Yeyiphi eyona nto ixabisekileyo esinayo thina bantu? Mhlawumbi ukukwazi ukucinga ngobomi obisingqongileyo, ukuva isandi sengoma okanye umntu othile othethayo, ukonwabela iziyolo zehlabathi? Okanye, mhlawumbi, ukubanakho ukuba kufuneka sive ivumba, ubuhle kunye nobutyebi bendalo?
UDavid Schwartz Iyaqonda ukuba eyona nto ixabisekileyo izivamvo zethu ngu "Ukuqonda kwengqondo"Oko kukuthi, ukukwazi ukuqonda umxholo wobomi bethu ngendlela eyanelisayo.
Kodwa Olu luvo lwengqondo ludlula ngaphaya kwento nje yokubona ubomi bomntu buzele ngokupheleleyo; yenza isimo sengqondo esibalulekileyo, isicwangciso sokwenza. Imalunga nephupha kunye nokukwazi ukulenza lizaliseke.
Bambalwa kuthi abayaziyo into esiyifunayo. Kwaye, nangaphantsi, siphuhlise isicwangciso sokukufezekisa.
Nangona kunjalo, ngaphandle kwesicwangciso sokusikhokela, ubomi bethu bunomdla kakhulu, siyazizalisekisa kwinqanaba elincinci kwaye sifumana mpu melelo ngaphantsi kakhulu kunokuba besinokukufumana.
Ukwaneliseka komntu kukhokelela empumelelweni
Njengoko uGqirha Schwartz esixelela, impumelelo yomntu kunye nolwaneliseko lomntu yinto enye.
Into oyibonayo ngawe, umsebenzi wakho, ubudlelwane bakho nabantu kunye nehlabathi ngokubanzi iyakunceda okanye ikwenzakalise ekufezekiseni impumelelo yakho.
Umbhali uveza abantu abaphumelele ngokwenene njenge abantu abajongana nosuku ngalunye ngenzondelelo, ukuzithemba kunye nethemba. Aba bantu bayangqinelana nesiqu sabo, banelisekile bubomi abakhethe ukubuphila.
Bayazi ukuba ukuze ube nayo yonke into ebomini kufuneka uzinikele ngokupheleleyo kuyo. Kunokuthiwa njalo "Bathanda uthando kwaye bayawuthanda umsebenzi". Aba bantu bathanda ukuhambisa abanye kwaye bonwabe kakhulu Ukwabelana ngovuyo oluziswa yimpumelelo yabo.
Babakhathalele kwaye bazinikele kwabanye, babaphatha kakuhle kwaye, ngokubuyisela kubo, nabo babaphatha kakuhle.
Enkosi ngokuqonda kwabo kwengqondo bayayazi loo nto umsebenzi, imiceli mngeni kunye nokuzincama ziyinxalenye yobomi, kwaye banesakhono sokuguqula iinkxwaleko eziza ngendlela yabo kumathuba ophuhliso lomntu.
Abantu abaphumeleleyo boyisa uloyiko ngokujongana nalo kwaye boyise iintlungu ngokuzifumana. Banesipho sokukhukula ubomi babo bemihla ngemihla ngolonwabo kunye nokusasaza olo lonwabo kubantu abanethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo lokuba babekunye nabo. Uncumo lwakhe oluqhelekileyo bubungqina bamandla akhe angaphakathi kunye nesimo sakhe sengqondo ebomini.
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