Zithini iimpawu zokungazithembi

Sonke sifuna ukuba nokuzithemba okuhle, kodwa ayisiyonto ilula kuye wonke umntu. Ukuzithemba sisiseko sobuntu bakhe nabani na, ke ngoko kubalulekile ukuba somelele kwaye sizinze ngamaxesha onke. Yakhelwe umbulelo kwimbono abanye abanayo ngathi kunye nendlela umntu azibona ngayo.

Ukuzithemba okuhle kuthetha ukuba ebomini umntu uziva ekhuselekile xa ejamelene nobunzima. Unokomelela kwaye, uziva wonwabile ngobomi obukhokelayo kwaye uzive ugcwele amaxesha amaninzi. Ukuba ayilunganga ngaso nasiphi na isizathu, iya kufumana indlela yokutshintsha okungalunganga ukufumana ulungelelwaniso lweemvakalelo kwakhona.

Ukungazithembi

Ewe kunjalo, kukho abantu abaziva bengakhuselekanga ngakumbi malunga nezinto ezenzeka kubo, abangazithembiyo kwaye ngokubanzi bakufumanisa kunzima ukonwabela ubomi bebodwa. Baxhomekeke kwabanye ukuba bazive belungile okanye bengalunganga ... Aba bantu bahlala bengenako ukuzithemba.

Nangona kubonakala kuyinto eqhelekileyo, ukungazithembi yingxaki yeemvakalelo ekufuneka isonjululwe kwaye kwimeko ezininzi unyango luyafuneka ukuyiphumeza, okanye ubuncinci, amandla amakhulu kwaye ngokwenene ufuna ukufezekisa olo tshintsho. Ukuzithemba okuphantsi kubonakaliswa kukungazithembi kunye neemvakalelo ezimbi ngawe. Abantu abanokuzithemba okuphantsi bahlala beziva bengonwabanga, bengonwabanga, okanye bengafanelekanga.

Abantu abanokuzithemba okuphantsi bahlala benovakalelo. Banoluvo olubuthathaka ngokwabo olunokwenzakaliswa ngokulula ngabanye. Yintoni egqithisile, abantu abanokuzithemba okuphantsi "baphaphile kakhulu" kwaye banexinzelelo kwiimpawu zokwaliwa, ukungonelanga, kunye nokwaliwa.

Inqaku elidibeneyo:

Amandla okuzithemba kwakho kuyo yonke iminyaka

Ngokuqhelekileyo, Abantu abangenantlonelo bayakubona ukungamkelwa nokungamkelwa nokuba akukho nto ibangqongileyo. Ingozi ihlala ihleli ngathi baya kwenza impazamo, basebenzise izigqibo ezimbi, benze into elihlazo, bazichaze ngokugculelwa, baziphathe kakubi okanye badelele. Ubomi, kuko konke ukwahlukahlukana, bubonisa ubungozi bokuzithemba.

Ukuzithemba ngokwakho

Ngelixa ukuzithemba komntu wonke kusesichengeni kwabanye abantu, abanokuthi bagxeke esidlangalaleni, bahlekise, okanye babonise iziphene zabo, isoyikiso esikhulu ngakumbi kubo bonke abantu abazithemba ngaphakathi.

Njengokubona indlela esiziphethe ngayo, iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo zethu, asibhalisi nje kuphela ezi zinto kulwazi kodwa sikwagweba. Ke ngoko, sinokuba ngabagxeki bethu abangqwabalala, sizigxeka ngokungenalusini xa sizifumana sisenza impazamo ekugwebeni, silibale into emasiyikhumbule, siziveze ngokungxama, sizophula ezona zithembiso zethu zingcwele, siphulukana nokuzeyisa, siziphathe njengomntwana. Ngamafutshane, ukuziphatha ngendlela esizisola ngayo nesinokuzisola ngayo.

Ilizwi elingaphakathi eligxekayo linegalelo kukuzijonga okungalunganga ngokwakho. Ukuba nembono engalunganga ngesiqu sakho kunokuba nemiphumo emibi. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu ukholelwa ukuba abanye abantu ababathandi, kunokwenzeka ukuba bakuphephe ukunxibelelana nabanye kwaye baphendule ngokukhawuleza ngokuzikhusela, ngokugxeka, okanye basenokubangxolisa abanye.

