Ukuzibeka kweyona nto imbi kunokuba nenqaku elithile elifanelekileyo. Ukuba uzibeka kweyona nto imbi kakhulu kwaye ke akukho nto yenzekayo, ulonwabo luya kubakho kwangoko. Abanye bacinga ukuba ukuba uhlala ulindele okubi awusoze uphoxeke.
Nangona kunjalo, kukho abo bacinga ngenye indlela:
* Ukuba uqhubeka ucinga ngokungalunganga, i-subconscious yakho iya kusebenza ukwenza oko unethemba lokuba kuyakwenzeka. Ngaphandle kokuyiqonda, usebenza ngokuchasene nawe. Kukuzenzakalisa.
* Ukuba ulindele ukuba izinto zingahambi kakuhle kwaye ekugqibeleni zingahambi kakuhle, awuyi kumangaliswa. Uza kunyusa nje amagxa akho kwaye ucinge, "Ndiyayazi." Uya kuba nemvakalelo yokuba iinkxalabo zakho zichanekile. Esi sisandulela: uya kuhlala unezinto ezimbi kwixesha elizayo kuba iinyani zingqineke zichanekile. Ngokukwanjalo, yindlela yokuzifaka ngokwakho ungaphumeleli ukuba ungoyisi.
* Usenokuncama ngokulula.
* Awuzukulwa nawo wonke umzamo wakho wokuphumelela kuba inxenye yakho ikuxelela ukuba uza kusilela.
* Amathuba okuba noxinzelelo aphezulu kuba, ngandlela thile, akukho themba.
* Uya kuphulukana namathuba.
* Inyani yakho iya kuziva ingwevu kuba ingqondo yakho ikwisimo esibi.
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