Ukukhula ngokomoya ngokubandezeleka

UViktor Frankl wabandezeleka kakhulu ebomini bakhe. Wayengumseki we "logotherapy," ukukhangela intsingiselo kunye injongo yobomi loo nto yahlukile kwaye ithe ngqo kumntu ngamnye, ngakumbi phakathi kobunzima.

UViktor Frankl, ugqirha onobubele waseViennese kunye nesazi sengqondo, wayenjalo ibanjwe ngamanazi ngo-1942 ngokuba ngumYuda. Utshatile nentombazana entle, wayenomsebenzi, ii-asethi kunye nengeniso. Kwakufuneka ayincame yonke loo nto. Olu luhlobo lwelahleko eyothusayo enokuguqula abantu babe ngabantu abakhulu.

Emva kokubanjwa kwakhe, bamkhwelisa kuloliwe owayepakile nabantu abali-1500 XNUMX. Uhambo oluthathe iintsuku ezininzi nobusuku bazo. Indawo ababesiya kuyo yayiyinkampu yoxinaniso enkulu, eneenqaba zokubukela nezirhangqwe lucingo oluhlabayo. Ibiyi IAuschwitz.

Amabanjwa amatsha kwafuneka ayishiye yonke impahla yawo kuloliwe. UFrankl, emathidala ukuncama yonke into, wagcina umbhalo-ngqangi oxabisekileyo wencwadi yakhe entsha yonyango lwe-logotherapy. Wathunyelwa ecaleni ukuba ajoyine iqela lamabanjwa asempilweni. Iipesenti ezingama-90 eziseleyo zathunyelwa kwenye indawo, ngqo ukufa.

Iqela likaFrankl kwafuneka libaleke linqumle ibala liye kwisikhululo sokucoca apho bayalelwa ukuba basuse iiwotshi zabo kunye nobucwebe. Ukugcina ubomi bakhe, ekugqibeleni uFrankl wancama umbhalo wakhe oxabisekileyo. Amagumbi egesi, indawo yokutshisa izidumbu, kunye nokubulawa yayiyinyani yakhe entsha.

UFrankl uchaza kwincwadi yakhe "Ukufuna Komntu Ngentsingiselo" indlela awayalela ngayo amajoni ukuba akhulule zonke iimpahla zawo. Iinwele zabo zomzimba wonke zazichetyiwe, kubandakanya amashiya. Emva kweshawa emfutshane babenamanani abhaliweyo ezingalweni zabo, kangangokuba baphulukana namagama abo. UFrankl wakwazi ukugcina iiglasi zakhe kunye nezihlangu, kodwa yonke enye into yatshatyalaliswa.

Yonke imisebenzi yosapho kunye neenjongo ebomini ziye zatshitshiswa ngokumasikizi. Kuncinci okwaseleyo kubuntu, kwesidima. Ndiyathemba ukuba ayikho into enje eyenzekayo kwakhona.

UViktor ngokuphandle

Nangona kunjalo, namhlanje kukho abantu abadibana iimeko ezifanayonangona kungenjalo phantsi koorhulumente abacinezelayo.

Khawufane ucinge, umzekelo, sihlala ngoxolo endaweni kwaye ngesiquphe sityelelwa yindlala, inyikima, itsunami, inkanyamba, umkhukula okanye enye intlekele yendalo.

Okanye khawufane ucinge xa ​​uxelelwa ukuba unesifo esisongela ubomi, esikhubazayo, kunye nesigulo esifana nesakho Umhlaza. Kuya kufuneka uye esibhedlele ukuze wenze utyando, unyango ngemitha, okanye unyango ngamayeza. Banokukunika ilokhwe yasesibhedlele, bakubeke isacholo seplastikhi esihlahleni kunye negama lakho kunye nenombolo yerekhodi yezonyango.

Ungaphulukana nazo zonke iinwele zakho ngenxa yonyango, kubandakanya amashiya akho. Uya kuva iintlungu, isicaphucaphu, kunye nolunye uvakalelo olungathandekiyo emzimbeni.

Ngaphandle kokubi kwezi meko, zezi meko ezizisa amava otshintsho okanye ukukhula ngokomoya kwabanye abantu. Ngoba?

Uhluthwe yonke into esiyithandayo sinxibelelana neziqu zethu eziyinyani, sinokuthi, ngomphefumlo wethu. Sishiyeke into eyinyani kwaye inyulu. Sihlala kumzuzu wangoku, sinokwazi: ngovakalelo lomzimba, ngemvakalelo, nangamandla okucinga, ukucinga kunye nokuyila. Olo hlobo lokuqonda ngokomoya lunokuba ngumthombo wokuzola, isibindi, inkuthazo kunye nethemba.

UFrankl uthi ngokumangalisayo amanye amadoda eshaweni baqhula bahleka. Uhluthwe yonke into, umoya womntu usenokuqhubeka ukhanya ngamandla amakhulu kunye nonyamezelo. Ukuhleka kuhlala kubalulekile kwaye kukho ikhonkco phakathi kwabangonwabanga.

Kwakhona, ngobo busuku bokuqala enkampini, UFrankl wenza isigqibo esiqinisekileyo nesenziwe ngabom sokuba angazibulali. Wakhetha ubomi. Ukuphendula loo mbuzo uphambili, obuzwe nguShakespeare's Hamlet, uFrankl wagqiba kwelokuba "abe."

Emva kwexesha, xa lonke ithemba lokuhlangana kwakhona liphelile, uFrankl wayenombono womfazi wakhe (owayesoyika, wayesele efile). Kulapho ke wayeqinisekile ukuba, kubo bonke abantu, Uthando yeyona njongo yokugqibela kunye neyona iphambili esinokuyinqwenela.

Uthando oluphindayo phakathi kwesi sibini lwalwandisile kuye lwaba luthando lwehlabathi kunye noluntu kunye nendalo. Ngokusuka kumava obuqu athi:

"Ndiyayiqonda indlela indoda engenanto emhlabeni enokukwazi ngayo ukonwaba." (Ukufuna Komntu Injongo)

UFrankl wasinda emfazweni kwaye waphila iminyaka engama-50 eneziqhamo, esweleka eneminyaka engama-92 ngoSeptemba 1997.