Loluphi olona phawu lubalulekileyo onqwenela ukukhulisa umntwana wakho? Ukuba ufana nabazali abaninzi, ubukrelekrele buya kuba phezulu kuluhlu lwakho.
Sonke sifuna abantwana abakrelekrele, yiyo loo nto sizama ukukhetha isikolo esifanelekileyo kwaye sizama ukwenza ootitshala bahlangabezane nolindelo lwethu, kodwa khumbula: njengotata okanye umama, unamandla ukuphucula ukufunda kwabantwana bakho ngokwenza iincwadi zibe yinxalenye yobomi babo:
Ukuba uyithandile le vidiyo, yabelana ngayo nabahlobo bakho!
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Ngaba uqhelene nezibonelelo ezithile zentombi yakho / okanye yokufunda? Nazi ezinye zezibonelelo ezihambelana nokufundela abantwana abancinci:
1) Ukugqwesa kakhulu kwezemfundo.
2) Izakhono zonxibelelwano ezingcono.
3) Izakhono ezingcono kwintetho yabo ebhaliweyo: upelo olungcono kunye nokunikwa okungcono kwezimvo.
4) Ukuboniswa kwamava amatsha kunye neendawo zokujonga.
5) Khuthaza ukucinga okukhulu, ukugxila, kunye nokuziphatha.
6) Abantwana bafunda ukukhululeka.
9) Ulwazi olukhulu lwehlabathi elibangqongileyo.
Njengomzali, luxanduva lwakho ukukhuthaza imeko-bume ekhayeni lakho ekhuthaza ukufunda. Ayisiyokunyanzela umntwana ukuba afunde kodwa inyanzelise kancinci, ukuba ijonge ezinye iindlela ezingazithandiyo ezincwadini.
Ungaya kwithala leencwadi elikufutshane nekhaya lakho nomntwana wakho kwaye akhethe incwadi ayithandayo. Ukutyelela ivenkile yeencwadi nabantwana bakho ikwayindlela yokukhuthaza umdla wokufunda kuzo.
Incwadi, njengohambo, iqala ngenkxalabo kwaye iphele nge-melancholy.