Mhlawumbi wakhe waliva igama elithi "ubomi coaching" kodwa awazi ncam ukuba libhekisa phi. okanye kutheni le nto ithandwa kangaka mva nje. Olu hlobo lokuqeqesha lunento yokwenza nendlela eqhubela phambili ukukhula komntu, efuna inguqu yangaphakathi evumela ukufezekisa iinjongo ezingafikelelwanga ngalo mzuzu.
Olu qeqesho lunceda abantu ukuba batshintshe indlela abaziva ngayo ebomini, babenenkuthazo yokwenza ukuzibophelela kwabo ukuba yinyani xa bejongana nolo tshintsho okanye olo tshintsho kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu: ukuthatha uxanduva ngezenzo zabo.
Umntu uziva ehamba nalo lonke ixesha lenkqubo yotshintsho kwaye oku kukhuthaza ukufunda okungcono ukuze umntu aguqule imeko yabo yokuqonda, yeemvakalelo kunye nokuziphatha ukufikelela kwinqanaba eliphezulu, ukuvumela Ngamana izenzo zakho zingakunceda ufezekise ezo njongo uzibone ngaphambili ukuba zikude kakhulu.
Uqeqesho lobomi ngoko ke luhlobo lokuqeqesha olujolise emntwini ukuze afumane izisombululo kunye neziphumo zoko kumkhathazayo ngexesha elithile, ukwandisa umbono wakhe wangoku kunye nekamva kwaye into emthintelayo ekufezekiseni iinjongo zakhe isusiwe ebomini bakhe ngonaphakade . Iinjongo zinokuba ngumsebenzi, ubuqu okanye ubudlelwane nabanye abantu. Umntu uqala ukutshintsha ukucinga kwakhe kwaye afumanise oko anako ukukwenza ngokwamandla akhe.
Asikokuzibaxa ukuba nethemba
Oku akuthethi ukuba umntu unombono ogqwethekileyo okanye unethemba elibaxiweyo, kude lee kulo. Injongo yokufumana uqeqesho kubomi kukuba umntu abenombono ofanelekileyo ngeenjongo afuna ukuziphumeza kunye nemiqobo abaza kudibana nayo apha endleleni. Ngale ndlela unokwenza isicwangciso sokusebenza esikuvumela ukuba ufezekise into oyifunayo.
Ukuze ungaweli kwithemba eligqithisileyo, iindlela zobuchule zisetyenziselwa ukunceda umntu ukuba aqonde ukuba banamathuba ekufuneka bewasebenzisile kwaye ngekhe bawaqonde ngaphambili. Kuya kufuneka uzibonise ngokwakho iinjongo zeentlanganiso ukuze ufumane isicwangciso sokusebenza ngokukhawuleza.
Uqeqesho lobomi ayilulo unyango olunje, kodwa kugxilwe kubuchule obufana ne-NLP (inkqubo ye-neurolinguistic), ukucamngca, izakhono zentlalo, ukuzibophelela, phakathi kwabanye. Zizindlela ezinceda umntu ukuba aqonde ukuba kutheni besenza indlela owenza ngayo kwaye kufuneka utshintshe indlela oziphethe ngayo ukuze ufumane into oyifunayo ebomini.
Umntu kufuneka aqonde ukuba kutheni esenza ngendlela enza ngayo kwaye kutheni kufuneka ayitshintshe ukuze afumane iziphumo ezilungileyo. Ngale ndlela, ungaqala umendo wotshintsho olufanelekileyo ebomini bakho. Umntu uya kuba nakho ukucinga ngendlela eyahlukileyo kwaye atshintshe amaxabiso abo ukuba kukho imfuneko, asebenze ngokwezicwangciso ezikhuthazwe ngumqeqeshi kunye kungoko ukwazi ukubhekisa iintshukumo ekufezekiseni iinjongo zakho.
Ngaba wonke umntu?
Ukuba kunjalo. Uqeqesho lobomi lolwakhe nabani na oludingayo, nangona kukho iimeko ezithile ezinokwenza ukuba uqeqesho lobomi lube luvo olulungileyo kubomi babantu, njenge:
- Abantu abafuna ukuphucula umgangatho wobomi babo
- Abantu abafuna ukwenza utshintsho nakweyiphi na indawo yobomi babo
- Abantu abafuna ukuqala iprojekthi kodwa abakwazi ukwenza isigqibo
- Abantu abaneengxaki zempilo
- Abantu abaye bafumana imicimbi eye yawenza buthathaka amandla abo emvakalelo
- Abantu abanexhala
- Abantu abafuna ukukhuthazeka ngakumbi ebomini
- Abantu abafuna ukwandisa ubuchule babo ngendlela abenza ngayo
Izibonelelo zoqeqesho lobomi
Ukufundiswa kobomi kunezibonelelo ezithile njengoko kuchaziwe ngabantu abakhe baphila kunye nabo bayifundisayo… ziyavuma ukuba zingabuphucula ubomi bakho. Kodwa ziziphi kanye kanye izibonelelo?
Lwazi usukelo olubalulekileyo. Ngobomi bokuqeqesha umntu uya kuba nakho ukuqonda iinjongo zobomi bakhe, angajonga okwangoku kwaye ayonwabele. Unokucinga kwakhona ngekamva ukuze wazi ukuba ufuna ukufezekisa ntoni ebomini kwaye itshathi indlela ekunceda ufikelele kwezo njongo ngezenzo zakho.
Ukuzithemba ngakumbi. Njengokuba umntu ezifikelela iinjongo zakhe, uya kuziva ulwaneliseko lwangaphakathi olukhulu kuba uyakwazi ukuziphumeza. Oku kuya kukunceda ukuba ube nokuzithemba okungcono kwaye uzithembe ngakumbi. Uyakwazi ukuchonga isaboteur yangaphakathi eyayingakuvumeli ngaphambili ukuba uqhubele phambili ebomini bakho ngendlela owawufuna ngayo.
Ukukhula komntu. Umntu uyakwazi ukukhula buqu kuba emkile kwindawo yakhe yokuthuthuzela. Uyakwazi ukuba nolunye uluvo ngobomi kunye neemeko nokuba ekuqaleni akukho lula njengakuqala (nokuba bekukubi). Ubunzima buba ngamathuba okukhula kuwo onke amanqanaba obomi bakho.
Ulawulo lobomi obungcono. Umntu uya kuba nakho ukulawula ngokukuko zombini isenzo sabo kunye nexesha elikhoyo suku ngalunye ukufezekisa iinjongo ezingcono. Uyakuqaphela ukuba uneempawu zokuziphatha ezingasasebenziyo kwiinjongo zakho kwaye Uya kufunda ukulawula ubomi ngokuseta iipropathi zijolise kwiinjongo zakho nakwimpilo-ntle yakho.
Unxibelelwano olungcono nesiqu sakho. Umntu uya kuba nakho ukuphucula unxibelelwano nesiqu sakhe kwaye ke ngokunjalo nabantu abamngqongileyo. Eli candelo libalulekile ukuze yonke into oyifundileyo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku ikwazi ukuhamba ngokwendalo. Okokuqala, umntu kufuneka aziqonde kwaye anxibelelane nesiqu sakhe ngaphakathi ukuze akwazi ukuthetha nokuqonda abanye, abo bamngqongileyo.
Kanye. Ufike apha, ngoku kuya kufuneka ucinge malunga nokuba olu hlobo lonyango lulungile na kwaye ukuba liza kukwazi ukukunceda ukuphucula umgangatho wobomi bakho.