Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ekubeni ukuzama nje ukuba ngabantu abangcono, abahlobo abangcono, abazali abangcono… kwanele. Baqala usuku bezama ukwenza okusemandleni abo kunye notshintsho lokuqala baphela bephulukana nedabi kwaye babuyela kwimikhwa yabo yakudala.
Banokuphumelela kwaye banosuku olugqibeleleyo. Nangona kunjalo, ngosuku olulandelayo babuya nemikhuba yabo emibi, ukuzingca, iingqondo zabo ...
El phuhliso lwabantu luhlanga olude kwaye kuphela abo bafuna ngokwenene (abafuna) utshintsho kwaye bangaguquki baya kuphumelela. Baninzi abantu abafuna ukutshintsha kodwa bambalwa abaphumelelayo.
Kutheni le nto abantu besilela kuphuhliso lwabo lobuqu?
Abantu abaphumeleleyo kumashishini abo babuya emakhaya bekhathazekile, bavuka yonke imihla bekwimeko embi, kwaye iintsuku zabo zingumzabalazo oqhubekayo. Ukukhula komntu kufuna ukulungiswa kunye neengcebiso.
Abanye bakhetha ukuzinceda. Ngabo bazazi ngcono kwaye bazi eyona ilungileyo kubo kwaye bajikela ezincwadini befuna ifomula yomlingo eya kubenza boyise iingxaki zabo. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukukhetha iincwadi ezifanelekileyo.
Ukukhula komntu yinto entsonkothileyo: Kuyimfuneko ukuba ube nolwazi olufanelekileyo, kunye nolwazi oluvunyiweyo ziingcali ezibalaseleyo ebaleni.
Nangona kunjalo, uninzi luzitika kolu gqatso lomgama omde ngendlela edikidiki. Abayibeki yonke inyama kwi-grill. Umnqweno wabo wokutshintsha mkhulu kodwa ngokuhamba kweentsuku badliwe ziingxaki zemihla ngemihla. Ekugqibeleni bayaphela bayancama kwaye baba yinxalenye yomhlambi.
Ndinomntu endimaziyo onengxaki. Ndamnika iingcebiso kodwa andaziva ndizimamele. Wayesoloko ekhankanya iingxaki zakhe izihlandlo ezininzi. Yinto eqhelekileyo. Abantu abamameli kwaye ababonakalisi. Akangqengqeli ebhedini imizuzu eli-10 ukuze aziqambele aze afumane izisombululo kwiingxaki zakhe. Isikhalazo asikhokeleli kwinto. Kukukhangela okusebenzayo kwezisombululo kuphela okunokukunika ukukhanya ebumnyameni.
Iingxaki ziyinxalenye yobomi kwaye sinezinto ezimbini onokukhetha kuzo: Nokuba siyabanjwa kubo bekhalaza kwaye belila okanye samkela isimo sengqondo esihle kwaye sizame ukubajika. Ukuba sihlala sicingana neengxaki zethu imihla ngemihla, siya kube sichitha ixesha esinokulinikela kwimisebenzi emnandi ngakumbi.
Iingxaki ziza zidlule. Into esixhalabisayo namhlanje iyakulibala kwaye kwiminyaka eli-10 asisayi kuze siyikhumbule. Masibeke yonke imizamo yethu ukuzama ukuphucula izimo zethu zengqondo kwaye singachithi xesha kwiingxaki ezizisombululo zazo, kwiimeko ezininzi, zingaxhomekekanga kuthi. Singalufuna uncedo lwezonyango xa sibona iingxaki ezinjalo zisibamba. Oogqirha bakhona ngaphezulu kokunyanga imikhuhlane. Nasiphi na isisombululo kulungile ukuzama ukuphuma kwingxaki. Into embi kukuhlala kuyo imihla ngemihla.
Uphuhliso lomntu lithuba lokufumana okona kulungileyo kuwe kodwa kufuneka uyazi ukuba ngumdyarho womgama omde. Utshintsho lwenzeka kancinci kancinci kwaye zisisiphumo sonyamezelo kunye nomzamo.
Ufuna ukulungiswa kunye nenkuthazo ukuze ube ngulo mntu ufuna ukuba nguye. Kusezandleni zakho.
Ndikushiya ngesicatshulwa nevidiyo yabo ndiyithandayo:
"Akukho mntu utshintshayo xa engaziva isidingo."