Uhlobo kunye nenqanaba lokunxibelelana nabanye liphenjelelwa ngamandla zezi ngcinga zibonwayo, ngaphandle kokuchaneka kwazo. Ngapha koko, ukuqonda kwethu ukuba simele esinye sezona siseko zibalulekileyo apho kuhlala khona ukungaziphathi kakuhle. Ukongeza, xa sizijonga ngokungalunganga, nokuba sizichaza njengabantu abangakhululekanga, abangathandekiyo, abaneentloni, njl., Kuya kusiba nzima ukukholelwa ukuba abanye banokusibona ngendlela elungileyo. Ukuzithemba okuphantsi kukuba nembono ephosakeleyo ngobomi kunye nendlela abanye abanokusichaphazela ngayo kunokuba kufanelekile.

Iimpawu zokuzithemba okuphantsi

Ukuba awazi ukuba uzithembile okanye uzithobile, mhlawumbi okwangoku unoluvo lokuba unjani kwaye uzithembile okanye akunjalo. Kodwa, Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba unesidima esincinci, sukuphoswa zezi mpawu ukuvavanya indlela ozithemba ngayo.

Ezinye iimpawu zokuzithemba ziphantsi, ngelixa ezinye zifihliwe. Ezi ziimpawu eziqhelekileyo nezincinci zomntu onokuzithemba okuphantsi.

Iimpawu eziqhelekileyo

• Ayikwazi ukuthemba uluvo lwakho
• Soloko ucinga kakhulu
• Ukoyika ukujongana nemiceli mngeni, ukhathazekile ngokungoyisi
• Kunzima kuwe kodwa uxolela abanye
• Ukuxhalaba rhoqo kunye nokudideka ngokweemvakalelo

Iimpawu ezincinci ezaziwayo

Ukuba likhoboka lomsebenzi

Emsebenzini, ulindelo lubekwe ngokucacileyo. Nokuba kukho uxinzelelo kwindawo yokusebenzela, xa kuthelekiswa nobudlelwane okanye umhlaba wentlalo apho kuninzi okungaziwayo kwaye kungalawuleki, umsebenzi ulula.

Kulula ukuhlangabezana nokulindelweyo kwaye usebenze kakuhle emsebenzini. Ke ngoko, abanye abantu abanokuzithemba okuphantsi banokutshintsha ukugxila kwabo emsebenzini kwaye babeke onke amandla abo apho.

Ukusebenza ngaphezulu okanye ukusebenza kakubi

Uninzi lwethu sele luvile ukuba abantu abazijongela phantsi bathanda ukungaphumeleli njengoko besoyika kakhulu ukuthatha imiceli mngeni emitsha kwaye abazithembi ngokwaneleyo ukuba bangazisebenzisa ngokupheleleyo iitalente zabo.

Nangona kunjalo, kukho enye into egqithisileyo. Abanye babo banomdla wokungaphumeleli kwaye bagatywa, ke baya kwenza konke okusemandleni abo ukuze bavele kwaye bazibonakalise. Le yokugqibela inokubhideka nokuzithemba okuphezulu, enyanisweni kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuyiphambanisa, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uyazi ukuba yintoni ukuze uyiqonde kwangexesha.

Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba unokuzithemba okuhle okanye akunjalo. Kwimeko apho ungenayo, kufuneka ufune uncedo ngokukhawuleza. Kuba ukuzithemba okuphantsi kunokuba nemiphumo emibi njengoxinzelelo okanye ukugqwetha okwenyani. Ukuzithemba ngokulungileyo kubalulekile ukuze ube nakho ukuphila ubomi obupheleleyo.

Khumbula ukuba ungoyena mntu uxabisekileyo ebomini bakho kwaye ngenxa yaloo nto kuphela, ubaluleke ngaphezu kokuba unokucinga. Unganqikazi ukuziva ukuba uxabiseke kangakanani kwaye wamkele ukuba unjani. Nokuba unjani okanye uneempawu ezinjani, ezo, hayi ezinye, zezona zikwenza wahluke kulo mhlaba.