Ukumamela ngokukuko kubalulekile kunxibelelwano oluhle phakathi kwabantu ababini. Ukumamela lelona candelo libalulekileyo kwizakhono zonxibelelwano. Ukumamela ayisiyonto yenzeka nje, Ukumamela yinkqubo esebenzayo apho kwenziwa isigqibo esifanelekileyo sokumamela kunye nokuqonda imiyalezo yesithethi.
Ukumamela ngokukuko kukwangomonde, abaphulaphuli akufuneki baphazamise ngemibuzo okanye ngezimvo. Ukumamela ngokukuko kubandakanya ukunika omnye umntu ixesha lokuphonononga iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo zakhe. Kufuneka banikwe ixesha eloneleyo loko.
Ukumamela sisakhono sonxibelelwano kuba sichitha i-70-80% yeeyure zethu zokuvuka kwindlela ethile yokunxibelelana… nangona uninzi lwethu lungabaphulaphuli abahluphekileyo nabangasebenzi kakuhle… abantu abaninzi abalunganga kwaye balungile ke kulungile ukusebenza ukumamela ngokusebenzayo oku kunokuphucula kwaye ngoko ukuphucula unxibelelwano oluhle.
Izibonelelo zokuphulaphula
Ukumamela ngokukuko kunezibonelelo ezininzi ezibalulekileyo kunxibelelwano phakathi kwabantu kwaye kuyafuneka ukuyithathela ingqalelo ukuze wazi ukubaluleka komsebenzi wakho. Ezinye zezibonelelo zazo zezi:
- Yakha ukuthembana phakathi kwabantu. Iphucula ukunyaniseka kwaye abanye abantu bavule ngokwasemphefumlweni.
- Yandisa imbono yakho. Indlela obabuqonda ngayo ubomi ixhomekeke kwiingcinga zakho kunye nokumamela izimvo zabanye abantu ikuvumela ukuba ufunde ngakumbi ngendlela ozibona ngayo izinto.
- Phucula umonde. Ukuba ungumphulaphuli olungileyo, kungenxa yokuba uthathe ixesha kwaye wenza umzamo wokuba njalo. Umonde uyimfuneko ukuze ukwazi ukumamela ngononophelo ngaphandle kokugweba.
- Ikwenza ube novakalelo ngakumbi. Uya kuziva unxibelelana nabanye abantu kunye neemvakalelo zakho.
- Uya kuba nobuchule kunye nolwazi. Ngobuchule bokumamela ngcono uya kuba ngumntu onesakhono, uya kusebenza ngakumbi kwaye uya kuba nempumelelo kuyo nayiphi na indawo yobomi bakho.
- Ugcina ixesha nemali. Ukumamela ngokukuko akupheleli nje ekunciphiseni umngcipheko wokungaqondani kunye neempazamo ezinokuthi zonakalise, kukonga ixesha kunye nemali ngokunqanda ukuqala umsebenzi okanye iprojekthi kwakhona, ngenxa yokuba imiyalelo enikiweyo yatolikwa gwenxa.
- Inceda ekufumaneni nasekusombululeni iingxaki. Ngokumamela ngenkuthalo uya kuba nakho ukwazi ngqo ukuba abanye bacinga ntoni kwaye ke, uya kuba nakho ukwenza uphuculo kwimeko apho kungakho uhlobo lwempixano.
Ukuzivocavoca ukuphucula ukuphulaphula
Ukuphucula ukumamela kwakho ngokukuko, kuya kufuneka wenze umthambo kwaye uthathe neminye imiba ukuthathele ingqalelo.
- Shicilela into abakuxelela yona. Umzekelo: "Ufuna ukuba sakhe isikolo esitsha ngendlela yakudala?"
- Isiqinisekiso esifutshane somlomo. Umzekelo: "Ndiyalixabisa ixesha olithathileyo lokuthetha nam"
- Buza imibuzo evulekileyo. Umzekelo: “Ndiyayiqonda ukuba awonwabanga yimoto yakho entsha. Loluphi utshintsho esinokulenza kuyo? "
- Ukubuza imibuzo ethile. Umzekelo: "Bangaphi abasebenzi owabaqeshileyo kunyaka ophelileyo?"
- Ukukhankanya iimeko ezifanayo. Umzekelo: "Ndakwimeko efanayo emva kokuba inkampani endandiyenze ngaphambili yandenza ndangasafuneki."
- Shwankathela imibuzo. Umzekelo: Umgqatswa womsebenzi ushwankathela ukuqonda kwakhe umbuzo ongacacanga ngexesha lodliwanondlebe.
