amathuba okuzibekel 'amangomso.
Ngokomzekelo, masibone imveliso ephawulekayo yombhali odumileyo U-Anthony Trollope. Wapapasha iinoveli ezingama-47, imisebenzi eyi-18 engeyonyani, amabali amafutshane ali-12, imidlalo emi-2, kunye nokuhanjiswa okukhulu kwamanqaku kunye neeleta. Njengokuba isenzile? Endaweni yokulinganisa inkqubela yakhe esekwe ekugqibeni izahluko okanye iincwadi, uTrollope walinganisa inkqubela phambili yakhe kwimizuzu eli-15 yokunyuka. Uzibekele usukelo lwamagama angama-250 rhoqo kwimizuzu eli-15 kwaye uqhubeke nepatheni iiyure ezintathu suku ngalunye. Le ndlela yamvumela ukuba onwabele imvakalelo yolwaneliseko kunye nokufezekisa yonke imizuzu eli-15 ngelixa wayesenza umsebenzi omkhulu wokubhala incwadi.
Enye yeendlela zam endizithandayo zokuqalisa indlela ethile yokuziphatha kukusebenzisa Umgaqo weMizuzu emi-2ithini: "Xa uqala umkhwa omtsha, kufuneka uthathe imizuzu engaphantsi kwemibini ukuyenza". Umbono kukwenza kube lula ngokusemandleni ukuqala, emva koko unokwandisa umkhwa ngakumbi. Nje ukuba uqale ukwenza into, kulula ukuba uyenze. Umgaqo weMizuzu emi-2 woyisa ukuhlehlisa kunye nobuvila. Oku kwenza ukuba kube lula ukuqala ukuthatha imilinganiselo.
III. Ungaguquguquki: Ungawukhaba njani umkhwa wokuzibekel 'amangomso?
Ngokuqinisekileyo, sigubungele iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuloba ukuhlehlisa kubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla. Ngoku, Makhe sijonge ezinye zeendlela zokwenza imveliso ibe sisiqhelo sexesha elide kwaye kuthintele ukuhlehliswa kokuvela kwakhona ebomini bethu.
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Esinye sezizathu zokuba kube lula ukubambezeleka kwakhona emva kwethutyana kungenxa yokuba Asinayo inkqubo ecacileyo yokugqiba ukuba yintoni ebalulekileyo kwaye yintoni ekufuneka sisebenze kuyo kuqala.
Enye yeenkqubo ezilungileyo zokuvelisa endikhe ndayibona yenye yezona zilula. Ithiyiwe "Indlela kaLee Ivy" kwaye inamanyathelo amahlanu:
- Ekupheleni kosuku ngalunye lomsebenzi, bhala phantsi izinto ezintandathu ezibaluleke kakhulu ekufuneka uzenze kusasa. Musa ukubhala ngaphezulu kwemisebenzi emithandathu.
- Beka kuqala loo misebenzi mithandathu.
- Xa kufika kusasa, gxila kuphela kumsebenzi wokuqala.
- Gcwalisa uluhlu ngendlela efanayo. Ekupheleni kosuku, yenza uluhlu olutsha lwemisebenzi emithandathu yosuku olulandelayo.
- Phinda le nkqubo yonke imihla yeshishini.
Nantsi into eyenza isebenze kakuhle:
Kulula ngokwaneleyo ukuba ungene emsebenzini. Ukugxekwa okuphambili kweendlela ezinje ngale kukuba zibaluleke kakhulu. Abayithathi ingqalelo zonke iinkathazo kunye nemiba yobomi. Kuthekani ukuba kuvela imeko kaxakeka? Ewe iimeko ezingxamisekileyo kunye neziphazamiso ezingalindelekanga ziya kuvela. Ungabahoyi, buyela kuluhlu lwakho lwemisebenzi ephambili ngokukhawuleza. Sebenzisa imithetho elula ukukhokela indlela yokuziphatha enzima.
Kuyakunyanzela ukuba uthathe izigqibo ezinzima. Andiqondi ukuba akukho nto inomlingo malunga nokumisela imisebenzi emithandathu ebalulekileyo. Inokuba yimisebenzi nje emihlanu ngosuku. Nangona kunjalo, ndiyakholelwa ukuba kukho into ethile yomlingo malunga nokubeka umda kuwe. Kubonakala kum ukuba eyona nto uyenzayo xa unemibono emininzi (okanye xa uxakekile yiyo yonke into oyenzayo) kukusika izimvo zakho kwaye usike nantoni na engeyomfuneko. Izithintelo zinokukwenza ngcono. Indlela kaLee iyafana ne- UWarren Buffett Umgaqo 25-5 , ekunyanzela ukuba ugxile kwimisebenzi emihlanu ebalulekileyo kwaye ungayihoyi yonke enye into.
Ukuqala ukungqubana kuyapheliswa. Owona mqobo mkhulu kwimisebenzi emininzi kukuqalisa. (Ukuphuma esofeni kunokuba nzima, kodwa xa sele uqalile ukusebenza kulula kakhulu ukugqiba ukuzilolonga kwakho.)
Ifuna ukugxila kumsebenzi omnye. Uluntu lwanamhlanje luthanda ukwenza imisebenzi emininzi. Intsomi yokwenza imisebenzi emininzi kukuba ukuxakeka kuyafana nokuba ngcono. Ngokuchasene nenyaniso. Ukuba nezinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka kukhokelela kumsebenzi ongcono. Jonga nasiphi na isincutshe kuso nasiphi na isifundo (iimbaleki, amagcisa, izazinzulu, ootitshala), kwaye uya kufumanisa uphawu olufanayo kuzo zonke: kugxilwe. Isizathu silula. Awunakulunga emsebenzini ukuba uhlala wahlula ixesha lakho ngeendlela ezilishumi ezahlukeneyo. Ukulawula kufuna ukugxila kunye nokuhambelana.
Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela oyisebenzisayo, eyona nto ilandelayo yile ilandelayo: yenza ezona zinto zibalulekileyo kuqala yonke imihla Kwaye vumela ukunyuka komsebenzi wokuqala kukuthwalele olandelayo.
Ndiyathemba ukuba usifumene esi sikhokelo sifutshane sokuhlehlisa siluncedo.