- Gcina abantu bethetha. Umzekelo: umququzeleli wentlanganiso ukhuthaza ilungu leqela elizolileyo ukuba labelane ngezimvo zalo ngeprojekthi.
- Shwankathela iincoko zeqela. umzekelo: umphathi oshwankathela oko bekutshiwo entlanganisweni aze ahlole nabanye ukuba ichanekile na.
- Mjonge kakuhle wanqwala intloko.
- Qaphela ulwimi olungathethiyo eyakho kunye nabanye.
Iingcebiso ngokuba ngumphulaphuli okhutheleyo kunye nokuphucula izakhono zokumamela ngokusebenzayo
Ezi ngcebiso zinokukunceda.
Jonga kwisithethi kwaye umjonge ngamehlo
Ukuthetha nomntu ngelixa uphazanyiswa zezinye izinto njengokujonga iscreen esikwiselfowuni kukungahloniphi umntu onxibelelana naye. Ukudibana kwamehlo kujongwa njengesithako esisisiseko sonxibelelwano olusebenzayo. Xa sithetha, sijongana emehlweni. Bajonge, nokuba abajongi kuwe. Iintloni, ukungaqiniseki, okanye ezinye iimvakalelo, kunye neetaboos zenkcubeko, inokuthintela ukudibana kwamehlo kwabanye abantu phantsi kweemeko ezithile.
Mamela kwaye ukhululeke
Nika isithethi ingqalelo yakho yonke kwaye uvume umyalezo. Qaphela ukuba unxibelelwano olungasebenzisi magama lunamandla kakhulu. Ukunikela ingqalelo:
- Mjonge lowo uthethayo
- Yiya kwisithethi
- Nika ingqalelo kwinto ethethwayo
Ziyeke iingcinga eziphazamisayo
Khusela ngengqondo iziphazamiso, ezinje ngomsebenzi ongasemva kunye nengxolo. Kwakhona, zama ukungagxili kwizimbo zesithethi okanye kwizimbo zentetho ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba lokuba zibe ziziphazamiso. Okokugqibela, sukuphazanyiswa ziingcinga zakho, iimvakalelo zakho, okanye ikhethe.
Gcina ingqondo evulekile
Mamela ngaphandle kokugweba omnye umntu okanye ukugxeka ngengqondo izinto abazithethayo kuwe. Ukuba le nto ayithethayo iyakothusa, qhubeka kwaye wothuke, kodwa ungazithethi kuwe, "Ewe, ibiyinto esisidenge. Ngokukhawuleza xa usenza izigqibo eziphazamisayo, uyekise ukusebenza kwakho njengomphulaphuli.
Mamela ngaphandle kokufikelela kwizigqibo kwaye ungaphazamisi ukugqiba izivakalisi zakho. Khumbula ukuba isithethi sisebenzisa ulwimi ukumela iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo ezingaphakathi kwengqondo yakhe. Awazi ukuba zeziphi ezo ngcinga kunye neemvakalelo, kwaye ekuphela kwendlela yokufumanisa kukuphulaphula.
Sukuyiphazamisa okanye uyinqumle into ethethwa sisithethi
Abantwana bafundiswa ukuba kukungabi nasimilo ukuphazamisa. Ngokuqinisekileyo okuchaseneyo kulandelwa kuninzi lweenkqubo zentetho kunye nemiboniso yokwenyani, apho ukungxola, ubundlongondlongo, kunye nokuziphatha ngokuthe ngqo kuyanyamezelwa, ukuba akukhuthazwa. Ukuphazamiseka kuthumela imiyalezo eyahlukeneyo:
- Ndibaluleke ngaphezu kwakho
- Into endiyithethayo inomdla ngakumbi.
- Andikhathali nokuba ucinga ntoni
- Andinaxesha lovo lwakho
Sonke siyacinga kwaye siyathetha ngamazinga ahlukeneyo. Ukuba ucinga ngokukhawuleza kwaye usisithethi esikhawulezayo, umthwalo ukuwe ukuba upholise isantya sakho. othetha kancinci kwaye onolwazi ngakumbi, okanye umntu onengxaki yokuziveza.
Buza imibuzo ukucacisa ukuba bathini abanye
Xa ungayiqondi into, ewe, kuya kufuneka ubuze isithethi ukuba sikuchazele. Kodwa endaweni yokuphazamisa, linda isithethi siyeke. Yitsho into efana nale: Buyela emva umzuzwana. Khange ndiyiqonde le uyithethayo nje… » Emva koko ungashwankathela into ayithethileyo ukuqinisekisa ukuba umqonde kakuhle kwaye umntu onxibelelana naye uyabona ukuba umamele le nto ayithethayo.